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7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Nobody: 7:24pm On Oct 25, 2013 |
Its a long read, but hope that you all would be patient and read thru. Sorry i cant summarize this. Will nigeria women be destroyed gradually by feminism also? read for yourself and decide! 1. Makes women think that all they have to do to succeed in life is show up. Today’s woman thinks she deserves the fruits of life just because she’s a woman, that since her gender was “oppressed” for so long it’s time to receive reparations through generous societal benefits and advantages in education at the expense of men who weren’t even alive during the supposed period of inequality. The result is a woman who is viciously entitled when it comes to receiving good grades, jobs, or relationships. When she fails at gaining these three, she does not blame herself, but both men and her feminine condition. 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Nobody: 7:52pm On Oct 25, 2013 |
Another post Young men giving up on marriage: ‘Women aren’t women anymore’ http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/young-men-giving-up-on-marriage-women-arent-women-anymore/ I think this commentator gives a good analysis of the situation...
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Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by MrsChima(f): 2:38pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
I don't think Nigerians gives a Bleep but I could be wrong. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by MrsChima(f): 2:39pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
Lmao at American women are destroyed because of equal rights movement. They were so much better inferior and classless huh? 6 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by flexshop(m): 4:33pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
were is De beavouir, Discarding the patriachial system is like throwing away the baby with the birth water. A great number of american males are now in jail because the were raised by single mothers.the lucky ones end up fathering nigglets with various baby mamas all in the name of feminism. The day any of my daughters will try that feminist mentality is the day I will marry her of to YERIMA. Feminism, LGBT et cetera are gradually corroding core family values which are the bedrock of every society. Women should be more concerned about individual development than feminist struggles to usurp mens role 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Nobody: 5:15pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
flexshop: were is De beavouir, hmm real tots |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Nobody: 5:50pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
WOW!!!! That's solid analysis. And I think that even societies like the Nigerian one are falling prey. However, there is something right about women empowerment: women matter. #dazall |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by dasparrow: 6:59pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
flexshop: were is De beavouir, This is the biggest crap I have read in a long while. So, if American males are in jail because they were raised by single mothers, then what about the Nigerian-bred males in Nigeria who were raised by father and mother and who grow up to become cultists, r8pists, 419 scammers, ritualists, drug peddlers in foreign countries around the world and kidnappers? Secondly, as a black man, why are you calling black children a racial slur like 'nigglet'? Are you out of your darn mind? I guess you are trying to come across as American but you have failed woefully at your sick attempt to pull down your own race. Thirdly, you don't have to worry that your daughters will turn feminist - whatever that means - because God has already seen that you will make a terrible father so God will not even give you female children and the male child you MIGHT manage to have will grow up and use you for ritual in exchange for sudden wealth. Lastly, when it comes to core family values, most Nigerians have none. This is why many Nigerians glorify paedophilia, gang r8pe and the likes in Nigerian society. This is also why many Nigerians have a culture of oppression where you oppress your women, cheat on them, infect them with STDs, violate them, dump them if they cannot birth you male children and the likes. But God does not like ugly and this is why Nigeria has refused to progress even with all the natural resources the country has been blessed with. Nigeria is a country filed with wicked people who have a wicked culture and that is why the average Nigerian always keeps roaming from country to country like cattle herders begging for visa and permanent residence from more advanced nations. 8 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by dasparrow: 7:08pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
