Am 25, 6.1" tall, fair, graduate and passes all yardsticks to ascertain handsomeness. No week passes without me being complimented by atleast 5persons of my handsomeness. Some will say "God really bless d woman that gave birth 2u". Despite all this qualities, my sex life is a tragedy to say the least..I have to admit that am/was a very shy guy. Though i get sometimes ,a handful of chicks that are attracted to me, This attraction does last when i get to hang out with the chick. Me Getting a gf 4 myslf is like squeezing water out of stone. I envy some of my averagely handsme buddies score some of the classic babes in town. Infact , i have tried to associatn myself wit jus any gal to build my confidence. No girl has outrightly turn me down but the relatnrhp fades away. I sumtyms 1da if am under a spell. Pls fellow nairalanders help me alleviate dis ma ordeal. Thankx 4 readin ma write-up and proffering ur ideas to enable me make amends.

Take a nice sip of cyanide.

Work on yourself man. It takes more than being handsome to hold a goodly relationship. Work on your carriage, confidence, attitude, behavior... Your personality as a whole. And, don't force it. Just be yourself.

Love come to those who seek love. Work on your games. Prepare your mind. Also, too much women in your life is divided attention.. They will be distracting you. I advise you to build your confidence....Good luck!!

Son, forget looks... Girls are more attracted to what they hear than what they see... Just bliv in ursef and be confident... Put it at the back of ur head, "all girls take a shit"... No one is a goddess! Sometimes we over rate them n consequently drown ourselves in complexes... Y? Pls don't misquote me, respect a woman not worship her... Work on ur confidence and conversational skill (not boring topics). Some gals r talkatives, b ready to b a gud listener n contribute where necessary.. Some r mutes, those ones r more tricky to handle... Dey prefer action to words... Take a bold step outta ur fears son!

op..are you a virgin?

Post yourr pics and let's assess how handsome you are..

Forget about ladies and relationships. Immerse yourself in building your career and making money. Trust me, in the nearest future you shall thank me.

Hmmmm....Good to hear

Mrs.Chima:
Take a nice sip of cyanide.

cyanide? dats wicked......otapiapia wld hv been beta

shirley whyte: Post yourr pics and let's assess how handsome you are..

I can't post me pic here for privacy concerns. I should have given u ma fcbk i.d but dnt also wanna expose my identity here.

tpacalipse: Forget about ladies and relationships. Immerse yourself in building your career and making money. Trust me, in the nearest future you shall thank me.

Thanks bro. Bt dat doesn't mean mean am just focusing on women. I also pursue my career bt wl all are humans. Every1 of us need d opposite sex in some point in lyf.

Mrs.Chima:
Take a nice sip of cyanide.

Hahaha...

Enegod: op..are you a virgin?

Am a gentleman

uniqueval: Son, forget looks... Girls are more attracted to what they hear than what they see... Just bliv in ursef and be confident... Put it at the back of ur head, "all girls take a shit"... No one is a goddess! Sometimes we over rate them n consequently drown ourselves in complexes... Y? Pls don't misquote me, respect a woman not worship her... Work on ur confidence and conversational skill (not boring topics). Some gals r talkatives, b ready to b a gud listener n contribute where necessary.. Some r mutes, those ones r more tricky to handle... Dey prefer action to words... Take a bold step outta ur fears son!

Thankx bro. Priceless contribution

beylinko: Work on yourself man. It takes more than being handsome to hold a goodly relationship. Work on your carriage, confidence, attitude, behavior... Your personality as a whole. And, don't force it. Just be yourself.

Thankx 4 ur thought

Bandeco:
I can't post me pic here for privacy concerns. I should have given u ma fcbk i.d but dnt also wanna expose my identity here.

lolz..PRIVACY ooo,xo posting ur pix n giving ur fb i.d is privacy,if dose r private i guess wat ur numba or ur bbm pin would be....privacy indeed!!y open d thread in d first place wen u knw u want PRIVACY?mtchewwwu

Your handsomeness

Harbosede02: lolz..PRIVACY ooo,xo posting ur pix n giving ur fb i.d is privacy,if dose r private i guess wat ur numba or ur bbm pin would be....privacy indeed!!y open d thread in d first place wen u knw u want PRIVACY?mtchewwwu

Y are u ranting.. I don't wana type anytin dat wil reveal my true person, cos most of my friends also visit dis thread. Don't want dm to knw dat i posted this. I want it to be remain anonymous. Send me ur fcbk i.d leme add u.if u don't mind. Inbox it to me if u cnt type it here.

Bandeco:
Am a gentleman

try to bleep any lady you are in a relationship with...that will make her stay with you for long.....

Maybe you are so shy to the point that you can be boring.
Or maybe you are gay

Low self-esteem stinks you need to man up go watch Mad men and consume those aura in which Frank Draper and Roger Sterling carry themselves then watch Suits and monitor harvey. seriously what's wrong with the millenial kids these days. Maybe for me its easy cuz i normally don't give shi.t what people think.......except my family.

This thread is worthless without pics

Bandeco:
Y are u ranting.. I don't wana type anytin dat wil reveal my true person, cos most of my friends also visit dis thread. Don't want dm to knw dat i posted this. I want it to be remain anonymous. Send me ur fcbk i.d leme add u.if u don't mind. Inbox it to me if u cnt type it here.

u wish!

