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Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by Nobody: 9:54am On Jul 31, 2013
m.k.o2005:

It is easier for a gay person to have s,e.x, with the above highlighted than for the straight guy to do so ! Any one who does that might not be reasoning well at that time and should not be supported by attending his union with a goat,dog,fowl etc like you want to support the and attend gay union !

God help us

And who made you the judge? It is wrong for christians to have sex, because your god is always watching...i wonder how much fun he/it derives from masturbating from the sky watching you christian having sex since he wants to know where you put your tools .

I keep hearing " God help us". It should be " we help God"
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by Tori46(f): 9:55am On Jul 31, 2013
No bcus God is against it

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Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by Costa2000(m): 9:56am On Jul 31, 2013
Alu,ngwere agbaa aji,Chukwu aju,nwannem gay? mbanu.Akwu anaghi acha na odu igu.nga esiaghaa kpo ndi umunnam oku na ofu nwoke biara inu nwannem nwoke?.Ekwensu yoooo.

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Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by mko2005: 9:56am On Jul 31, 2013
ifeness:

"If God says" when did God say? No evidence that God said anything. You can believe anything,that is why people like you are called believers.

Who made the laws we have today? Same people who created all religions on the planet. Do you think these people will like you to know the truth bout your religion ?
Ifesnes,if i quote scriptures to you will not follow becos u don't beleive. I said God said according to HIS WORD(Bible)and you are asking me when did God say !By the special grace of the Almighty God,the holy spirit will convict you and you will accept HIS son Jesus Christ !

God help us

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Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by mko2005: 9:58am On Jul 31, 2013
ifeness:

And who made you the judge? It is wrong for christians to have sex, because your god is always watching...i wonder how much fun he/it derives from masturbating from the sky watching you christian having sex since he wants to know where you put your tools .

I keep hearing " God help us". It should be " we help God"

Hhehehehehehe ! 'Funny pagan' I was once a pagan and very funny like you until i located Christ ! Don't worry,you will not die until you find Jesus and get saved !

God help us

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Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by Nobody: 10:02am On Jul 31, 2013
m.k.o2005:

Ifesnes,if i quote scriptures to you will not follow becos u don't beleive. I said God said according to HIS WORD(Bible)and you are asking me when did God say !By the special grace of the Almighty God,the holy spirit will convict you and you will accept HIS son Jesus Christ !

God help us

You do not even know the true meaning of the Holy Spirit not to talk of knowing Christ . You are nothing but a blind follower of the Bible. Keep swimming in ignorance. You certainly deserve to be a believer in lies

We help God

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Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by Nobody: 10:04am On Jul 31, 2013
m.k.o2005:


Hhehehehehehe ! 'Funny pagan' I was once a pagan and very funny like you until i located Christ ! Don't worry,you will not die until you find Jesus and get saved !

God help us

Only the truth can set you free. Until then, i cannot help you. Either way you worship the Sun even though you do not know it.

We help God
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by MrAboki: 10:17am On Jul 31, 2013
m.k.o2005:


Love ur neighbor is not a synonym of 'not telling the truth' ! Christianity is not stupidity !

God help us

Telling what truth?!
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by Fxwarrior: 10:20am On Jul 31, 2013
15 likes for this disgusting post? undecided Well I haven't seen or heard it happened in Nigeria.They are cowards let them be open about it if they are proud of it. As if they don't know what is evil.
I don't support any gay thrash.

Efemena_xy:

Why not?

Does being gay make them any less of a human being?

Do they not contribute their quota if not more to society? e.g taxes?

Yes, not only will I attend such weddings if I'm lucky to be invited to one, I'll use that as an excuse to go shopping, get myself some TLC from the salon/hair dressers and buy them a big present wrapped beautifully and an equally nice congratulatory wedding card to go with it.

Then I'll dance the happy dance at their reception and really let my hair down.
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by grandstar(m): 10:25am On Jul 31, 2013
pc guru:
Its half a step, its almost practically the same.
most straights i repeat do not like sodomy or a.nal sex. which right thinking girl will even open her bum 4 u?i support tolerance and not hatred of gays.i can employ 1
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by Makapounse(m): 10:34am On Jul 31, 2013
capital NOOOOOOOO
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by mko2005: 10:35am On Jul 31, 2013
Mr Aboki:

Telling what truth?!
JESUS ! The WORD !
HE IS THE WAY
THE TRUTH
AND THE LIFE !
GOD HELP US
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by Nobody: 10:39am On Jul 31, 2013
m.k.o2005:


Christians should help to save the lives of Homosexuals and other perverts and not help to destroy them ! If i see a drunk man whether homo or semo,i should help becos he God's creation !

