PLS I NEED AN ADVICE
I called her num once late last night bur she didnt pick up,thought she was sleeping.i tried it the following day around noon said switched off.couple of min later,she called me crying on the phone.whats the mater? i asked,she said they where rubbed in her friends room at night & out of 3 of em in the room,2 of em was raped including herself.she said she just decided to spent the night in her friends place & that was the out come.d qst is"what should i do? Cont.with the relationship or step out"?

So cos she told u she wz molested
U thinkin of leavin her
How am I nt sure u planned it

Dyt: So cos she told u she wz molested
U thinkin of leavin her
How am I nt sure u planned it

u dnt seems to know how much i love her.is a big tym shock to me & am in a state of confusion

So d best option now is to take a long walk abi

Well if u want 2 work out jst do its beta than stayin there nd pretendin u luv her wen ur mind is nt there,smone beta who dosnt mind luvin a molested babe knwin it nt her fault wil come along quickly

Why do you want to leave her? Why can't you be there for her in her time of need? be her rock and backbone.

u guys should not misqout me.am nt saying i want to leav her,is just a shock to me coz i dnt knw what to do.thats y i asked 4 an advice on what to do.thanks guys

Please tell her to go to a doctor ASAP. so she can get tested for everything and they can give her morning after pill to prevent pregnancy and other drugs to prevent stds. she needs to do this ASAP cos there is a window period.

Omo_Alata: Please tell her to go to a doctor ASAP. so she can get tested for everything and they can give her morning after pill to prevent pregnancy and other drugs to prevent stds. she needs to do this ASAP cos there is a window period.

yah she said she av 2 wait for a week for the test cos d doc mait nt discover anytin yet.shez in2 medical line so i gues she knws what to do on dat.

This is the period you should show her more of ur love, being raped is not an easy thing to go through alone. I have not experienced it bfr tho' but i felt like i was dead already the day one of my male frnd stole a kiss frm me. Twas as if he had raped me already, it took me days to get over it, some girls could be too emotional, u only want to leave or u dnt know what to do only because u dnt blive she was actually raped

This is the period you should show her more of ur love, being raped is not an easy thing to go through alone. I have not experienced it bfr tho' but i felt like i was dead already the day one of my male frnd stole a kiss frm me. Twas as if he had raped me already, it took me days to get over it, some girls could be too emotional, u only want to leave or u dnt know what to do only because u dnt blive she was actually raped.

OlamiB: This is the period you should show her more of ur love, being raped is not an easy thing to go through alone. I have not experienced it bfr tho' but i felt like i was dead already the day one of my male frnd stole a kiss frm me. Twas as if he had raped me already, it took me days to get over it, some girls could be too emotional, u only want to leave or u dnt know what to do only because u dnt blive she was actually raped

i tink u ar right,i dnt kinda beliv.i do warn her to becareful wit ha frnds & al dat bur i dnt jst undastnd.

a girl has to be seriously demented in the head to lie about such thing

Well,she is one hell of a brave girl for telling you and I believe,for her to tell you then she trust you to believe her and be there for her.though a lot of things are going through your head right now,I just want to beg you to please cast aside your doubts and shock for the main time and just be the man she wants you to be right now...a man that would be there for her no matter what.

I know it's not her wish to be raped by an unknown men but wil be better to quit wit her cos it wil be vry hurtful to you wheneva u remember what hapen, when it hapen, you start acting funny towards her.

bolagabriella: Well,she is one hell of a brave girl for telling you and I believe,for her to tell you then she trust you to believe her and be there for her.though a lot of things are going through your head right now,I just want to beg you to please cast aside your doubts and shock for the main time and just be the man she wants you to be right now...a man that would be there for her no matter what.

tanx,u realy got it.i knw xactly hw am feeln.i'll jst do wat u said.tnx again

clixa: I know it's not her wish to be raped by an unknown men but wil be better to quit wit her cos it wil be vry hurtful to you wheneva u remember what hapen, when it hapen, you start acting funny towards her.

wont i luk lyk a caward if i do so?

