Dubemkelly: U guys hvnt luved each oda enuf if denomination poses d problem...To be on a safe side,withdraw n go 2 a gurl or same christian faith n being a catholic member,u establishin a thug of war to yhu dad hu's still a member...As 4 me,denominatn cant b a hindrance if i see dt gurl i luv 2 d bone

baby i respect ur views, but she knew that im a catholic from day 1, at a time i raised this issue and she told me to relax that we will cross the bridge when we get to it, and now just this, im so sad.

duffie: I can't marry a catholic, I can't even date a catholic...I have nothing againsst the oooO, but that's just the fact..
I can change my church to my future hubby's church but it all depends. On the church..

I believe in one family, one church, if I'm not comfortable with yourr church then it's a no no.

frabel: thanks bros,but in reality its not that simple, so many yeears of hopes and anticipation flushed down the drain, [



quote author=k2039]You can't eat your cake and have it at thesame time.

If you want her, renounce catholism. If you love the catholic faith, leave her alone and let her be.

It's that simple.

Even if you guys get to marry with both of you retaining your faith, the biggest problem both of you will likely face is how to raise the children. Trust me that can get ugly unless you both agree on what faith your children will follow. I'm sure she wouldn't want her children raised as catholics and I'm sure you wouldn't want your children raised as pentecostals.

It's going to get very ugly in the future if one of you don't change to the others religion.

Besides, I know pentecostals have their reservations against the catholic faitha and I'm sure your girl friend will never change her stand.

k2039:
That's why the bible talks about counting the cost before going to war. Essentially, it means begin with the end in mind.

I understand how you feel, not to blame you though, but you should have thought about this from the onset, afterall you know pentecostals have their reservations about catholics.

The safest thing to do is to pull out, the ealier you do this the better for you. A lot of years have been wasted already, you can't add more additional years to the wasted ones.

frabel: Please friends and well wisher, what will i do. I cant go to any other church except catholic and still i don't want to loose this lady cuz i love her so much. All my relations know her and they all accepted her.

frabel: biblically, the woman should follow the man, even my elder brother married a Pentecostal and the lady followed him to catholic. and they are still living happily, really, i dont know y my case is different.

booqee: u guys should've discussed during the toasting level na. I won't even date a catholic or those peeps who wear white garment or something, not to talk of marrying. I don't dislike them but its just like dat. Try talking to her anyway, tell her to choose btw u and her church, u sef can say because of love follow her go her church. Na u guys happiness matter most o

tpia@:
all this should have been ironed out before taking the relationship to the next level.