You are married, and driving our from a residential area, you run into your ex where his car broke down.

He is heading for an important meeting and has called his mechanic to come and pick the car and bring it to the meeting place.

There r no taxi's around, so he will have to walk a while to the main road. You are heading in the same direction where his meeting is going on in a few minutes.

The guy was good to ur when u dated, he travel for masters after uni and for years that is how the relationship ended but u still kept in touch.

He even attended your wedding and your husband knows him.

Now, will you give him a lift to the meeting since he is running out of time?

If you do, will you mention it to ur husband when u get home that u gave ur ex a lift?

Now for the guys, what will be ur reaction if your driving on the opposite lane and see ur wife and her ex in the other lane?

And what if ur wife comes home without mentioning that she dropped her ex off, in your conversations, what will your reaction be?

Remember, all you know is that u saw the both of them in a car, you don't know how it started.

I wud give him a lift.No need to tell my husband.Wud see it as helping some random person who needs help.If my hubby happens to see us together and ask,I wud explain.If he behaves like a fool,then I wud behave stuupid.I expect him to cut me a slack!I wud never prefer a leftover to a fresh food.

Ladies will be in best position to answer this or better lemme ask google for you cuz he's da Mr know it all.

Ughh!!! I promise not to say 1st to comment before I leave NL n I will keep to that promise.

God bless me

This is injustice by NL mods or robot or wetin u dey call am self.

Why did @lynpetra first me to comment

English wan kill me oooo

No, I would not.

sure.

however your story would not be my life. I would never invite an ex to a wedding and its highly unlikely my husband would know what my exes look like but of course I would tell him.

Communication n trust are d issues here. I dont think there is any bigdeal if she helps out. I trust my woman n I dont pray dat trust ends irrespective of communication lapses, so I always avoid digging to much avoid high BP.

More that half of the guys here won't accept it if their wife gives the guy a ride

Mynd_44: More that half of the guys here won't accept it if their wife gives the guy a ride

Especially when it is her ex.

lynpetra: I wud give him a lift.No need to tell my husband.Wud see it as helping some random person who needs help.If my hubby happens to see us together and ask,I wud explain.If he behaves like a fool,then I wud behave stuupid.I expect him to cut me a slack!I wud never prefer a leftover to a fresh food.

Let's assume he behaves like a fool and u act stupid, then he kicks you out and ends the marriage. He take a fresh babe, your ex is married, you return to ur parents house or you rent an apartment. Who looses?

mekaboy:

Let's assume he behaves like a fool and u act stupid, then he kicks you out and ends the marriage. He take a fresh babe, your ex is married, you return to ur parents house or you rent an apartment. Who looses?

actually she gains cos she won't have to deal with a child for a husband anymore

Exponental: Communication n trust are d issues here. I dont think there is any bigdeal if she helps out. I trust my woman n I dont pray dat trust ends irrespective of communication lapses, so I always avoid digging to much avoid high BP.

Hmm easier said than done. You see ur wife driving her ex and smiling. She gets home and in all your discussions she did not mention anything about it? Bros you will dig to the deepest level.

KateSpade: sure.

however your story would not be my life. I would never invite an ex to a wedding and its highly unlikely my husband would know what my exes look like but of course I would tell him.

Of cos when your dating you guys tlk about your past, and name ur ex, your hubby happens to know him but its not like they are friends that hangout together.

Mynd_44:
actually she gains cos she won't have to deal with a child for a husband anymore

Maybe in the western world, not in Nigerian society.

mekaboy:

Maybe in the western world, not in Nigerian society.

So you want her to live with an immature man all in the name of society?

why not i will give him a ride ofcz and if it comes up in a convo, i ll tell hubby about it. i have this bad habit of not talking about irrelevant tins and ex? very irrelevant.

Mynd_44:
So you want her to live with an immature man all in the name of society?

I expect her to calm things down and not freak out when her hubby does the same.