have been friends with her for a while, so recently she came to my place to see me, then one thing lead to another and we kissed and made out (no sex tho). but after everything she asked me what the kiss meant and I told her nothing, she got pissed and said i used her, I was shocked because i remember telling her i didn't want and wasn't ready for any relationship now. she pleaded with me to date her which i declined. cut the long story short she wants to be my gf and i don't want any relationship. I told her that right from the start but she's making me feel guilty saying i used her and made her feel cheap. I'm a nice guy and it hurts me to think i hurt her.
she's been calling and texting me to think bout it. so how best can i decline without hurting her further?? #thanks

Is she that ugly?

Fwb Vs Gf??
What's d full meaning of Fwb

If only dis will lead 2 d end of ASUU strike, 6yrs in d university ASUU wan turn am to 8yrs, I go really old

Tell her wat she wants to hear! Give her what she desires....it wont take anything from you.rather it wld make her happy!

Mishydoo: Tell her wat she wants to hear! Give her what she desires....it wont take anything from you.rather it wld make her happy!

relationships re tym consuming nd emotion draining.. bsyds i c no reason deceiving / playing her. .

Illuminatus: As it is now, if you say anything but YES, she's going to angry with you. You need to say no and be firm about it. Don't sugar coat it all. Good luck.

thnks!!

pasqal09: Is she that ugly?

nope..

And this same babe go dey do shakara for another guy. Irony of life

Tell her you're not interested. Be firm but gentle.

@op, what's ur reason for not wanting a relationship but wants her as a fwb?

Wiz_khalifa:
relationships re tym consuming nd emotion draining.. bsyds i c no reason deceiving / playing her. .

Wats ur definition of "Playing"?....She asked u to "date" her and not to "Marry" her!....Wld it kill some guys if dey shld just share d love? She hasnt said she wants u exclusively for herself! Jst make her happy bruv, she kws u can! Rejection is worse than unfaithfulness.....think abt it!




FYi....dats d opposite of being a player.u dont go searching and brkin hearts.....!

I knw what happening here, the OP doesn't want to commit to a relationship, he's a player

She is trying to manipulate you by making you feel guilty, flee! Say no and don't try to be nice about it cos playing nice will only make you more vulnerable.

Wiz_khalifa: have been friends with her for a while, so recently she came to my place to see me, then one thing lead to another and we kissed and made out (no sex tho). but after everything she asked me what the kiss meant and I told her nothing, she got pissed and said i used her, I was shocked because i remember telling her i didn't want and wasn't ready for any relationship now.

*singing*.. This is a super story...


How much were you paid to bring up this tales by moonlight?. You guys made out but had no sex and she's feeling used?. *yawns*

Next

You should avoid this girl like a plague. As you said, u dont want a relationship from her. So what makes you think FWB will be a better option? You will be digging your grave if you do that with her. First of all, she has caught feelings for you. The number 1 rule of FWB is there should be no feelings attached.... You do the main thing and then waka. Thats all.
You better leave her alone and face another thing. If you eventually break her heart, she will label you as a player and ruin your chances with other potential girls.

Mishydoo:



Wats ur definition of "Playing"?....She asked u to "date" her and not to "Marry" her!....Wld it kill some guys if dey shld just share d love? She hasnt said she wants u exclusively for herself! Jst make her happy bruv, she kws u can! Rejection is worse than unfaithfulness.....think abt it!




FYi....dats d opposite of being a player.u dont go searching and brkin hearts.....!

I made her happy 4 not misleading her, she deserves sum1 who luvs her in return... I dnt. thnks tho

pasqal09: I knw what happening here, the OP doesn't want to commit to a relationship, he's a player

nah m no player...

usmsam: You should avoid this girl like a plague. As you said, u dont want a relationship from her. So what makes you think FWB will be a better option? You will be digging your grave if you do that with her. First of all, she has caught feelings for you. The number 1 rule of FWB is there should be no feelings attached.... You do the main thing and then waka. Thats all.
You better leave her alone and face another thing. If you eventually break her heart, she will label you as a player and ruin your chances with other potential girls.

wow! thanks bro... u made lots of sense..