hisblud: Its a long read, but hope that you all would be patient and read thru. Sorry i cant summarize this. Will nigeria women be destroyed gradually by feminism also? Nigeria does not need feminism to be destroyed. In case you haven't noticed, Nigeria is already destroyed by your greedy leaders who spend 255 million naira buying vehicles while you the citizens are living in perpetual darkness in 2013 and inhaling generator fumes that cloud your sense of reasoning. That piece was obviously written by a demented Nigerian chauvinist so the article must be taken with a grain of salt. Your white mates in the western world are inventing things that will add value to mankind and you are here perusing the internet looking for ways to pull down the female gender. Typical black African man. Only good when it comes to lust and sex and overpopulating the world with people who will most likely grow up in poverty and put a strain on the world's resources. Go and get a job and do something constructive with your life and stop telling others how to live their lives. 11 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by flexshop(m): 8:06pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
dasparrow: burst a nerve right? Go do some research on reasons for increase in number of jail inmates in US with special focus on african americans.don't be bitter, because you have people migrating to the US doesnt take away the fact that the family system in the united states is in serious decline. Discussions laced with emotions won't hide the truth or change it from what it is. Any babymama who willfully raises children out of wedlock is raising nuisance to the society as few of these children turn out useful to the society.since you decided to take that aspect of my discourse and discard other valid points I made, it shows how bitter you are. Cry from now till eternity, feminism is a virus that is destroying the society 5 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by tintingz(m): 8:24pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
Interesting analysis @OP Where are the feminism NL warLords |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Nobody: 8:56pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
dasparrow:omo cool down now, this post was not written by a man but a WOMAN who has seen into the future. Secondly, am not some lazy a55 on some freeway out to bash women rather to point out the ideology that is making our ladies feel they can do without men when infact we need each other to maintain a sane society. Nigeria has a problem of leadership, but must we allow an ideology to further break down what we have after a cruel day? No we need to protect what we have [marriage] to keep us sane for an effective change. So chill will you. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by favinvest: 9:25pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
U see for anyunion to survive for a longtime one of the partner has to bear all the nonesense. Right from the first man and woman that started the first family on earth it as always been the woman that have been taking all the nonesense. This was why d word divorce was hardly heard in the past. But right from the time that feminism came to be; woman is now equal with the man philisophy of the 21st century starting in America. Divorce skyrocketed to over a million times. Reason cos u hardly see a man who will bring a woman under his roof and she will then bcom co-oga of the house. So woman if u wan ur marriage to b a lasting one u need to go and sit down very close to ur grandmothers (not ur mother) so that she can teach u how she was able to have alasting marriage. 4 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Nobody: 1:20am On Oct 27, 2013 |
dasparrow:no mind them,let them keep ranting and spewing thrash.feminism has come and it has come to stay in our world.as long as you cannot do anything about globalization,you cannot do nada about feminism.moreover,if women are no longer women,you can all go and marry your male counterparts like some of you are already doing or resign to wanking with porn movies or better still,get a job as a porn star. 3 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Nobody: 1:27am On Oct 27, 2013 |
favinvest: U see for anyunion to survive for a longtime one of the partner has to bear all the nonesense. Right from the first man and woman that started the first family on earth it as always been the woman that have been taking all the nonesense.grand nonsense of the highest order i have ever heard in my life 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Nobody: 1:39am On Oct 27, 2013 |
flexshop:unfortunatly there is nothing you can do about the acclaimed virus.just as past leaders have unsuccessfully eradicated corruption,mental and financial poverty,that is how your blabbing will unsucessfully eradicate feminism and single/independent women. The same way corruption,ineptitude,poverty,greed,perversion,intellectual and morally bereft leaders and injustice is part and parcel of nigeria and cannot be divorced from Nigeria,is the same way feminism cannot be eradicated,live with the changing system or enter mars to go and live 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by tintingz(m): 5:55am On Oct 27, 2013 |