U r still a kid bro. An average guy knows his babe gets fccked atleast by one or two random guys sometimes. Its normal so nor kill urself because of punnani oh

kskpoundz:
u dnt seems to know how much i love her.is a big tym shock to me & am in a state of confusion

You don't know the first thing about love. If you did, you would not be thinking about leaving her because of this; instinctively you should want to be at her side now to make sure she's okay.

Ohh...not again.

Was she a VIRGIN before that?

This's the time she needs you the most. Unless she's pushing you away, don't leave her.

Richfella: Ohh...not again.

Was she a VIRGIN before that?

nah,shez nt.we av knw each oder over 10yrs u wont beliv it.sinc sec skul dayz.bur we ar far frm each oder as i speak cos shez do her i t in benin & am here in lag

Yield: This's the time she needs you the most. Unless she's pushing you away, don't leave her.

k,tnx

Jenams: U r still a kid bro. An average guy knows his babe gets fccked atleast by one or two random guys sometimes. Its normal so nor kill urself because of punnani oh

watever

Jenams: U r still a kid bro. An average guy knows his babe gets fccked atleast by one or two random guys sometimes. Its normal so nor kill urself because of punnani oh

watever

kskpoundz:
nah,shez nt.we av knw each oder over 10yrs u wont beliv it.sinc sec skul dayz.bur we ar far frm each oder as i speak cos shez do her i t in benin & am here in lag

Oh I see, maybe she really was raped.

Just do the whole being nice and comforting dance. There's nothing more you can do.

She could also have gone to some guy's house, cooked for him, bathed and lay on his bed dresses in his t-shirt and boxers. Then he proceeded to 'rápe' her repeatedly.

Maybe she's just feeling guilty after banging some random dude.

lol :Dlol

kskpoundz: lol :Dlol

You're laughing??!! It's funny, right??! Mumu, tell me what is funny cos I'm seriously missing the joke

I find it so sick and disturbing, that a girl just admitted to you that she has been r*aped and you guys are accusing her of lying?? Do you know how psychologically damaging that is??

You obviously do not love her or you're just a dullard, a product of a misogynist, ignorant, and failed society.

Damn, I have never met low-lives like the ones on here. This is a new kind of low, as in LOW!

Wu Zetian:
You're laughing??!! It's funny, right??! Mumu, tell me what is funny cos I'm seriously missing the joke

I find it so sick and disturbing, that a girl just admitted to you that she has been r*aped and you guys are accusing her of lying?? Do you know how psychologically damaging that is??

You obviously do not love her or you're just a dullard, a product of a misogynist, ignorant, and failed society.

Damn, I have never met low-lives like the ones on here. This is a new kind of low, as in LOW!

hey easy! D laughn wast 4 u nor 4 d topic.it was richfella's post dat was funy to me k?u dnt knw hw bad i felt wen i heard dis.do u tink 10yrs afair is jst 10 days? I pray it doesnt hapen 2 any of u here.mind u,dere's no low life here.thank u

kskpoundz:
hey easy! D laughn wast 4 u nor 4 d topic. it was richfella's post dat was funy to me k?u dnt knw hw bad i felt wen i heard dis.do u tink 10yrs afair is jst 10 days? I pray it doesnt hapen 2 any of u here.mind u,dere's no low life here.thank u

Do you have a temporary twitching in your brain?

I know what you were laughing at, and that post is beyond stup1d. There's nothing comedic about it, you shouldn't be laughing except your story is a pile of cow dunk!

Wu Zetian:
Do you have a temporary twitching in your brain?

I know what you were laughing at, and that post is beyond stup1d. There's nothing comedic about it, you shouldn't be laughing except your story is a pile of cow dunk!

wateva

thanks 2 u guys dat av given reasonabl advice,d 1s dat made joke out of it & dose wu made insult out of it.al dose replies ar normal & i apreciat al of ya.tnx