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Baba do something o

Mtchew!!

Wasted and wasteful years.....Never shall we witness such period again.
*spit on the ground*

The change we seek is finally here.
I belong to everybody, and belong to nobody.

pinkycute:
I even fine pass them all...,


Especially Osinbade Daughters

I bet to disagree.

atbu1983:
it is not Nigeria marriage that is d problem. it is d natural self centred nature of women. Generally women want everything to be about them. they want all d attention. Even if d husband is an angel, d same problem will still arise.

Gbam!! All they want is Money and Power, if they can't get, they turn everything against the man, the children are easy tools you know.

FluffySucre:
My mum does the same too, at least OP u got to know on time, me, i didn't. I only got to know my daddy was the good Guy shortly before he died. And all those excuses of why most mum's do this is jus so flimsy. Mums are always playing the victims, use emotional deceit a lot, even if they are the wolves in the home. OP Pls don't allow her turn u against ur dad.

God bless you, imagine how far you would have know your dad before he died, the father daughter relationship, i don't know why our mothers does this sinful act of turning the chhildren against their father.

marque:
I don't understand what is going on in my house. Any little thing that happens between my mum and Dad she will call us (the children) and start telling us what happened but always putting the blame on my Father.

She has never explained anything and made it look like it was her fault. She is trying to paint a bad picture of our father in our eyes.

This has been going on right from when I was little but as I grew older I began to see things in a different light.

Anytime my mum brings up an issue concerning she and my Dad I try to look at things differently and see things in the other way before concluding. If I tell her what I feel and it's not in line with what she said,she'll get angry with me.

The latest was the one that happened recently. My mum was planning to go to her home town to see her family and so she needed some money from my dad to add to what she had already so she could buy some food stuff on her way. It is good to note that my mum had already travelled Last year during the Christmas celebration to see her people and my Dad gave her the money for everything she bought.

My mum works and gets paid too but she didn't use any of her money to buy those things last year. My Dad footed the bills. Now she wanted to travel again this year and My Dad refused to let her go because we just moved into our new house and there are some things which have to be bought and fixed in the house.

My Dad told her that if she wants to go it's her choice but he wouldn't give her any money as he has got some other pressing needs at the moment. My mum got angry about this and she told us.

I saw things from my father's point of view and tried to explain to her why it happened so but she got angry. She said I must always support him and that i'm not acting like "a son she gave birth to"

She has not talked to my Dad since then and anytime I greet her,she ignores me. I have two sisters,an elder and a younger one and i'm the only boy. My sister is at the ripe age of getting married but she is also supporting my mother in this,sadly.

My father doesn't seem to be bothered much though as he still goes about his normal activity but this problem is really troubling my mind and I really wish there could be an end to it.

Do mothers have to unnecessarily incite children against their fathers?

Is that why grown up children tend to cater for their mothers more and forgetting the struggle of their fathers even while they are still alive?

Matured advise please.

@OP, i thank God for your life and i pray for his wisdom in all your doing. Remember this as you continue to grow, women only seek for 2 things, Money and Power, if she can't earn it, she grab it. it's a commomn thing and always happen in all homes, OUR MOTHERS have always turn us against our fathers, they seek power to control the home, if the man is tough, she turn the children against thier father.

You're a man and remain so, that is why you think with your brain, no sentiment. Disagrement between your parent is non of your concern neither of your sibling, let her solve her marital issues with the man she decide to marry. You wonder why the issues have to do with money?? and am sure she might be controlling too.

DrGroove:
Whatever the case.. good or bad.. nothing will make me take sides with my father against my mother.

No matter the situation, no matter the condition, I don't want to know who was right or wrong


All I know is only my mother is important to me. I will always support her in totality, irrespective of anything.. I could talk calmly in private n try correcting her if she was at fault but never in this world, not in the next world will I take sides with my father..


Anyway,op is a guy.Am glad his sister is in mother's favour....

All i see is a girl from a polygamous family, otherwise i guess your so called father might not be your real father, no pun intended.

DahtzFestjayz:
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Imagine the pollution caused by these twin Diesel engine generators in all The BTS, Switch all over the country, MTN alone has almost 50k stations, consider this senario as these stations are power by gen 24/7. Now join MTN, Glo, aitel or whatever their name is now, starcom, all those small networks, we are talking over 150k stations powers by generators. Nigeria is in pollution crisis, we just don't know yet.
Now add the household generators, all other public and private Businesses powered by generators. The health crises is loamning already.

These same cabal holding NNPC, PHCN are same in the oil and gas industry, same people are in the government, same people are controlling Nigeria destiny and we will all sit here and say Nigeria is not under occupation.

Omotayor123:
Some weeks back, My friend Complained about her Boyfriend telling her Not to come visiting him if she's on Menstral.

And then I was like; Maybe he's only dating you for s3x.


Yesterday my neighbor boyfriend came visiting. And when he realized she's on Menstral he refused to sleep on the same bed with her. She said when she tried to touch him during sleep he pushed her and rolled away from her reach.

I have seen a guy who told me he can't eat a food prepared by a girl on Menstral save he doesn't know.



Isn't this injustice and barbaric towards women folk
Does this happens among married couples as well

I see it as unreasonable torture to womanhood.

What are your views on this matter...?



Cc. lalasticlala, orijin101, wristwatch, Freeman, ipledge, tosyn2much and other Romancelanders.

All your complains have to do with boys not men. Men know how to handle women's period.