kulyie: no mind them,let them keep ranting and spewing thrash.feminism has come and it has come to stay in our world.as long as you cannot do anything about globalization,you cannot do nada about feminism.moreover, if women are no longer women,you can all go and marry your male counterparts like some of you are already doing or resign to wanking with porn movies or better still,get a job as a porn star.As if women don't need men except if you are a lesbian... **Smh** dumb post |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Mynd44: 6:07am On Oct 27, 2013 |
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Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by bknight: 9:10am On Oct 27, 2013 |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Nobody: 12:24pm On Oct 27, 2013 |
tintingz: As if women don't need men except if you are a lesbian... **Smh** dumb postyou are blabbing mr man.is it anyones fault that you cannot handle successful women that many of you resort to marrying men like yourselves.afterall the number of gay relationships is slowly and steadily arising.believe whatever you want to believe,but this world is full of options.if you cant stand the heat,get out of the kitchen if you cannot find any marriageable woman IN YOUR STANDARDS. You can as well find a 3rd leg carrier and if my post is paining you can go and lie on agege railway and wait for any available train to do justice to your body 3 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by flexshop(m): 12:26pm On Oct 27, 2013 |
kulyie: unfortunatly there is nothing you can do about the acclaimed virus.just as past leaders have unsuccessfully eradicated corruption,mental and financial poverty,that is how your blabbing will unsucessfully eradicate feminism and single/independent women. [b]we love independent women mind you.what we dislike are feminists who by default will end up single and miserable (as the OP said 'dying alone in her isolated room with her 13cats and 2dogs').stop grabbing straws like the other poster dasparrow.corruption and other vices are our problems in this country.when you try to compound the problem by injecting feminism into our already troubled society,what do you get? An implosion. That aside, what the OP is trying to posit if I'm right is the need for self realisation and individual development. Women should loosen the feminist garb and work towards other meaningful goals than taking over equal rights in the family as men. I can mention various women in nigerian history eg the likes of queen amina of zaria, and princess moremi, who have made impact in history during periods the likes of you would say was totally anti women. My personal view of the issue is that the patriachial system of family existed for a reason, and upturning that reason for shorttime benefits may have a longterm repercussion which we would not be prepared for.That was why I used the US as an example to what upturning the system can gradually do, you have males who are raised by women without a fatherly presence to guide them and majority end up as deviants in society.you have them on the streets all across US from newyork to illinois to georgia to california. These young men turn out whimps who even have no respect for WOMEN and that is why the end up converting many young girls into baby mamas. Feminists won't tell you that. They like every other movement in history (naturists,Nazis,LGBT etc) will only show you the little benefit that can be derived but effectively hide the downsides. We understand that some women are marginalized in our system but I always believe that development of the girl child without recourse to feministic ideologies would go a long way in curbing some excesses of some men.Catch my drift[/b] 3 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Nobody: 12:49pm On Oct 27, 2013 |
flexshop:i get your drift but what exactly do you hate about feminism and hope you are not trying to imply that feminism in the world today is causing baby mama nonsense,whimps as men,rapists and unwanted male species,hope you arent trying to say feminism is what causes a total break down of marriages. There is something you must realise,there is something constant in life and that is CHANGE. During my grandma's era women women were mentally and physically subservient because PATRIARCHY created no room for social and economic security for women.now that women emancipation came out in the late 6os and early 7o's,women are no longer subservient to anybody,they call the shots economically,they are given priority before their male counterparts in terms of high ranking jobs etc,who's godamn fault.let me tell you,patriarchy cannot last forever.patriarchy has debased women and made them feel they have nothing else to offer apart from their vagina and being at their husbands beck and call,thats why you see girls in music videos dancing naked in a sexual way because patriarchy has influenced the media too.they are passing a message that sex is all to a woman and nothing more and let me ask you a question,why do you feel edgy,uncomfortable and threatened when you see a less subservient,independent,intellectually and fianancially strong woman.of course you will shout PATRIARCHY is good because it keeps you at a more