Hmnnnn,

Here is a story a friend narrated to me.

He met this gal online, she came over to his office after 2, 3 days. they started bein intimate, d gal comes to his office evryday to pick him up ( d lady uses a car, and d guy does not), first 2 days, d guy drives, drop her in her estate n enter a bus back to his house. third n subsequent days, they drive to d guys house, spent sum time, evn sleep with each other, then d guy drives, drop her in her estate n enter a bus bck( this is been goin on for 2-3wks now). 1st wkend, they could not be together cos d lady travelled, bt d friday prior to dat, a lot of smushin and all dat. durin this particular weekend, she calls evry 2-3hrs n d guy also calls. subsequent week, same procedure as above. the wkend afta, d lady came around, d guy drives(most times), n all day they were together. Anytime they talk on phone, n d guy request to speak with any of the brothers or sisters, d lady is like no.anytim d guy ask her if she trully loves him, she will say she is nt sure, dat "she is using her head not her heart". The lady refuses to be introduced bt prefer to bi alone wt d guys most times dat evn wen her parent call, she wl say she is on her way.

The guy recently discovered that she tells guys she met online dat she is not in any relationship, and this hurts my friend

Please Ladies n guys, want do u think about this situation? and what exactly shld d guy do, cos he is really in love with this gal

Cheers

the guy is merely a stopgap for the girl.

victor4u:

Hmnnnn,

Here is a story a friend narrated to me.

He met this girl online, she came over to his office after 2, 3 days. they started bein intimate, d girl comes to his office evryday to pick him up ( d lady uses a car, and d guy does not), first 2 days, d guy drives, drop her in her estate n enter a bus back to his house. third n subsequent days, they drive to d guys house, spent sum time, evn sleep with each other,

all within one week?
Hes just a bootycall.he should know that "this" aint leading nowhere.

See what boredom leads ppl to!!

:-x

ifyalways:

all within one week?
Hes just a bootycall.he should know that "this" aint leading nowhere.

I agree 100%. Why is he expecting more when they have not established that they are exclusive and why would he want to be exclusive after only a week? Take his time, slow it down and then in a couple of months after dating make it offical.

she's just an internet virus, nothing else, your guy shld just forget it, a more important  thing to worry bout is, has he been using a condom, because she may have a habit of sleeping with diff guys she meets online.

How can your guy rely on such lady?

i want that booty i love that booty it's a bootycall

davidylan:

the guy is merely a stopgap for the girl.

wat do u mean by stopgap

ifyalways:

all within one week?
Hes just a bootycall.he should know that "this" aint leading nowhere.

really , this wk wil b d 3rd wk and they stl drove to d guys house together, hd sex n d guys drops her, n enters a bus bck home.
According to d lady, she said, she has never been in any relationship b4

sistawoman:

I agree 100%. Why is he expecting more when they have not established that they are exclusive and why would he want to be exclusive after only a week? Take his time, slow it down and then in a couple of months after dating make it offical.

hmnnn points taken tnx

smooooooth:

she's just an internet virus, nothing else, your guy shld just forget it, a more important thing to worry bout is, has he been using a condom, because she may have a habit of sleeping with diff guys she meets online.

really accordin to d guy, she is a burty n mummy's gal. mum n dad always calling anytim they are together afta office hrs to knw where she is. she looks decent bt i stand to b corrected

Godalone:

How can your guy rely on such lady?

u no go blame him now, na love nw, bt e dey seek advice sha infct i go print out this trend go give am

ibkaye:

i want that booty i love that booty it's a bootycall

wetin u dey yarn