Hey, a friend of my really needs your advice. The new man in her life is totally EMOTIONAL!!! i mean it is rediculous. she wanted a guy who would express himself emotional but not a cry baby. So i was wondering, what is better having a guy who is totally emotional or a guy who is stern and keeps things to himself?? Thanks for your help

A man should be stern.
Dang it. . . . .a cry baby kinda guy should wear skirt n bra.

A cry baby--->hell no!!!!!! But he shouldn't be too stern either. Who wants a stubborn, dogmatic, obstinate man for a boyfriend? Certainly not me!!!!!

yeah a little emotional would be nice but not an emotional wreck. . . besides when am cryin i need someone 2 console me not it being d reverse

Na wa for some questions ooooooo, is it only those factors you consider?

~Xerxes~:

A man should be stern.
Dang it. . . . .a cry baby kind of guy should wear skirt n bra.

REALLY?  


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I don't see anything wrong with a guy who cries now and then, We all know men cry a lot. They just don't do in around us ladies.  Don't mind those who lie about not crying,

~Antidote~:


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I don't see anything wrong with a guy who cries now and then, We all know men cry a lot. They just don't do in around us ladies. Don't mind those who lie about not crying,

U see nuthing wrong in a dude that cry? Blimey. . . . .who wants a sissy as a hubby?

~Xerxes~:

You see nuthing wrong in a dude that cry? Blimey. . . . .who wants a sissy as a hubby?

See me see trouble ooooooo, OK.I do .When he cries I will rub his head (more better if he's bald ) . That should make him feel better

A Cry Baby??
In this age??

~Antidote~:

See me see trouble ooooooo, OK.I do .When he cries I will rub his head (more better if he's bald ) . That should make him feel better

Now i know why u LOVE Nicholas Cage!!!!

Just as I thought, Another loser-coward on the Prowl, Couldn't have choosen a more appropriate username, Kudos ewure,

Anutha interNUT on the loose!!!!

@post
neither . .

emotional guys makes me sick, literally. . . really disgusting

stern guys are so annoying, like chillax

i personally told my friend to leave him for a real man but what can i say she loves him

®Th£ Sly®:

A Cry Baby??
In this age??

well he is not necessarily a cry baby but you know he just gets real emotional about things that normally a woman would get emotional about.

dunno. a bit of both never hurts.

@ esss
you are saying that you are an emotional guy

+++++ trying to picture this+++++++++

the guy crys then asks for tissue>

I personally think that in life, everything must be balance so the guy must be stern and emptional. Depending on the situation. Well,you don't want him to act up all stern when you are having a problem or someone died will you? And you wont want him to cry when in public right?

So both criteria should be in a man. That applies to females as well by the way

Oh and if your friend loves him, she should be able to accept him for who he is and accept his flauss otherwise, she could just tell him and explain to him in a nice way. But bare in mind, some people are just made emotional and they can't help themselves so it will take time.

None of the extremes is good.He can be emotional (not a cry baby O!) when the time calls for it.If they loose a loved one he can be emotional in many ways without shedding a tear.And be stern when the situation calls for it too.

No be when armed robber come house the man go dey cry like baby na the woman go wear jeans dey find escape route for the whole family.Tufiakwaah!!

I feel I cannot cry before a woman.Thats my personal opinion o!

@dabriggs
there is nothing wrong in crying before your woman. it shows that you trust her with your emotions. But in this case he juss cries for anything that goes wrong.

onyinye2:

@dabriggs
there is nothing wrong in crying before your woman. it shows that you trust her with your emotions. But in this case he juss cries for anything that goes wrong.

Sorry but i think errthing is wrong. . .
For a guy to be crying in front of his girl? ?. . . Thats very lame!

oka juss wait until you are down and in distress. and we will see you will have the last laugh.

onyinye2: Haba. What's your own naa. Go get your own bobo and leave your friend with hers. Who knows your bobo could end up being an homo and you will still accept him like that. Abeg o. Mind your business

whoa first of all how dare you. my friend came to me not the other way around. 2nd why would the guy im with be gay?? do you even hear yourself when you speak. guess not so sad to see ignorance in person.

hixxx1:

onyinye2: Haba. What's your own naa. Go get your own bobo and leave your friend with hers. Who knows your bobo could end up being an homo and you will still accept him like that. Abeg o. Mind your business

are u d guy in question?

how could i be the guy in question seriously lets use the brain god gave us

onyinye2:

oka juss wait until you are down and in distress. and we will see you will have the last laugh.

Down becos of a girl?. . . . .Pssssssssssssst u don't really know me.

oka you deny it now but the time will come

onyinye2:

how could i be the guy in question seriously lets use the brain god gave us

@ onyinye2-- i wasnt reffering to u, but to the guy whose response i quoted!, look how multifunctional ur own brain is!!!

whatevers

onyinye2:

oka you deny it now but the time will come

Take it easy!!!!!!!
No time is coming.