1 Listen to how he talks about the future.
His future once meant he had a date on
Saturday night, but with you, he's seeing long-
term. When he plans his next vacation, he
finds himself making plans with you in them,
and when his best friend gets married in six
months, you’re his date.

2 Note whether he's making room for you
in his life .
Other priorities take a back seat to
you, well, because you're more important than
them. If he enjoys fitting you into his busy (or
not-so-busy) life, that means he values your
companionship.
For instance, he used to work out religiously,
For instance, he used to work out religiously,
but lately, when you're free for dinner, he
doesn’t mind missing his workout. He's not
as worried about preening as he is missing a
romantic night with you.
Not only that, bringing work home on
weekends seems a bit excessive to him now,
and his “to do” list isn't as important to him
as it once was.
He enjoys taking you out with his friends. Be
wary of the guy who never wants you around
his friends, and insists on hanging out alone.
He's either hiding something or he's
embarrassed with you around. The guy who
loves having you around his friends is proud
of who you are and likes showing you off

3 See if he is softening up when it comes
to you
. Instead of insisting on getting his way,
he doesn’t mind compromising today. This
means he understands the give-and-take of
relationships, and feels good about giving a
little if it means you're happy or listened to.
He doesn't mind missing a night out with the
guys anymore, because he knows that a
night in will be just as good.
He even doesn’t mind going to see that
foreign movie with subtitles that he swears
he doesn't understand. If you it means that
you'll be happy, he'll go out on a limb.
He laughs at the good-natured taunts from
his friends because he knows they secretly
wish they were in his shoes

4 Note if his spare time is mostly time
spent with you .
He looks forward to seeing
you, and it doesn’t matter what the two of you
do as long as he gets to spend time with you.
When he's with you, he doesn't need
distractions because you're more than
distracting just the way you are.
Those long walks you like so well are okay
with him too. The time flies because you're
holding hands and having a great
conversation, and it doesn't matter that
you're not doing anything.
He finds that when he is not with you, he is
thinking about you constantly. When you call
him just to check in, he keeps you on the
phone, telling jokes and engaging in
conversation.
He invites you along to activities that he
doesn't normally like doing with someone
else. Maybe he's a bit embarrassed that he's
in that ceramics class, or he's really
consumed with cycling. If he normally enjoys
the activity alone, but invites you, it means
he trusts you and wants you to be involved in
the things that really matter to him

5 Observe what gets his attention.
You're
not asking to be the center of his universe — at
least not yet! — but you do want to make sure
that his priorities have shifted, and that those
priorities take you into consideration.
Although he can’t help but notice a beautiful
woman sometimes, he’s so mesmerized with
you that many of them slip by unnoticed.
He doesn’t flirt as much as he used to.
What's the point of flirting with someone else
when he could flirt with you? He is coming to
realize that you’re the only woman that really
matters to him and that your feelings matter
to him, too.
The things that matter to you start mattering
to him. You've told him you love ballet, and
one night he says that he's thinking about
getting tickets to the ballet. Your priorities
become his because he wants you in his life.

6 Note the sparks.
You have great chemistry—
you can’t be in love with someone without
chemistry. Chemistry can be as little as the
same tendencies or as big as the same frame
of mind. Without planning it, you two tend to
mesh.
He seems to always be on the same
wavelength, finishing your thoughts and your
sentences. And when he does, he looks at
you like you two are the same person with a
smile on his face.
His physical attraction to you is undeniable.
He treats you with spontaneous displays of
affection, kissing you on the neck or paying
you a compliment when you least expect it.

7 See yourself through his eyes
. He’s finding
out more and more that he likes you just the
way you are, and he doesn't stay mad long
when you have a disagreement.
He finds your quirks charming—the fact that
you snort when you start laughing hard, for
example, is unbelievably charming.
He loves that, when you eat, you refuse to
allow any single food item to touch another
item on your plate. He gazes at you
adoringly, and thinks that only you could be
so crazy and so beautiful at the same time.
You say things that make you different from
the others, and this is one of the things that
makes you so attractive to him. He values
your opinion as much as he does your looks.

8 Watch to see if he asks questions about
you .
You can tell that he’s falling in love with
you because he wants to find out everything
about you.
He wants to know where you come from, who
your parents are (a biggie), what you think
about and why, and what makes you laugh.
He asks these questions like he genuinely
cares about the answer, and he remembers
your answers, too.
He truly cares about your feelings, and if
you’ve had a bad day or you're upset about
something, he wants to cheer you up, not
because he has to, but because he genuinely
wants you to be happy.


9 Notice whether his thoughts keep
coming back to you .
He can’t stop thinking
about you—he is consumed by thoughts of
you. You pop in his head for no reason, and he
even wonders if you think of him as much as
he does of you.
He wonders what you're doing, and he
considers calling you but doesn’t, (he doesn’t
want to look too eager).
He talks about you with his friends, his
siblings, and his parents. If he's talking about
you with his mother, especially, it means he's
seeking approval from her.
When he’s out with his friends and he spots
something in a shop window that he thinks
you would like, he picks it up for you because
he's thinking about you. He’s got it bad for
you, and that’s good.

He doesn't love me.

mechummy:

dear if I may ask?why the big smile on what he or she said?

Does this apply to nerds too?

uj_sizzle: Does this apply to nerds too?

first of all are u dating a nerd?

uj_sizzle: Does this apply to nerds too?

think xo


ladyzz take note

mayten30: first of all are u dating a nerd?

yes

uj_sizzle:

yes

it applies to him too

How about how to tell if she really loves you?

Anonymous Heart: How about how to tell if she really loves you?

yes I will soon drop that

In case u dnt get it, play boys use these tactics and it works wonders.

There is no hard and fast principles for having a successful relationship or for knowing if someone really loves u.

Pray that God shud direct ur path so ur rit man wud locate u at God's own time.

Your intelligence and logic can NEVER help u.