The way you see people is the way you treat them

Not really!! I like cutting everyone some slack and giving them a benefit of the doubt!!

But when you prove you don't want or deserve the fair chance i'm trying to offer, then yes i'll treat you the way is see you Cos you indirectly said that's the way you want to be treated


You can take a horse to the stream, but you cannot force it to drink!!

we all treat everyone (and everything) as we see them-- except I mis-interpreted the question. First or tenth impressions, we all react to people in our environment, based on how we deem appropriate. Everything IS as everything APPEARS.

why do you want to know anyways?

Very interesting this. I did this equality and diversity course some time ago which started by saying that the way we all treat people we meet is based on our own perceptions and preconceptions. That everybody has a bit of bias and prejudice in them, You just have to know how not to let it show inappropriately and you should learn how not to judge people at the very first encounter. This led to a very lively debate. The fact is the tutor was right. by the way, the tutor was trans sexual pre-op as well.

@OP well well well. . .

I treat everyone the same way but if they start getting on my nerves, I might get too emotional at times

@ macalurs
Not everything is as it appears, sumtyms what u see from where you stand is probably a 110% different.
@ post
yeah, it is our initial or default behaviour to take people as we see dem, but with tym, some of us have learnt thru various xperiences or discussions that it sumtyms pays to give pple a benefit of d doubt.