Because my boyfriend has been kind to me; doesn't make me change my perspectives about men. I look at them with 1 eye open and other closed.

So then, wat

self sabotaging i see. you should always be vigilante but you have a bf why are you still looking at men with one eye while you should be focused on your relationship.

@ fabulousfortune they say talk is cheap if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all..

@25omega because I'm in a relationship and I see something that will lead into marriage doesn't mean I wouldn't grab it...

And what are the perspectives if I may ask?

why should he pay for the poor choices YOU made in the past......... although you may be careful, he should get ALL OF YOU. not giving him your all is not only wrong, but also a victory for the donkeys that turned you into the bitter person that you are today.

@mrbrownjay I don't have to spit the word you guys know yourselves and you know what you say behind a woman. So don't give me that crab like you guys are angels. And who said I ever made a wrong choice.na you know that one o....

YaAwns!

@clemz85 is that your pet!

smh

your choice. but i dont c the reason y?

Onuwa onah: @mrbrownjay I don't have to spit the word you guys know yourselves and you know what you say behind a woman. So don't give me that crab like you guys are angels. And who said I ever made a wrong choice.na you know that one o....

So u don't want crabs, na shark u want

U knw, Angels are actually males

@pasqal09 I know u think crab in the doc only means "an animal in the sea" becos you went to jakande primary and secondary schools. It's crap

Must u reply everyone? Btw, ur right about being careful......

The way God has made it when a man meets and gets to know a woman he should know whether she is the woman he wants to marry or not but even when you guys know that you wouldn't get married to this woman you still involve yourself in a sexual relationship with her only to pullout later. For me, it looks like lucifer's handiwork. You all need to change that devilish way.

Onuwa onah: The way God has made it when a man meets and gets to know a woman he should know whether she is the woman he wants to marry or not but even when you guys know that you wouldn't get married to this woman you still involve yourself in a sexual relationship with her only to pullout later. For me, it looks like lucifer's handiwork. You all need to change that devilish way.

Will u stop generalizing!!!!
So what if u dated and fell in love with a Jerk who shattered ur heart. That doesn't give u the right to put the blame on every guy!

*yawns* someone should console the op!!

Onuwa onah: Because my boyfriend has been kind to me; doesn't make me change my perspectives about men. I look at them with 1 eye open and other closed.

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good 4 u op!

Funny enuff, most girls I've cum across dat sound like d o.p, all end up orbiting d same situation/mistakes..dey themselves 've deep seated issues dey also need t deal wit

@o.p..MrBrownJay gav u d best advise..take it or leave it. Its ur misery

In Bill Cosbys voice..please can somebody console dis o.p , please