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Re: Caught Red Handed! by soulglo: 9:52pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
$wtme: They need to see a professional marriage therapist together. This is because this is a third party that has no vested interest in this relationship. Their job is to diagnose and prescribe. The worst thing she can do now is to sit back and let him miraculously see the light. Let him keep treating different women to dinners....... until when or what? In my opinion, this is not a communication issue. At least not on this particular incident. It is the attitude of someone who wants to do what they want to do. It's that mindset that someone needs to break through. It is his behavior during this period that will determine what he wants and where they are going. You cannot fake commitment. The only time that works is if the other person chooses not to see it. If he can look her in the face and say that he did it then they need someone who understands these issues to work with them. He is not ready to hear her and she is racing against the clock. |
Re: Caught Red Handed! by Archilouis(m): 10:07pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
It is a phase. Always keep doing the right things & showing strong sincere love & caring attitudes, if you care about sustainment of your relationship. In all these, refrain from sex, except you both normally practise safe sex. When asked, make him understand, it is in the best interest of your kids. You both can complete comprehensive medical check up, when trust is restored. A continued positive attitude from will win him back with time. This will also increase his respect for you. Good luck. |
Re: Caught Red Handed! by bukatyne(f): 11:11am On Sep 12, 2013 |
$wtme: Can you state where I said you should fight him? I said you are the mirror they will look at regarding marriage. How can I now advice you to fight or nag him? |
Re: Caught Red Handed! by Nobody: 2:29pm On Sep 12, 2013 |
$wtme: Sorry dear,i don't have the strength to struggle for love,love should be free and easy not labour.Kudos to you on your struggles but people are just different."We have to make them want us ",really?i want who wants me,period!!.Everyone is not blessed with the gift of "Making it work by fire or by force".I have no problem with people that chose to take your approach,whatever way you end up feeling right about yourself is ok.Mind you that not all men will get carried away,some will,some will not.Getting carried away is not exclusively reserved for the men you know. |
Re: Caught Red Handed! by Nobody: 2:37pm On Sep 12, 2013 |
soul_glo: Thank you,her case was very different.OP's hubby is shitting on the marriage and doesn't give a rat ass about that. |
Re: Caught Red Handed! by prixx: 6:48pm On Sep 12, 2013 |
$wtme: Chai... a lot of women are brain washed.......Any way @op please listen to CC |
Re: Caught Red Handed! by swtme(f): 9:12pm On Sep 12, 2013 |
prixx: And I op that excludes me right? |
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