swtchicgurl: ^^^ hope you're talking about a 'wife' here

bizz: getting there

swtchicgurl:

everything you described up there suits a 'wife' not a gf....so be wise

besides, can u upload your profile pix, i wanna save it but the format is not .jpg

swtchicgurl:

thanks for the effort, but the format is still not '.jpg' hence not useable.

bizz: I don't have it on jpg n guess I have to use my laptop to change the format but that will be later.will they to send it to u wen am thru

bizz: When a guy meets a girl, he can do almost anything to get her.after getting to know her he treasures her and probably get laid........then forgets to continue to love and appreciate her. This has happened to me a couple of times and I don't want it to continue.
An elder once said .. u can never graduate from the marriage school.....it is a life long experience...so why hurry or endure.
I was with a friend a couple of days back and saw the way he was hitting on a lady. she was smiling profusely ..... then thought to myself...what then?
Why do we have to forget to love, respect, treasures these ladies after a while.
I understand we get occupied with different stuff but I think once in a while would be much appreciated by her.
For this reason, I want to be a changed man n want to love u with all i got in me........ my sweet ( though I v not called u this since) I will start by preparing breakfast for her on bed(like i used to do), buy her a special gift today, take her to a nice place to talk, eat, sight-see n feel more like we just met.....I really miss those days......her smiles, laughs, jokes.....
My fellow nairalanders, how else can I make her very happy......I need ur opinions n tell me about urs

swtchicgurl:

ok, thanks! sorry for the brief change of discussion.



repeat the bold lines....avoid sexua.l transactions (until she is your wife) and you'll be the man to die for.

bizz: we have dated for years without s*x and only found out about our genotype incompatibility recently....trying to change the tone of things anyway....
Here is it in jpg

swtchicgurl:

Aarrrgh! this genotype incompatibility issue is really making me sad! not because it's not worth considering, but because many people around me are breaking off their mariage-bound relationships because of incompatibility! it's really sad

sometimes, i wish we can exercise some faith and pray for a change in either of the blood group (provided the two are meant for each other)
so as to prevent hurt...but then, prevention is better than cure

so, what are up to about the issue?

bizz: it's not been easy for both of us...we already discussed it n know we can't go any further.....kinda reducing the calls n some stuffs now

swtchicgurl:

it is well man. God's will is sure to be done. just keeping praying and being good!

bizz: yeah thanks.......so what's ur story...or what can I learn from u today

swtchicgurl:

i'm in a relationship hoping to achieve the expected end too

whatever happens, i still make sure i keep necessary and positive contact with everyone i have met somehow

even if i break up with someone, i make sure we are still friends and can still be of help to each other anytime, anyday!

that's why it baffles me when people talk about running away and avoiding exes!!! if your way is clean, you'll have nothing to worry about, except in a case of re-igniting old feelings and you think you're vulnerable.

cheers

bizz: hmmm....just like me.....I see no reason to avoid ur ex at all unless certain extreme conditions......u musnt marry everyone u date but I feel meeting them is for a reason....just be good to everyone... hope u got d pic(sorrynice forgot to ask)

swtchicgurl:

great!

about the pix, i guess there's something wrong at my end here

Jenams: Hmmmm somebody is usin Hi-tech here! Cheers man!

swtchicgurl:


that's why it baffles me when people talk about running away and avoiding exes!!! if your way is clean, you'll have nothing to worry about, except in a case of re-igniting old feelings and you think you're vulnerable.

cheers

WackyJ1:
What if the ex hurt you and broke your heart as a guy and you don't want to have anything to do with the person again after the person was so callous

bizz: keeping ur feelings is one thing....hating is another.......just keep the friendship part.u may need the person someday....and by the way it's much easier to keep around n face facts that rekindling the hurt whenever u hear the name or see the person again

swtchicgurl:

great response!

bizz: thanks......do u still want it

swtchicgurl:

Yes pls

gb@yahoo.com

many thanks!

bizz: am sending it now.....next time don't paste ur mail like that...try space it

bizz: have u gotten it

swtchicgurl:

yes tnx! pls edit ur post to remove my e-mail

bizz: already removed it.....u have to edit urs.....how was ur day

oyinbogirl: Awwww so sweet & inspiring!

swtchicgurl:

done! check it out

i'm great, tnx, u?