God help us

I like the way you think, you are actually different from the fanatic pack, my point exactly i don't support Homosexuality but who am i to judge them, according to the bible we are all sinners, there are no variations of sin, sin is sin. I wish others can be like you.
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by Nobody: 10:45am On Jul 31, 2013
grandstar: most straights i repeat do not like sodomy or a.nal sex. which right thinking girl will even open her bum 4 u?i support tolerance and not hatred of gays.i can employ 1
ehmmmmm a babe i was intimate with, tried sticking a di*** into me, she's atually in to gay porn, truly this generation is over exposed, and i mean that with little exaggeration, i am no saint but i know enough that this generation is totally going out of control, this millennial kids are being programmed by the media, they see it as cool or the "in-thing". A girl kissing a girl is seen as slutty, now the context for the word "slutty" is used in a negative-positive way. That girl is slutty, even most girls go out of their way to be slutty so that they can fit in, just as when a guy sleeps with mutiple partners he's called a "bad guy" now notice the context of the word "bad" another negative-positive way. sometimes it hard catching up with this contexts and Double entendres.

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Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by ianq: 10:49am On Jul 31, 2013
m.k.o2005:

Ifesnes,if i quote scriptures to you will not follow becos u don't beleive. I said God said according to HIS WORD(Bible)and you are asking me when did God say !By the special grace of the Almighty God,the holy spirit will convict you and you will accept HIS son Jesus Christ !

God help us

@ m.k.o2005 true, brother. 1 CORINTHIANS 1:18-21.
You could debate the issue with them till sunrise of the following day and still no headway would be made.
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by Nobody: 11:00am On Jul 31, 2013
grin ;DAs long as jollof rice and pepsi surplus why wont i go there? ;DAs

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Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by Soludo11: 11:34am On Jul 31, 2013
Eeeeeeyaaaaah! Sorry, my brother can't be a gay.
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by RealSleek(m): 12:18pm On Jul 31, 2013
I don't have problem with girl and girl tinz ....bt man on man :- I think not.
There are so many pleasurable spots on women infact I can watch two girls do things to each other..hmm..the fingering, tickling of dem hard nipples, kissing and sucking of those succulent clit lips, and licking the sweet cum as it trickle down those sexy thighs...its a joy to behold...
But man on man..its a waste of time undecided ..I mean wetin dey man body?...shey na me go finger dt stinking anus ..or begin dey suck anoda man...over my dead body....
There is nothing like the essence of a woman.....male HOMO is bull crap
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by RealSleek(m): 12:19pm On Jul 31, 2013
I don't have problem with girl on girl tinz ....bt man on man :- I think not.
There are so many pleasurable spots on women infact I can watch two girls do things to each other..hmm..the fingering, tickling of dem hard nipples, kissing and sucking of those succulent clit lips, and licking the sweet cum as it trickle down those sexy thighs...its a joy to behold...
But man on man..its a waste of time undecided ..I mean wetin dey man body?...shey na me go finger dt stinking anus ..or begin dey suck anoda man...over my dead body....
There is nothing like the essence of a woman.....male HOMO is bull crap
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by mko2005: 12:24pm On Jul 31, 2013
ianq:

@ m.k.o2005 true, brother. 1 CORINTHIANS 1:18-21.
You could debate the issue with them till sunrise of the following day and still no headway would be made.
thanks iand especially for the below :
''For after that in the wisdom of God the world by wisdom knew not God, it pleased God by the fool.ishn;ess of preaching to save them that believe.''

God help us
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by RealSleek(m): 12:27pm On Jul 31, 2013
teknology: grin ;DAs long as jollof rice and pepsi surplus why wont i go there? ;DAs

Alajenu

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Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by manny4life(m): 12:36pm On Jul 31, 2013
ianq:

You seem,on the surface,to make a compelling case but have a contradictory remark in "...no one knows the criteria by which God will judge in the last day".That just doesn't convey to me, any meaning. Why would there be a judgement if there isn't a known, clearly defined body of rules/guidelines/criteria to begin with? Nay, we cannot claim ignorance of these things for it's all right there in the Bible and The Spirit testifies of them in our hearts.
Another remark that has me wondering at your overall meaning is, "Play your part and preach to your gay brother..." I understand that I am to do this and, if you did follow my previous explanation,that is exactly what i advocated doing when I said I would do my utmost in ensuring he came to the realization his homosexual inclination just isn't the way to go...unless, of course,you mean something entirely different on the content to be preached.
Are you a believer in The Word? Are you a married man? (I mean to a woman, of course) What would your stance be,if you had a son who said they are homosexual? Or your brother(assuming you aren't married) telling you he is aroused by men? Or your enemy...you find out he is gay? I'm assuming you do love each one of these people dearly; how would you react to their homosexuality? Live and let live?