FriedPlantain:
Congratulations Op, your story is a lot similar to mine except mine just didn't turn out so well.
After scaling through 5 stages of rigorous interviews, I met with the MD and things were going smoothly than expected until he asked me where I schooled. I told him University of Maiduguri and he was suddenly taken aback. I could see the terror in his eyes.
To add sublime to the ridiculous, he quickly glossed through my CV and noticed I included "Enjoy making bombs and IEDs " as my hobby..

It was barely 30 seconds later when the security guys barged in and bundled me out of their premises.

FriedPlantain

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mtchew!!!

MzNelly:
Lol, why should they help us retain our virginity?

What useful thing have men ever helped us with?

Don't let me mention one

Lol, why should they help us retain our virginity?

What useful thing have men ever helped us with? [/quote]Don't let me mention one

queencalipso:
I have read a lot of thread here on nairaland that talk about girls keeping their virginty and some guys even insult those that are not. But my question is this, is it only girls that are meant to keep their virginity? What about guys. And again how will a lady be able to keep her virginity when guys are always asking for sex then turn around and insult her for loosing it. In my opinion if a guy doesn't ask for sex I don't see a lady loosing her virginity it is not only women that are expected to be pure, guys too are. You want a lady to be pure yet u won't stop asking for sex if she refuses u try all you could to make her weak in her defence yet you will come to nairaland and shout about girls keeping their virginity until marriage. Guys are not imunne to virginity.


So guys stop asking we ladies out, and even when we accept to date you don't ask us for sex help us to keep our virginity until marriage and stop putting the whole virginity and purity struggle on us alone.


Thanks.

For your infomation, there is no virgin guy, we only have experience and inexperience guys. Men are born unvirgin.
Thre is nothing like virginity in the male child dicotomy.. cos there is nothing there to assertain virginity in male.

Florblu:
This man is ugly even on his wedding day
Chai! Owo o mo ago

and what have you created in your existence, you can't just abuse and talk in condescending manner just because you feel like.
It's nobody's problem they are getting married.

This is open stealing, no cover up. It's just like telling mama cook, bring this, bring that, and the woman talk say, who go pay, the guy reply take the money from the contributions of our thrift and credit union.
The woman said, just tell them in meeting that your father died and you need money for his burial, are you not the head collector again.

What a man can do, a woman can do better.

I can't even read anymore, these people have destroyed Nigeria, they have stolen our commonwealth. I don't even know where to start from, how can people steal this much and continue to steal, imagine a report of 12 months can be this depressing, how would 4 or 5 years audit look like.
And to imagine all these monies are in dollars just rendered a severe headache on my brain.

If GMB don't bring this people to book, I will forever curse him till I die. All these monies must be return and all of them punish.

How can human be this evil, they can't even spend all the money in a life time, stealing for 10 generation yet unborn, and I'm here working hours to hours in foreign land.

xreal:
Men like to pull stunts.

these are highway to heaven

njays24:
God bless our men;fathers,husbands,brothers and friends.

God bless you too.

therapisteve:
Meanwhile,we av an issue in my compound nau trying to decipher what Mama Maggi meant when dis morning Her Husband arrived without any prior notice from where he travelled to and caught her in bed with his best friend and Out of anger, he took his gun and shot his friend.
Out of fear, his wife shouted,
"FRANK! FRANK! If u continue like this, u will lose all your friends o!"

Bros, that may is ready to loose a nation

May God be with them all in this trying time.

searching4lovee:


I WISH THE FG CAN APPLY STRICT RULES ON THESE HEARTLESS ASIANS. MANY CHINESE AND OTHERS COMMITS VARIOUS CRIMES HERE WITHOUT DEATH SENTENCE BUT REVERSE IS THE CASE IN THEIR COUNTRIES. I DON'T SUPPORT DRUG TRAFFICKING BUT LIFE SENTENCE WOULD HAVE BEEN BETTER.


RIP FELLOW COMPATRIOTS, OUR BAD LEADERS FAILED US AND THE FRUSTRATIONS PROBABLY PUSHED MANY LIKE YOU INTO CRIME

Were they force into crime, why blame governmenet for what they delibrately put themselve into.
Let Nigerian goverment enforce their penal code and crime will reduce, its not Asian problem that Nigeria laws are nothing, it is up to our government to do the right thing starting from the Top.

They decide to do the crime, so they should be reader to face the consequence. I'm sure you also know about drug trafficking and not get involve, so why should they get involve.

we the youth need to get our priority straight, everything is not about money in this life, let us be contempted with whatever we have.

Hard Work pays, shortcut to riches will only bring shortcut to their life.

So, the advise is to sell off your investment, use the money to build your retirement home and live on pension income.
hahaha, i dey laugh o.

Feeding african poo since time immemorial,we know they are dictotors but when are we going to see the Worst 10 western dictotors?

Political Demonic Prostitutes PDP

Pls, our-president-elect, do not, i repeat, don't attend any party of any sort.

I guess she will be serving 21 years in gail total for all the 34 counts.
All charges are serve concurrently, if i'm not missing word, for the 30 count charges, she will serve 7 years and the remaining 4 charges for 14 years making 21 years total.
Under prison year, i guess 9 months makes a year, so all together she will be there for 189 months which equals 15 years and 6 months.

Case dismissed, next Case pls.....

The video heading says" Imitating the Gang Head of Xenophobic South african, so this might just be an attention seeker.

rokiatu:
some men don't married just for the woman to be a baby Making machine. And some people have a plan.

Most Africans just believe as soon the woman married she should start popping out babies. like seriously.

not really, not everyone think that way...

Note: rokia2, i have taken my like on your pics back until you discontinue to intimidate us with your Ukwu.

Hahahaha, this orubebe na confirm joker, that mean the word "decipline" has change meaning.....
Jega, pls the man has started o, we need parmanent cure to his symptons..