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I disagree with you. Yes, SOME girls are pretenders but some are real and blunt. It depends on individuals. Life is a great teacher, with great lessons. One day, the girl matures into a lady, from a lady to MS, Miserable Spinster and finally to a Madam. In all these stages, truth and realities will help her to survive any stormy relationship.
The virgin angle is a non issue.

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Girls are pretenders eh? well I say the world is a stage so c'mon y'all put on your best performance.

Everyone pretends . . both guys and girls!

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@ poster, I disagree.

you wan make people put poster for head about all dey are? the joy of meeting people is gradually knowing them with time.

StephenP:

@ poster, I disagree.

Straight to the point.

naimmy:

i strongly disagree with rotimy which kind tin u dey talk lik a storyteller do u know more dan girls in d house girls pretends in everything don't u know some pretend until dey get married even in marriage dey still pretend i pray u marry a pretender nd u will know what i mean.

Naomi My dear, I strongly hold on to my opinion that NOT ALL ladies are pretenders. Even in serious issues in life, generalisation is totally unacceptable! So do you believe all men are cheaters? Or that all Nigerians all corrupt?
So even Christian born-again ladies are all pretenders and those Muslim Sisters in NASFAT are all hypocrites?
It is a weak arguement. That there are fake jewels does not mean that gold and diamond are not real

rotimmy, you yan like man.you be de man

SIDE A:
-Weave-ons and wigs
-False eyelashes
-Make-up
-False nails
-Push-up/ padded bras
-Waist beads or shorts to enhance hips
-Skin bleaching creams
-Fake accents
-High heels to enhance height

SIDE B:
-Borrowed money(to impress)
-Borrowed crib(to impress)
-Borrowed handset
-Borrowed car
-Borrowed ATM card
-Fake accent
-False 'achievement stories'
-False 'toasting lines'

Hmm.Pretenders abound .Not pointing fingers,just contributing to the discussion

And with all the evidence and exhibits by cristalz, I hereby declare, no victor no vanquished!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
case dismissed.

All rise please!
COOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUURRRRRTTT!!!!!

Hey, Just because your girlfriends are grimey doesn't mean every [b]girl[/b]is. Pick your friends wisely!

;d :d

These are individual issues applicable to some people in either sexes

@poster,
I disagree too

superboi:

rotimmy, you yan like man.you be de man

Rotimy is a 41 year old Man that have seen it all. It is so easy and cool for some Nairalanders to join the band wagons and cast stones on their targets. I am entitled to my own opinion which may be different to yours. Fortunately, I have met some ladies that are not preteders and I am happily married to one of them!

as a social scientist, i have been trained to believe that it is wrong to make such off statement like" all girls are pretenders"without research.
but most time we mostly have to make generaization about human behaviours, it is more comfortable to make generaization, you will be more guided in life. but before making generalization we must be careful to avoid making errors.
most time we generalize using the majority or degree of such occurances.

therefore in as much as we know that not all girls are pretenders, we are very much aware that most girls are pretenders, this knowledge should instead of make u stigmatize them, it should guide u in the prosess of selection, and involvment.
look around you, it is very obvious that most girls are pretenders, denying it means lying to yourself. if out of 100 girls 70 are pretenders. i think we should be confortable to say that all girls are pretenders. 70% is strong enof

Girls are pretenders? Natural ones