canalily: what kind of domestic abuse, humm? Thats y i said if there is that true lv 4rm a true heart, nothing lyk domestic abuse. Our hearts are hardend i repeat! ! If we embrace the mind of christ truely, i doubt any form of domestic abuse.

ogugua88:

You and I know very well that believing in God doesn't stop everyone from committing the abominable.

Enegod: a very intelligent write-up..unfortunately, some girls here with cocoanut heads gonna disagree..smh

ogugua88:

That's not true at all. Are you trying to say those who sign prenuptial agreements aren't fully committed? Come on. Just like an unmarried couple can be 100% committed to each other, those who choose to sign prenupts and/or prepare for a bleak tomorrow in case it happens can still be fully committed to and fully trusting of one another.

Divorces are high everywhere, including our Nigeria. I don't know if I'll be married to the one I love forever. I'd surely wish to be. In case my wish doesn't come true as circumstances can and often do change, I would like to be able to provide for myself and children if there are any. I'd rather be the woman saying "it didn't turn out as I wished, but that's okay", than the woman crying to a judge saying "he said he would never do this to me" and demanding spousal and child support.

kingkoboko:
9. LISTEN TO GOD NOT UR PASTOR
"She is destined to be ur wife" Na lie!!! "She is ur only missin rib on earth" Na wash!!! There are many false prophets & fake pastors connivin with desperate single women out there o! Its best for u to kneel down by urself & ask God to show u ur wife. U could ask Him to do this by using a very clear sign & u must never ever reveal d sign u asked God to show u to anyone. That na how Abraham servant find Rebecca for Isaac abi?

SO NA WETIN UNA TINK BOUT MY ADVICE NA? E MAKE SENSE?

canalily: no o o o o ! ! My dear i disagree with you for this o o oh! If there is tru love nd a tru heart of forgivenes, nd a true mind for reconcilation, with that undastanding i dont think divorce should come into play. Our hearts are hardend! ! Thats y we pray for divorce! !

7. HOPE FOR "HAPPILY-EVER-AFTER" BUT PREPARE FOR DIVORCE

Enegod: a very intelligent write-up..unfortunately, some girls here with cocoanut heads gonna disagree..smh

slimikenna:

you are surely not in naija. who dey sign pre-nup for naija? lol.

Mrs.Chima:
I disagree.

Tovot: my goodness your are wikid,so any small funny behaviour na court things abi?

mekzyjoe: Mrs chima I luv u,,,can u become one of my hos.
There are benefits.[/s]

ogugua88:

Isn't a divorce considered a rainy day?

No one expects a divorce in the same token that no one expects a spouse to die young and suddenly or be maimed and rendered disabled. These are some reasons why people seek independent women, just in case.

About prenups, I don't think being sure has anything to do with it. A lot of divorcees were certain that their spouses wouldn't hurt them, and they ended up hurt and unprepared for post-marital life.

I'm sure I won't crash my car because I'm a safe driver, but I wear my seatbelt anyway.

k2039:
This is the part I agree with the most. No girl will ever hold me to ransome, if she starts acting funny, divorce all the way.

As a matter of fact, I advise all men to sign a pre nuptial agreement before proceeding to marriage.

Evry human has both potential to behave like a swine or saint within himself; so a good wife can become a bad wife later tomorrow.

sarutobie:
^men with this kind of mentality are born polygamist and usually serial cheats.so because a good wife starts behaving 'badly' then the most reasonable thing is to divorce her and find another female to quench your lust? Marriage is not for fair-weather oriented people,there are bound to be hiccups along the way.one's ability to find solutions to their marital issues and not chicken out with divorce is the true mark of being a husband or a wife.Exept in cases of constant physical abuse and adultery,I don't see why couples who claim to be matured and married cant sit down and solve their problems..I thank my parents for showing me what it means to be a husband and a wife."Happy parents make happy children,happy family make happy country"---onyeka owenu & sunny Ade.

k2039:
Just that I have forgotten my 'law of contract', but essentially some mistakes are allowed and can be overlooked but there are some that deserve a straight red card.