Well Y'all know the drill; Keep the text as short as possible inorder not to bore readers so thats what i'm gonna do.

1. Accept it : Accept the reality of your situation. Its over. Don't allow yourself to harbour fantasies of him coming back to crawl and beg you. Respect that that chapter of your life has closed and tell yourself that you're gonna get over it and move on

2. Distance Yourself : Maybe one day the two of you can be friends again but now is not the time. Seeing or contacting him/her will only make your freshly wounded heart to become worse. If some of your belongings are still at his/her place you can send someone to go pick them up. Resist from calling to know how he/she is doing or how both of u made a mistake by breaking up.

3. Stop talking about him: In the beginning you will need to get everything off your chest with your closest friends as bottling up emotions is not conducive to the moving on process. After this, stop talking about him/her so as not to continue dwellingin the past.
5. Skip the blame game: Resist the urge to blame yourself, him, anyone else like your meddling parents or his annoying friends for what went wrong in the relationship. Instead think about the relationship from an unbiased angle and learn from it.

6. Picture yourself over him/her : PIicture yourself completely over your ex if you can. Feel the pride and accomplishment of haven got over him/her and move on. Picture yourself looking fabulous, meeting, talking and even flirting with other people(although that prospect sounds downright scary )

7. Focus on you: Give plenty of time to focus on yourself b4 getting into another relationship. Give yourself sometime to connect with the inner you and do something just for yourself like getting a new haircut, makeover etc and pamper yourself.

8. Get Out There: If you haven't gone out since the break up, now is the time. This doesn't entail that you have to pick the first cute guy or pretty girl you sight. Just qet yourself out in the real world and socialize and possibly meet new people.

9. Take it nice and slow: Don't go overboard with excessive flirting or socializing or you may come across as desperate or needy. Just relax, go slow but don't play hard to get. Take your time to know new people and don't just jump into a relationship blindly because your ex has already gotten a new partner and you don't wanna seem like the losing half.

10. Don't Generalize Or Compare : Not every guy or lady is like the previous person you dated. Be cautious but not judgemental. Don't expect the new relationship to be similiar to your previous one and don't bring your ex into the equation when ur new partner makes a mistake.

@Oooh Peee

as we never break up nko?

andyblaze just wan popular . Ok o we don hear.

Swaggot00: andyblaze just wan popular . Ok o we don hear.

...Not that

Andyblaze: ...Not that

Yes dat, exactly dat

You have been noticed.

Some pple are just fond of creating useless threads
#oshikoshi#

You are acually made sense this time,oh,i rescind my intended comment before reading

Lolaabokoku: Some pple are just fond of creating useless threads
#oshikoshi#

its true o. I dont know what they gain from it. It annoys me so much