It is a sad fact, but there is no such
thing as a perfect relationship. So,
although you might be in love with
your better half, there’s always a
chance that she might be cheating on
you. Contrary to what your macho side
might think, you may not be the center
of her universe after all.
But you can rest easy. Here is a top 10
list of signs she’s cheating on you.
While all the cheating signs that follow
may not imply that she is in fact
cheating on you, each is definitely a
warning that something is amiss with
your ladylove. Depending on the
scenario, you may need to look further
for more signs she’s cheating on you.
1. She
detaches
herself from your family
The fact that she no longer wants to
attend your family’s functions or hang
with your friends is one of our signs
she’s cheating on you. This sign may
be indicative of cheater’s remorse on
her part, which means that she likely
feels guilty about cheating. The less
she immerses herself in your circles
(which contain people who are painful
reminders of her sins), the less mental
anguish she’ll have to endure.
2. She nags you incessantly
Gone are the days when the two of you
could communicate with harmonious
precision. Now, every sentiment you
express sets her off and she finds any
excuse to lash out at you. If such an
about-face sounds familiar, she may be
subconsciously trying to justify her
little tryst. Nagging you helps
eliminate or at least ease her nagging
guilt. So if she habitually begins to
point out your every flaw, you may
want to get to the bottom of what’s
really going on because it’s one of the
signs she’s cheating on you.
3. She has a mysterious friend
A telltale sign that your woman is
cheating arises when a mysterious
friend inches his way into the picture.
Whether it’s someone she claims is a
coworker or an old friend from way
back, she keeps this friendship under
wraps and is hesitant to share any
general details about him, much less
introduce you. And it doesn’t take a
Ph.D. to figure out why.
4. She deflects simple questions
You should be suspicious of your
girlfriend when she refuses to answer
the simplest and fairest of questions or
answers questions only after repeating
them back to you, which usually
indicates a mind that’s searching for a
lie. Be wary of times when, rather than
reveal that she got home at midnight,
she begrudgingly asks, “Why do you
want to know what time I left the
coffee shop?” If she gets defensive
about disclosing information that she
used to volunteer without hesitation,
she may be hiding something or
someone and it’s one of the surest
signs she’s cheating on you.
5. She shifts priorities away from you
If she is involved in a hot and heavy
romance with someone else, you’ll
definitely feel a shift in her daily
priorities. Suddenly, there are no more
implied Sunday dates at the movies or
something always comes up on dance-
lesson Thursday. There is a tendency
for most philanderers to
schedule meetings with their new
flame as often as they can, which
results in a complete disregard for
previous engagements.
6. She puts more effort into looking
sexy
You may like her just the way she is,
but that won’t stop her from trying to
dazzle her new fling. Just as you tried
to impress each other at the beginning
of your relationship, she’ll try to
impress her new flame with a sudden
urge to improve her style, change her
makeup and alter her physical
appearance for the new man in her
life. So, while her desire to look
sexier is one thing, not caring about
your opinion on the matter is quite
another.
7. She becomes autonomous
One of the biggest signs she’s cheating
on you is her breaking away from your
little two-person unit to become more
autonomous. She has dropped ” we”
from her vocabulary in favor of “I.”
Moreover, she does more things on
her own and stops consulting you
about future plans. In short, she
conducts herself in ways that hint that
she no longer needs you to hold her
hand. Whether she’s hoping you’ll
leave her or she’s simply looking for
more time to lead her “double life,” it’s
safe to conclude that she wants you
out of the picture — she just can’t
build up the nerve to leave you.
8. She is secretive about her schedule
She may claim to no longer have time
for any extracurricular activities with
you, yet she has one foot out the door
the minute one of her girlfriends calls.
Either that or she has been “going
away on business” one too many times.
And when she does leave, her
whereabouts are sketchy at best and
you are somehow always the last to
know. Disclosing her itinerary to you
at the last minute and overlooking
your plans in the process can mean
many things, one of which isn’t that
she’s forgetting, but rather leaving you
out.
9. You become irrelevant
What could be worse than a girlfriend
who nags you about absolutely
everything? How about one who stops
noticing that you’re even alive? All at
once, she doesn’t care if you don’t
want to go to the saloon with her;
she’ll just find somebody else with
whom to go. And whatever opinion you
may have, be it about how she looks or
how you’re feeling, is met with a tepid
response. In other words, she doesn’t
place the same importance on what
you think and what you do as she once
did, especially on things that directly
affect the relationship.

2 and 4 are so true.

and in the end he puts up a post about her on Nairaland!!