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Best Steps To Ends A Relationship by Tuntheycr7: 8:16pm On Sep 20, 2013
There are a million reasons why relationship end, but infidelity, bad timing and lack of chemistry are probably the most common. Ending a relationship is one of the most difficult actions you will ever have to take. Unfortunately there are no easy way to breakup with someone bt there is a way to do it with maturity and respect.
1. ACKNOWLEDGE THE PROBLEM
The ffg. are signs that it is time to end a relationship.
You always feel frustrated.
You find reason to spend time apart.
You changed your values, beliefs or goals.
You have cut off close relationship with friends and family members of your partner.
You have drastically changed your appearance so that your partner would find you not attractive.
You and your partner are constantly fighting.
You are being physically and sexually abused.
You always feel like you deserved more. etc
Re: Best Steps To Ends A Relationship by Tuntheycr7: 8:17pm On Sep 20, 2013
2. Make a decision.
Never make decision when you are angry. Take time to consider the consequences of all your possible actions.
3. Find a neutral setting.
The best place to talk is a private setting. Find a place where two of you can always express yourselves.
4. Choose your words carefully.
Start by lettin your partner know how much you value your relationship. Tell him what you have gained or learned. E.g you are a great guy, but.....
5. Prepare for backlash.
If your partner starts throwing out verbal and emotional slings and arrows, resist temptation to fight back or better walk away.
6. Don't blame yourself.
Note that you are doing it for the good of both of you. So far you are doing it with honesty.
Re: Best Steps To Ends A Relationship by Tuntheycr7: 8:22pm On Sep 20, 2013
And lastly:
MAKE A CLEAN BREAK.
A few days or week after your break up, you may start to remember your partner. You may start to thinking about all the good times you had. There are normal and natural feelings, but it is important not to act on them. Keep your distance. No matter what, DO NOT DIAL OR TEXT. Booty calls are strictly off limits.
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Re: Best Steps To Ends A Relationship by Nobody: 8:26pm On Sep 20, 2013
You tried, but

There's no best way to end a relationship.
Re: Best Steps To Ends A Relationship by Nobody: 8:32pm On Sep 20, 2013
sexkillz: You tried, but

There's no best way to end a relationship.


Yeah! Its from the heart, especially if u r sincere
there wont be need to choose words

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Re: Best Steps To Ends A Relationship by Tuntheycr7: 8:59pm On Sep 20, 2013
sexkillz: You tried, but

There's no best way to end a relationship.

Yea, tanx ma oga bt sumtymz we jux need to move on 4 beta. Beta ends it dan living in it wt regrets if its not working.
Re: Best Steps To Ends A Relationship by Tuntheycr7: 9:07pm On Sep 20, 2013
Silkmoth33:

Yeah! Its from the heart, especially if u r sincere
there wont be need to choose words
You said it all

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