A lady colleague at work travelled home for two weeks. When she came back, everybody welcomed her back warmly. On my own part, I playfully told her i missed her. Though we used to share jokes and generally gist before, now she hangs around me and sends me text messages. Its seems obvious to me that she assumed that i toasted he by saying i missed her. Please what do i do now? I don't really "miss " her like that!

Your topic title does not relate to your question. Anyway i guess she felt you where flirting with her, so correct it if you dont really like her. and i miss you if definitely not thesame thing as i love you. next time say "we all missed you" if you feel you must talk too.

"I miss you" is not the same as "i love you".

She's your secret admirer. You unlocked the gate when you said that. You need a mai-guard to check her access through the gate.

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dude, your in serious trouble

Keep your mouth to yourself next time.

no

Dude I have no idea how to get you out of this. just dont respond to her text messages and avoid her at the office until she gets the hint or create a girlfriend.

Better yet now that i think of it you will have to get one of your female friends to pretend to be your girlfriend that will make her dissappear quick.

hell no,they are two different unless you have something in mind too

Another classic example of "women's english translation"

Ceeno E vu:

Another classic example of "women's english translation"

rotflmao.

Feesha:

A lady colleague at work travelled home for two weeks. When she came back, everybody welcomed her back warmly. On my own part, I playfully told her i missed her. Though we used to share jokes and generally gist before, now she hangs around me and sends me text messages. Its seems obvious to me that she assumed that i toasted he by saying i missed her. Please what do i do now? I don't really "miss " her like that!

Then tell her soonest in a nice friendly way and don't unintentionally lead her on.

I had a similar experience like that,my guy tell her that you don't need her before you put yourself into trouble.

Women are easily led on, by what they hear, most especially if they have inherent feelings for you.

It is best you tell her, it was just an ordinary simple show of gesture. Nothing more to it.

I Miss You means 'I Miss You'

I Love You means 'I Love You'

No way similar.

Just because she's hanging around you doesnt mean she thinks you "love" her.

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Why cant you just use your brain or dont u have one?!

it is not all stupid and silly questions u ask everyone u know, figure it out!!

its the same abi.

Miss=Love

both are four letters

Why will u miss somebody you dont love

When you miss someone you miss the presence of the person
when you love someone you you love the personality of the person

I tink the problem here is women are never straight forward. Wen they say Yes they mean No, they just like the attension they get from d guys.

Goodness Gracious! Why in the world would she assume I miss you means you are interested in her?

Some women sure know how to set themselves up, don't they? After they will be boo-hooing all over the place about being led on, broken hearts and whatnots.

Sad.

Yorubas say "pele l'ako o ni abo" ( Meaning = even an apology can be tendered in a harsh as well as a repentant manner).

How did you say your "I miss you"? was it in private? was it to everybody's hearing or was it something that sounded like you reseved it for a special moment? Did you say it while you gave her a hug? the questions can go on and on but think about it. It takes two to tango.

u don enter
pele oo good luck in bringin ur self out

hmm,

let me ask you this question

how exactly did you say it?

offhandedly, or with all intents and purpose

because i can relate to a lady responding to such a statement, you also dint say much about what level your smsing had reached

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OBVIOUSLT NOT.

I say I miss you to a lot of ppl, do I love them? ehrrm no!

Men remove your shoes, hold them and run as fast as your legs can carry you. I bet you said "I miss u" in such an intimate way such that her head spinned. Sha right the wrong immediately ooo

If you're reading this, my angel - I miss u soooooooo much that i feel the tears at the corners of my eyes at night!
Sometimes i wake up grabbing my pillow only to realize it aint u
I cant wait to be there in your arms - those arems that feel like home
I cant wait to sweep u off your feet right from the airport.
I know you're reading, i'm coming home baby, i'm coming back to your arms

hmm, love in tokyo!

depends on the circumstances . . . close but 2 different meanings!

sort urself out dude,jus tell her she's mis-interpreting d whole thingy, and avoid her.she 'll get d message.

But I also get a text from a certain gal who writes these lines and it sounds like "I loff u"