Are you not confused and fake human being??
Gbafue gi there.

Bandeco:
I can't post me pic here for privacy concerns. I should have given u ma fcbk i.d but dnt also wanna expose my identity here.

uniqueval: Son, forget looks... Girls are more attracted to what they hear than what they see... Just bliv in ursef and be confident... Put it at the back of ur head, "all girls take a shit"... No one is a goddess! Sometimes we over rate them n consequently drown ourselves in complexes... Y? Pls don't misquote me, respect a woman not worship her... Work on ur confidence and conversational skill (not boring topics). Some gals r talkatives, b ready to b a gud listener n contribute where necessary.. Some r mutes, those ones r more tricky to handle... Dey prefer action to words... Take a bold step outta ur fears son!

plz fellow forumites...there's dis lady I met in my PPA where I serve...we've been working together for some months now...we fund of each other,I like her so such and I fink she likes me too...even @ work she's always talking to me,hold my hands and stuffs like dat...@ break time we always together and pple fink we already dating...I told her abt my ex how she broke my heart and she encouraged me to move on wit my life...she also gave me indications dat she's single though she said she's dating a guy she never said yes to for abt 7 yrs but she don't love him and she's broken up wit d guy several times and dis guy keeps coming to beg her and they always fix fins up and all...I realise my feelins for dis girl become stronger day by day and one day I took a bold step to ask her out on BB cuz I couldn't even face her to tell her cuz of d unknowns....but her response was shocking...she said she's surprised am asking her out cuz she wasn't xpecting it from me and all...she said she only want to take me as a friend,a very gud one she can confide in,a best friend and all...I was so disappointed in myself....I really really like dis girl and she told me she likes me too but she doesn't want to date me even if she's not into any committed relationship....after all said and done she still won't stop talking to me,looking into my eyes,calling me on fone,come to my house,cuddle me up wit hugs and all....she said she doent want to break my heart dat she can't just opt out of d relationship she's into cuz d guy hasn't done anyfin wrong to her even if she really don't like d guy....plz I need ur advice...is she hiding her feelings for me or she just want us to be friends....cuz I fink my relationship wit her @ d moment is more than just friends....do u fink she will agree to date me wit time if I cool domw or should I just forget abt her and don't remind her of my proposal?plz I await ur response....its urgent...fanx alot

tunamost: plz fellow forumites...there's dis lady I met in my PPA where I serve...we've been working together for some months now...we fund of each other,I like her so such and I fink she likes me too...even @ work she's always talking to me,hold my hands and stuffs like dat...@ break time we always together and pple fink we already dating...I told her abt my ex how she broke my heart and she encouraged me to move on wit my life...she also gave me indications dat she's single though she said she's dating a guy she never said yes to for abt 7 yrs but she don't love him and she's broken up wit d guy several times and dis guy keeps coming to beg her and they always fix fins up and all...I realise my feelins for dis girl become stronger day by day and one day I took a bold step to ask her out on BB cuz I couldn't even face her to tell her cuz of d unknowns....but her response was shocking...she said she's surprised am asking her out cuz she wasn't xpecting it from me and all...she said she only want to take me as a friend,a very gud one she can confide in,a best friend and all...I was so disappointed in myself....I really really like dis girl and she told me she likes me too but she doesn't want to date me even if she's not into any committed relationship....after all said and done she still won't stop talking to me,looking into my eyes,calling me on fone,come to my house,cuddle me up wit hugs and all....she said she doent want to break my heart dat she can't just opt out of d relationship she's into cuz d guy hasn't done anyfin wrong to her even if she really don't like d guy....plz I need ur advice...is she hiding her feelings for me or she just want us to be friends....cuz I fink my relationship wit her @ d moment is more than just friends....do u fink she will agree to date me wit time if I cool domw or should I just forget abt her and don't remind her of my proposal?plz I await ur response....its urgent...fanx alot

Bro! Why not open a thread? This would make an interesting thread you know. If you ask me, let it pass, the girl only fancies your company. Asking her out wasn't out of place but its cool she told you her mind and she's still mature with it. Go on with her as if nothing ever happened, I see your relationship becoming friends with benefit before it becomes a real deal. Trust me, I had one here and after the asking out incidence, I continued chatting with her and hanging out as if nothing happened, people put ideas in her head by insinuating that two of us are a couple, though she doesn't rebuff it. I continued with her with no intention of doing any hanky-panky but I have over the time se.xed her severally, even though she knows my girlfriend now and I ofcourse know her boyfriend, we're sort of....FriendsWithBenefits now...

You need to boost your confidence

SniperInADiaper: This thread is worthless without pics

are you interested in the OP?

Omolola1: You need to boost your confidence

Nah he is not ready to be in a relationship..Buh wait,who knows He might be the stingy type

Enegod: try to bleep any lady you are in a relationship with...that will make her stay with you for long.....

I was shy bt i think have overcome it now

SniperInADiaper: This thread is worthless without pics

Are u on fcbk? If u wish to see my pix, inbox me ur fcbk i.d let me add u straight away.