I'm a fresh graduate from Unilag, I must Confess that i know i am very comely in many ways and that explains the bevy of women around me, but i av realised that having a lot of women is really not in my interest. Considering the fact that I am kinda Job Hunting and turned a new leaf.
Besides most of these girls threw thierselves at me, the problem now is, How do i extricate myself from these girls, I really wish to do so without hurting anyone anymore, 'cos i have already hurt some.

Secondly, there was this one that became very close to me at service, I was just having fun, but she was building her obsession, now she's in limbo with me, each time we have a little quarell, she almost kills herself, infact i am amazed because she knew about the my escapades at service, yet she wouldn't loosen her grip on me. I Know i Cant marry her, what should i do, please i need ur advice.
She sees me as pretending when i tell her i am now a new creature in the Lord.

be straight and serious and tell her Ur plans, no smiling, let her know U're very serious bout it, not sumtin to joke bout

dont lead them on in anyway, no playful hugs,none of that stuff some girls hmmmm, but then when u do that people will be quick to call u a gay, anyways God help u

OKO IYAWO a cyear ago , i would have said play on, play, but at my age now i'll say, don't hurt no one , we know how weak girls are, don't abuse their weakness dude!

as a new man in the lord, I'll advice u put everything in prayer and see wait on the lord. He works in miraculous ways

@dearie

she knew about the my escapades at service, yet she wouldn't loosen her grip on me. I Know i Cant marry her, what should i do, please i need your advice.
She sees me as pretending when i tell her i am now a new creature in the Lord.

Which one is "escapades at service".

hhmmmm

It happens bros and just keep prayin lol

if u tell them ur seeing a special gurl and they dont leave u alone just play ball abeg when/if u feel like it

or change location or phone numbers

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