When you go to a court to rule, whether you're a plaintiff or defendant, do you know the criteria on how the judge will deliver his ruling? The best you can do is follow the simple rule of law of the land, and leave the rest for the judge and jury to decide your faith.

That is my point here: NO ONE, and I repeat NO ONE knows how GOD will judge, GOD gave us specific instructions, like the the OT, he gave them the 10 Commandments, in the our NT, he gave us newer laws through his son Jesus Christ. No one as asked you to claim ignorance, but like I said, the Bible did not specify how GOD will judge, but how you should live your live and the greatest commandment is LOVE.

As for the second paragraph, if that's what you advocated, then simple it is...

Am I a believer in the Word? The way people have tagged "titles" in religion is amazing, which one is "believer in the word"? Well, I'm a Christian and I believe in the word of God and the principles our Christ laid, so yes I believe. I have read the Bible several times that I know how to react in situations like that, I will not allow religion dictate for me, because if my religion dictated for me, I would be in direct contradictions to the word of GOD.

From the accessories I wear, to the food/water I eat/drink, to the place I work, I mean EVERYTHING will contradict GOD's words, AND the Bible STOPPED SHORT "Sabbath was made for man, and not man for Sabbath", so it means Laws of Sabbath were created to serve us and not the other way. We're not under the OLD Laws, though Jesus said "we should not throw away the laws and the commandment (Romans 1 and 1 Tim 1 so YES,) and what was the greatest law/commandment? I will react in a GODLY way like Christ commanded (preach the word and testify LOVE) and LIVE MY LIFE.
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by mko2005: 12:51pm On Jul 31, 2013
manny4life:



When you go to a court to rule, whether you're a plaintiff or defendant, do you know the criteria on how the judge will deliver his ruling? The best you can do is follow the simple rule of law of the land, and leave the rest for the judge and jury to decide your faith.

That is my point here: NO ONE, and I repeat NO ONE knows how GOD will judge, GOD gave us specific instructions, like the the OT, he gave them the 10 Commandments, in the our NT, he gave us newer laws through his son Jesus Christ. No one as asked you to claim ignorance, but like I said, the Bible did not specify how GOD will judge, but how you should live your live and the greatest commandment is LOVE.

As for the second paragraph, if that's what you advocated, then simple it is...

Am I a believer in the Word? The way people have tagged "titles" in religion is amazing, which one is "believer in the word"? Well, I'm a Christian and I believe in the word of God and the principles our Christ laid, so yes I believe. I have read the Bible several times that I know how to react in situations like that, I will not allow religion dictate for me, because if my religion dictated for me, I would be in direct contradictions to the word of GOD.

From the accessories I wear, to the food/water I eat/drink, to the place I work, I mean EVERYTHING will contradict GOD's words, AND the Bible STOPPED SHORT "Sabbath was made for man, and not man for Sabbath", so it means Laws of Sabbath were created to serve us and not the other way. We're not under the OLD Laws, though Jesus said "we should not throw away the laws and the commandment (Romans 1 and 1 Tim 1 so YES,) and what was the greatest law/commandment? I will react in a GODLY way like Christ commanded (preach the word and testify LOVE) and LIVE MY LIFE.
OF COURSE NOT LIVE AND LET'S LIVE ! We will try to correct them with love ! And if they refuse,we will retreat and continue to intercede on their behalf in prayer !
It is well !
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by manny4life(m): 12:52pm On Jul 31, 2013
One last thing before I head out for work,

If GOD after judging our ways were to use the GREATEST COMMANDMENT (LOVE) to crown it all as FINAL JUDGEMENT, 99% of people in this world WILL NEVER see the Kingdom of God. You know why, the level of hate emanating from folks is just too disheartening.

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Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by manny4life(m): 12:52pm On Jul 31, 2013
m.k.o2005:

OF COURSE NOT LIVE AND LET'S LIVE ! We will try to correct them with love ! And if they refuse,we will retreat and continue to intercede on their behalf in prayer !
It is well !

It is well with you my brother... IJN.

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Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by Ladyjaymax(f): 12:58pm On Jul 31, 2013
donroxy: I can never attend such a devilish,unnatural,disgusting and anti-social gathering ... !!!


Gay kwa ...... Abi dem chop craze, na to go scatter the wedding self !!!


