Everybody is good for something.  There is no one u meet that will not impact your life.  If it's positive, your experience is enriched.  If it's negative you walk away with a lesson leanrt.  Net-net, its a gain for you personally.  When dealing with a long-term decision, use logic.  When faced with a short term decision, use intuition.  Dont shop for a life partner based on intuitive urges, use prudence.

Life is a lesson,sometimes we learn through the hard way. And what is this intuition? It's a hunch, and most times it's people around us that notice this 'hunch' about our partners ,maybe because by then our emotions are clouded.

But no,we go ahead with it anyways,consoling ourselves that things might work out afterall. And when the cookie crumbles,there's no other person to blame but yourself.

Oh, I've had a relationship that I wouldn't exactly say ended badly, but I knew from the beginning it wasn't going to work and trust me I still went ahead with it. The writings were all over the wall, I could see it very clearly, but I chose to ignore it - but all that is history now.

Yes my point exactly,the writings are always on the wall. But like you rightly said,it's in the history books. Hope you learnt something from the experience though,because history always has a way of repeating itself.

How about when, ur instincts, ur intuition & ur brain & ur head as a whole tells u, this relationship is heavenly made & leading to the altar and it still hits a massive rock!!

For me where i don't position my mind, turns out bringing out its best.

Intuition sometimes comes with experience
Being in a relationship is different from falling in love
Sometimes when u are in love ur intuitions leave u
Expereince makes u see tell tale signs when something is wrong
Your intuition tells u what to do

there are times when ur relationship turns out to be a wonderfull one in the begining and after a while it turns sour even without u seeing or having any intuitions or suspicion that there will be a problem i guess its faith what will be will be  

Sometimes when we see the hand writing on the wall
We fail to take action
We usually tell ourselves that things are going to get better
and when they do not
We begin to regret not taking action when we knew we should have

My thoughts exactly joan2.

Heed your intuitions and have no future regrets.

As you make your bed...