delinb: What will be a good punishment for your wife if she disobey you? Lately my wife has developed habbit of doing what I asked her not to do. Am hot tempered and I have tried my best to control my anger all this while BUT .........

delinb: I got married few months ago.Recently my wife told me she wanted to join Facebook which I decline telling her the dangers of social media to marriages but to my greatest surprise I found her on Facebook and my ex girl-friend in her friends list.

What do I do? Should I confront her or pretend as if I don't know about it?

delinb: What will be a good punishment for your wife if she disobey you? Lately my wife has developed habbit of doing what I asked her not to do. Am hot tempered and I have tried my best to control my anger all this while BUT .........

Chillisauce:

delinb: What will be a good punishment for your wife if she disobey you? Lately my wife has developed habbit of doing what I asked her not to do. Am hot tempered and I have tried my best to control my anger all this while BUT .........

baby_123:

LMAO. Looks like OP is a cheat. OP, so you are on facebook but advising your wife of the dangers. And alarmed your "ex" girlfriend is her friend abi? LOL. Maybe she is "disobeying" you because you have never given her any reason to trust or even consider your opinion. Do you respect yourself, and are you a respectable man when it comes to your family vs outsiders? Have you given her reason to distrust you over this ex? Something is not right with the scnario you have put down. You seem to be a man who married, but wants his cake and eats it too.

delinb: I expect intelligent response from you guys but the reverse is the case. If you are married then you will understand my point. We African men have ego so try and put urself in my shoe.

babyosisi:

So you are still here

^{Babyosisi looks around the room}


*where is that my Koboko for heaven's sake let me beat shege out of this loser*

Phema:

Didn't even see your post before posting mine. I feel like backhand-slapping that man! I can only imagine the torture (not excluding physical abuse) the wife will be going through.

Phema:

So you are still here spewing trash abi?? Come on, get out of this place before I open my eyes!! person! "How do I punish my disobedient wife" indeed! Ewu Nsukka! Mstcheeeewwww!

babyosisi:

I saw that
We were both thinking the same thing
Can u believe he is actually asking for punishment methods genuinely

Tomorrow now if the woman uses a dagger with both hands to send him to hell someone will call her wicked

dayokanu: OP,

I agree with you, What nonsense. How can a fellow human (sorry I mean lower human or sorry Lower animal) be disobeying you The Lord and master of Lagos and Ogoja. An "ORDINARY WOMAN" for that matter just because you dignified her by marrying her. Just like someone who bought a pet dog.

The best thing you can do is get a gun and wipe out her whole family and community for having the effrontery to raise such person(I mean lesser human) who can disobey you

And for your temper Its a good thing you have a temper. I know several Community Banks who can pay you good money for your temper.

Can i ask, How do you display this your legendary temper when you are in front of your boss, Your dad, a Soldier, or governor Fashola? I bet you slap any of them who annoys you.

Thats the type of people we need in this country?

Join a Political party so we can vote for you in 2015

Shalom!!!!!

delinb: I expect intelligent response from you guys but the reverse is the case. If you are married then you will understand my point. We African men have ego so try and put urself in my shoe.

delinb: I expect intelligent response from you guys but the reverse is the case. If you are married then you will understand my point. We African men have ego so try and put urself in my shoe.

delinb: I expect intelligent response from you guys but the reverse is the case. If you are married then you will understand my point. We African uncivilized men have ego so try and put urself in my shoe.

kreami diva: Nna after all these yabbings,this African man with his ego will pounce on this woman wey no get ego! !, with his shoes o! make we una leave am o!