Ko tie gbodo shele nile Oodua tiwa !!!
ur text is xo on point, nt on ma lyf would i attend such devilish gathering.......mo taka oshi danu

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Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by HezronLorraine(m): 1:28pm On Jul 31, 2013
peppy luv: Yes oooooooo grin grin and hez sori if I twisted ur words wink
No probs dear.
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by Oloriebi22(m): 1:35pm On Jul 31, 2013
if them give me rice i go atend grin grin grin
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by Nobody: 1:52pm On Jul 31, 2013
Of cos not, ℓ no wan go spend ten years for jail ˚ƍöôϑ˚˚ Oº°˚˚°
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by flexshop(m): 1:53pm On Jul 31, 2013
manny4life:

Isn't your argument VERY convenient? You're so quick to call it EVIL, yet, but you ignore ALL the Bible regards as EVIL. Besides, the Bible said your salvation is your own race and not you and someone else, like I said, you ain't got to support them, but if I recall my Bible, the GREATEST TEACHING of our Lord Jesus Christ WAS LOVE, LOVE, LOVE and not passing quick judgement on what that persons redemption or validating if their existence is legitimate or not.

So yes I get your point just not buying into it.

You are not reading my posts at all, I posited that sin is evil. I didn't single out any sin and call it good. I am not coercing you to buy into my school of thought, I only want you to look at things from a moral point of view. Homosexuals,necromancers,thieves,prostitutes,fornicators,liars etc etc will sure go to hell.
If we are not to judge and I repeat see things from the human rights POV, then necrophiliac,prostitutes,people who engage in bestiality and many other such abnormal existences have a case.
Forget what they told you in the western media,homosexuality is a psychological and biological disorder. I'm still carrying out a research on that, Just as necrophilia is. In another thread I told a gay rights activist that with the right combination of chemicals, I can turn him gay. I have indeed succeeded in that feat with albino mice. So if I string my hypothesis together, I will prove beyond reasonable doubt that gay right movements are actually evil conceptions to make a human defect seem normal.

@hezron, I understand your plight, being gay aint your fault.its either its learned like you posited from your post viz raised that way or its a genetic or physiological disorder.a therapy is on the way.meanwhile, you guys are in my prayers.your healing may come sooner
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by ianq: 2:25pm On Jul 31, 2013
manny4life:



When you go to a court to rule, whether you're a plaintiff or defendant, do you know the criteria on how the judge will deliver his ruling? The best you can do is follow the simple rule of law of the land, and leave the rest for the judge and jury to decide your faith.

That is my point here: NO ONE, and I repeat NO ONE knows how GOD will judge, GOD gave us specific instructions, like the the OT, he gave them the 10 Commandments, in the our NT, he gave us newer laws through his son Jesus Christ. No one as asked you to claim ignorance, but like I said, the Bible did not specify how GOD will judge, but how you should live your live and the greatest commandment is LOVE.

As for the second paragraph, if that's what you advocated, then simple it is...

Am I a believer in the Word? The way people have tagged "titles" in religion is amazing, which one is "believer in the word"? Well, I'm a Christian and I believe in the word of God and the principles our Christ laid, so yes I believe. I have read the Bible several times that I know how to react in situations like that, I will not allow religion dictate for me, because if my religion dictated for me, I would be in direct contradictions to the word of GOD.

From the accessories I wear, to the food/water I eat/drink, to the place I work, I mean EVERYTHING will contradict GOD's words, AND the Bible STOPPED SHORT "Sabbath was made for man, and not man for Sabbath", so it means Laws of Sabbath were created to serve us and not the other way. We're not under the OLD Laws, though Jesus said "we should not throw away the laws and the commandment (Romans 1 and 1 Tim 1 so YES,) and what was the greatest law/commandment? I will react in a GODLY way like Christ commanded (preach the word and testify LOVE) and LIVE MY LIFE.

Let it not amaze you when I mention 'The Word'. I have simply culled directly from John 1:1-5 and I am relieved that you do affirm your faith in The Lord's Christ, brother.
I agree with you when you say that we cannot claim ignorance at the final judgement;that assertion is in tandem with my previous argument.
You still seem to be avoiding the direct question I asked, though. What would your stance/reaction be towards a homosexual son, brother or even enemy? Recall the question as posed by the OP. Would you assume indifference, by explaining it isn't our duty to judge(and,indeed it isn't) or would you, knowing the criteria on the matter(1 COR 6:9-20) ,attempt in true love to point them to the way of 'The Word'?
Re: Can You Attend The Marriage Of A Gay Brother Or Relative? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Jul 31, 2013
manny4life: One last thing before I head out for work,

If GOD after judging our ways were to use the GREATEST COMMANDMENT (LOVE) to crown it all as FINAL JUDGEMENT, 99% of people in this world WILL NEVER see the Kingdom of God. You know why, the level of hate emanating from folks is just too disheartening.

You are so on point!

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