advantaged position. Women's mindset towards marriage,home etc is CHANGING. EDUCATION TOO IS A FACTOR.MY GRANDMA AND GREAT GRANDMA WERE NOT AS EXPOSED AND EDUCATED AT THE GENERATION OF WOMEN WE HAVE TODAY. Their lives revolved around their husbands,but many women's lives dont revolve around any man again,its all about career and the money.it was men that were the bread winners and the providers, that was why they were so dominating,controlling and could marry 1 million wives.now women are making as much money as the men if not more,so what? In the global market,its all about SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST.EVERYONE USES HIS STRENGTHS TO HAVE AN EDGE ABOVE THE OTHER BECAUSE THEY ARE ALL CHASING THE SAME THING WHICH IS MONEY 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by flexshop(m): 1:39pm On Oct 27, 2013 |
kulyie: i get your drift but what exactly do you hate about feminism and hope you are not trying to imply that feminism in the world today is causing baby mama nonsense,whimps as men,rapists and unwanted male species,hope you arent trying to say feminism is what causes a total break down of marriages. [b]at the risk of sounding biased in my judgement,let me try and make some points clear. 1. I don't feel threatened by anything,anybody or any ideology personally. 2.I made my observation removing the fact that I'm male so as not to give a biased view of the subject matter. Ask yourselve this question, how was societal norms and values during your grandmas time and now? Let's be objective here and not subjective to our line of reasoning. I agree with you that CHANGE is constant but you have to also agree with me that not all CHANGE is 100% beneficial. Ok, let me use atomic and nuclear energy discoveries as an example. You and I know that these fields promised enormous potentials for good viz electricity generation,greener society etc. But it also came with its baggage of weapons of mass destruction capable of annihilating humanity. That's a case study for change. I have throughout this discourse used the black community in the US as prima facia evidence on the problems caused by the absence of the male authority in households. I won't want to go further into discussing the role of feminism in this problem as the OP's article has already highlighted some. Just like hitlers nazi theory,german people where rallying round nazis as rights movements till it turned to a political weapon. Make no mistake,I'm not trying to compare hitlers arian superiority theories with feminism.I'm only trying to point out why some of these ideologies if left unchecked can spiral out of control. Patriachial system offers rights to men not because of anything but to maintain stability in the family system. Let me use myself as an example. I grew up in a loving family with both parents.My mum recognised the fact that my dad is the head of the family and as such the start in the family chain of authority.we the kids see that as an authority figure,a father figure. When my dad is not around,my mum assumes command. That's an ideal family structure. We were taught to value women as our authority is for one aim and one aim only to protect women around us.that's the alpha male theory. Letme use my friend,who grew up with a single mum. His views are totally different from mine. He comes to me for guidance due to the absence of a father figure in his life.letme not go into other details but what I understand from life is that when we distort the balance of power,things go wrong. What I'm trying to say is,do a little research.I was watching a documentary on discovery channel of black americans and crime, most commentators posited the absence of father figures as the prime cause of the problem of young black males and by extension females. Remove emotions from this discussion and see that the negatives of feminism to society outweighs any benefits feminists claim.[/b] 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by tintingz(m): 2:14pm On Oct 27, 2013 |
kulyie: you are blabbing mr man.is it anyones fault that you cannot handle successful women that many of you resort to marrying men like yourselves.afterall the number of gay relationships is slowly and steadily arising.believe whatever you want to believe,but this world is full of options.if you cant stand the heat,get out of the kitchenAnd who told you men can't handle a successful woman? There are many successful independent woman that respect their man and see them as good husband but feminism as a hate group has corrupt the mind of many ignorant women as if men are competing with them, they see men as beast, wicked creatures so the(feminist) wants to be like men they feel like female gender is not right for them to handle men they wanna be equal with men...the next thing for the feminist is for them to change their sexx organ like changing their veejay to d-ck. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Nobody: 6:24pm On Oct 27, 2013 |
