Do long distance relationships work? Alot of time out of sight becomes out of mind.

What do you think about Long Distance Relationships

Cheers!

it is reality of our times:

somethings lost, but somethings gained

if you look at it that way; it should work.

this topic again.

@moderator
Please open your eyes

distance relationsip is good,cos i if find out that wenever my real
bab was'nt around that give me an oppurtinity to play around
som girls and i enjoy it.

boner:

distance relationsip is good,because i if find out that wenever my real
bab was'nt around that give me an oppurtinity to play around
som girls and i enjoy it.

and you think you are growing younger.

i'm currently involved in one.she's in sokoto and i'm serving in Gombe. she's a real thoroughbred- you know those type of girls- but money is also keeping it running. 10k, 15k deposits! That is if you have the means!-  please underscore that!  it puts some petrol on a quenching fire.   But that will not be worth it if you are just a player. you do that for women who are basically or essentially for keeps-wife material as people call them, the one you'll be comfortable to be the mother of your children - don't become a father christmas o! :if she's worth going into life with ,the spendings may keep the relationship alive-women generally love money and that's very terrible .but the investment may be worthwhile if her type is not in handy.that's just focusing the economic aspect of that endeavour.regarding the emotional aspect, well! adapt or opt out please!   Dont put yourself in a no-win situation. if you are maladjusted to that situation it may not be your type of game. do what comes most naturally to you.Good luck

Money without giving them exactly what they want its nothing.

tngtech.your babe will never say what you have just said . she would say something like "honey , i appreciate your care particularly in monetary terms but it would have been great if you are here now! i'm longing for a hug from you." very few ladies will see naira and say it is nothing. money is just helping you buy time .that's if you really think she's worth the keeping

This topic has been treated alotta tyms.

Anywayz,it seldom works out.outt'a sight is outt'a mind!

@olufumbi

Yes she will appreciate it, but remember her body is not made of steel.

tngtech:

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@moderator
Please open your eyes

Check out existing threads at below:

Can You Maintain A Long Distance Relationship & What Can You Do To, https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-21621.0.html

Effects of Distance on Relationship?
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-1598.0.html

Long Distance Relationship
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-140140.0.html

Do Long Distance Relationships Work?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-469.0.html

Long Distance Relationship: Are They Worth It?
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-123987.0.html

it only works if where ever the two of u are, u dont find anyone compared to the one far away.

Not good at all and my advice, don't dare try it.

What do you do sexually? Wait until once, twice a year when you see the person?

Or heavy phone intimacy? Really, I'd like to know?

It depends on the distance and how often u see each other. . .

It can be very stressful tho, u need absolute commitment to make it work

It rarely works.

cmon stephen go and show us d pics



emmm sorry back to topic plssssssss

LOL!!! Really back to the topic.

The relationship that isnt long distance is hard to maintain talkless of a long distance1. So No, i dont think it really works.

there are advantages to long distance relationships

the most important being that because u are away from each other so much, u'll appreciate the time spent together. ,  .  less fights!

as the saying goes, "distance makes the heart grow wander fonder"

HR.hotness:

there are advantages to long distance relationships

the most important being that because u are away from each other so much, u'll appreciate the time spent together. , . less fights!

as the saying goes, "distance makes the heart grow wander fonder"

So not true! LDR works if you put in the time and effort. Visit each other as much as you can.

worked for me. . .

we just cldnt be bothered fighting when we knew we had only a short time together.

regular visits may not be possible then what happens next?

HR.hotness:

worked for me. . .

we just cldnt be bothered fighting when we knew we had only a short time together.

regular visits may not be possible then what happens next?

Then it aint gonna work.

dont be quick to judge, some do

I beg to differ

I still would like to know how you handle it when you are Hot

nalijah07:

I still would like to know how you handle it when you are Hot

Phonesex?

nalijah07:

I still would like to know how you handle it when you are Hot

phone intimacy,

intimacy gadgets

cold showers

and in extreme situations, u may have an open relationship which allows casual sex

it do work. i live in europe and engaged with a babe in naija and all is working since the girl work in zenith bank with salary of 450k

ololomu:

it do work. i live in europe and engaged with a babe in naija and all is working since the girl work in zenith bank with salary of 450k

what has her salary got to do with anything?

ololomu whos talking about salary?