I have noticed that a lot of guys (on NL) hardly ever think a man can go wrong in a relationship. For instance, if someone created a thread that his girlfriend cheated on him, guys are quick to insult her and tell him to move on and if a girl creates a thread that a guy cheated on her, most of the guys will probably say that maybe she just wasn't good enough or use the same old "men are polygamous by nature" myth. A relationship will never be happy and healthy if you think its all about making the man happy.

A lot of guys tend to say women don't know what they want, but have you actually sit down to talk to your woman to know what she wants? Just because your grandfather told you that your grandmother liked A,B,C doesn't mean every other woman Goes with the same list. The biggest problem with guys (especially the NL ones) is that they don't take time to know what a woman wants and how she wants it. For instance, guys complain that most girls aren't adventurous, remember we all have different personalities and react to things differently (just because you like watching cage fighting it doesn't mean your woman has to like it too) take time to know what your woman likes. Don't be the boring guys who expects his woman to love playing FIFA while you don't even attempt to do anything she enjoys the most with her.

Most guys would rather leave a relationship when things get tough rather than fixing it. Most guys believe that once they betray a woman's trust and she forgives him, it means that everything just goes back to normal at the snap of a finger, but that is never the case. You take time to build that trust again, your actions will determine if you are worthy of being trusted again. Don't do anything stupid that you know will jeopardize your relationship and expect everything to go back to normal simply because you apologized for your silly actions. it has to go beyond a mere apology, your actions have to prove it too.

Every woman has her own likes and dislikes. The biggest mistake you can make is assuming that what you did for an ex will simply work on any other woman. This is the reason why i believe you have to know your woman before you decide to date. Drop that, "if i don't ask her now another guy will do it before me" mentality, a sensible person worth keeping wouldn't just jump into a relationship with someone she hardly knows. Whats the point of rushing into a relationship and then come back on NL making noise about how difficult women are. Who told you to rush into a relationship with someone you don't know. Don't assume all women want the same things and the same treatment. We differ

you would rather talk about your partner. this is the most immature thing that a lot of guys do, if you woman cant make your favorite dish the way you like it, instead of talking to her about it you would rather go tell your friends how much of a bad cook she is. If you know how to make it better why don't you spend that saturday weekend with her showing her where she is going wrong instead of talking about it to your friends sunday to sunday, which never resolves anything. Same thing goes with sex, if she just lies there like rotten wood, why don't you start telling her want you would want her to do. Stop going to your uncles weekend after weekend asking him for advice, he isn't the woman you are being intimate with, he cant possibly know how she likes it. If you think he knows best,maybe you should consider dating him instead you can make suggestions during the act or better yet if you are comfortable with it, have a day you will sit down and talk about what you really want when you making love. Some of you may even be surprised that the reason why she never puts energy into it is because you will just be wasting her time, you never attempt to please her.

being pretentious will not do any good in a relationship. lying about your financial status, occupation or your background will only damage your relationship. Don't go on dates you cant afford simply because you want to please a woman, because once you start big she will be expecting that you maintain the same standards. If you know your are just an ordinary clerk dont try and make it sound like something else big and fancy, because the day she figures how fake you are, she will leave you faster than you can say her first name. Let a girl fall in love with you, not some cooked up guy you wish you were.

As much as you think you are the captain of the ship, a relationship still requires effort from both parties. Its not just about a woman pleasing her man, but its about both parties pleasing each other

Noted and happy new year

Women are the problem. Na jeje Adam siddon for garden of Eden before a Woman (Eve) nack am fruit. Na so wahala take start. No be me talk am o, Na bible.

190-the-clown

Choii na who spoil ya own na?

San Miguel: Women are the problem. Na jeje Adam siddon for garden of Eden before a Woman (Eve) nack am fruit. Na so wahala take start. No be me talk am o, Na bible.

God told Adam (not Eve) not to eat from the tree, if he knew any better he would have listened to God. Nowhere in the bible did it state that Eve put a machete behind his head and forced him to eat its a choice he made and acted upon it

190-the-clown:
What did i just read

Since its coming from mondicheeks there's no need reading cos shes always wrong and doesnt know what's shes doing

you know you are going to read it anyway all of it

Sorry?

Are you seriously getting worked up with what these characters post online?

Experience they say is the best teacher. You should know that mondy

190:

Mondicheeks giving people advices when she cant even maintain a relationship with me for 1 week

mschewwww

who will even maintain 30seconds relationship with you?

Mondisweets: God told Adam (not Eve) not to eat from the tree, if he knew any better he would have listened to God. Nowhere in the bible did it state that Eve put a machete behind his head and forced him to eat its a choice he made and acted upon it

In other words, never listen to women. We should only listen to God and our bawls

Your thread is onpoint mondi, bt u knw itz jst an african thing cuz a white lady cant take dat kinda poo 4rm her lover.

San Miguel:

In other words, never listen to women. We should only listen to God and our bawls

not manipulative ones

Don't mind them
They feel like gods, worship us, bla bla bla
They mistake our love for slavery bt they forget sometimes, love is never enuf
When the lady goes, they come here bashing
Awon oniyeye

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Ladies sha, always & most times they crack the relationship

Dyt: Don't mind them
They feel like gods, worship us, bla bla bla
They mistake our love for slavery bt they forget sometimes, love is never enuf
When the lady goes, they come here bashing
Awon oniyeye

Lenu e . Psalm 82:6 "I said, 'You are "gods"; you are all sons of the Most High.' So yes we are gods..

Well, It's a men's world baby.

San Miguel:

Lenu e . Psalm 82:6 "I said, 'You are "gods"; you are all sons of the Most High.' So yes we are gods..

Wetin b lenu e
U wan mk I pinch dat ur enu for u

Eze Promoe:
You sabi attack men wella o.
No be man marry you?

Hehehhehehe
Wetin I do na

Oestrogen and progesterone-filled topic & thread... Smh!

The girls are about to get emotional here with a lot of attitude...
I will sit this one out till I'm motivated enough to go supersonic with my counter argument.

*whistling and watching*

DEAL WITH IT

"a relationship still requires effort from both parties. Its not just about a woman pleasing her man, but its about both parties pleasing each other"

I like this part Both parties are to work it out and not 1 feeling like "am doing u a favor dating you,ther are many lining up" attitude.

Beautiful............

What exactly is the aim of this thread
I've also decided,like many a man before me that women are more trouble than they are worth.

San Miguel: Women are the problem. Na jeje Adam siddon for garden of Eden before a Woman (Eve) nack am fruit. Na so wahala take start. No be me talk am o, Na bible.

In other words, men are weak




Mondisweetcheeks, you try jare

First it was Skydeep, now Mondicheek?

Nna eh, me don dey fear o. This women don dey wise o

Me thinks women are designed to turn things upside down. So I dont get upset when I see em screw up cos its part of their nature. Right from time immemorial.

I apologize for any comment i will post in
this thread that someone, anyone,
anywhere...may found offensive... Thanks

See them feel all superior yet they cry when women break their hearts. You begin to hear, "Baby pls don't go. Please." Pffftttt. Just check out the "cry-baby" threads on romance section...always opened by the BOYS!

And do I need to talk about the "rate me" pics? Low self-esteem at its finest.

@mondisweets, I dey your back gidigba.

*spreads mat*