flexshop:without sounding biased or sexist,let me remove my gender out of this as well as emotions.i dont know what exactly you have against feminism,but one thing i know is that feminism is aimed to protect women.during my grandmas era,great grandma etc.society was normal,men where still men not animals.they could still leave their kids in uncles place for uncle to tell them fables,tales by moonlight etc but now we are in the ear where some animals,i refuse to call men are raping 3 year olds,7 year olds.infact its a big risk to leave your child in any uncles place,they will teach your child things that shouldnt even be heard of.they will help you f1nger her etc,let me not go into details,you know what i am already talking about. At least thank God for little elements of feminism in afria in this our generation,if not,a young girl will just be walking and before you say jack robinson,she will be raped in public,in broad day light.feminism is still putting all that in control. Afterall its not news again that FEMALES ARE VULNERABLE AND UNSAFE SPECIES IN AFRICA.a woman can be walking on the street,minding her own buisness or going to wherever and before you know it,some guys will round her up,kidnap her,give her serial rape till she dies,passes out etc. Mind you,this are facts that is going on daily which shame and sentiments will make people sweep under the carpet or after the kidnap of nkiru sylvanus,did you hear anything again. ( i leave that to you) the next thing was that she was relieved of her political appointment. Feminism still gives men little conscience that women are mothers,sisters,daughters etc,thats why the little percentage of women that are not abused can still freely walk around.all these did not happen during the days of my grandma,but this days,we hear of boys in their twenties going to old womens homes in enugu to rape 70,80 and 90 year old women.does that sound normal to you. I've heard some men shout where are all the decent women,where are all the real women,they are all in brothels,strip clubs,prostitution chains,kidnapping buisness,child traficking etc |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Nobody: 6:29pm On Oct 27, 2013 |
The remaining few percentage are victims of baby mama nonsense.so please many men have abused patriarchy and whatever is not challenged begins to get authocratic,thats why a lot of men assume marrying a woman is BUYING HER OFF FROM HER PARENTS AND SHE BECOMES HIS PROPERTY AND CAN DO ANYTHING HE WANTS WITH HER INCLUDING DEBASING HER,AFTERALL HE HAS PAID HER BRIDE PRICE. I can go on and on but seriously,as far as i am concerned,the roles are changing and its no more about your gender,its about how you can survive in a highly tensed and stressed up environment 4 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Nobody: 6:39pm On Oct 27, 2013 |
tintingz: And who told you men can't handle a successful woman? There are many successful independent woman that respect their man and see them as good husband but feminism as a hate group has corrupt the mind of many ignorant women as if men are competing with them, they see men as beast, wicked creatures so the(feminist) wants to be like men they feel like female gender is not right for them to handle men they wanna be equal with men...the next thing for the feminist is for them to change their sexx organ like changing their veejay to d-ck.well,i am a feminist and i dont hate men however i loathe some categories of men,not all, i will rather have their properties burnt down and fling them into jails as for your last statement of genital organ change,that is the most ridiculous,wack and hilarious sh1t i have ever heard in my life 6 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Nobody: 7:15pm On Oct 27, 2013 |
flexshop: were is De beavouir, Sadly true. Feminism is a threat. If only every woman understands the origin and essence...we wouldn't lend our voice to modernist world. Pour moi, it is okay for a woman to work, be financially buoyant and live a fulfilled life, however I have a huge disconnect with feminism fanatics. They over emphasis these injunctions. Feminism invariably promotes LBGT. Yeah, a faster mean for men to opt out of the marriage 'ache'...every one wanna be free. Man keeps wandering far from God's plan and purpose...#UnhealthyConsequence Op, thank you for sharing. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by tintingz(m): 7:16pm On Oct 27, 2013 |
kulyie: well,i am a feminist and i dont hate men however i loathe some categories of men,not all, i will rather have their properties burnt down and fling them into jailssame goes to some women as for your last statement of genital organ change,that is the most ridiculous,wack and hilarious sh1t i have ever heard in my lifeAren't feminist fighting for gender equality, am expecting them to change their veejay to d-ck |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Nobody: 7:19pm On Oct 27, 2013 |
tintingz: same goes to some womenlwkmd,that is arrant nonsense.i dont know where you got that thrash from anyway |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by tintingz(m): 7:24pm On Oct 27, 2013 |
OlowoTee:interesting...! 1 Like |
Re: 7 Ways Feminism Is Destroying American Women by Nobody: 7:24pm On Oct 27, 2013 |
tintingz: same goes to some women |
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