My girlfriend is confused. Her relationship of six months just crashed and she needs advice. The guy refused to tell her the reason, just lost interest. She is suspecting their sex life is the reason. She says she's not too good. She lost her virginity last year and is new to sex. I actually advised her against it, telling her that if she kept herself till her late 20s why loose it now? She refused and still went ahead to sleep with the guy, only for the guy to treat her like crap afterwards.

Fastfoward to the second guy. He just broke up with her after sleeping with her a few times. She's devasted, doesn't know what to do. She wants to know what to do to be very good sexually. me I told her to just let things be and that when she meets the right guy they will communicate what they both want and things will flow better. Is there somethings else I should have told her. Need suggestions pls

Tel her 2 PM me I wil tel her wat to do

dats nt a reasonable excuse 4 d guy 2 dump her, they didnt luv her bt was jst after wats in betweem her thighs, she is stil a young gal, wat does she knows?

Are u sure u aint d one?

Godmother: My girlfriend is confused. Her relationship of six months just crashed and she needs advice. The guy refused to tell her the reason, just lost interest. She is suspecting their sex life is the reason. She says she's not too good. She lost her virginity last year and is new to sex. I actually advised her against it, telling her that if she kept herself till her late 20s why loose it now? She refused and still went ahead to sleep with the guy, only for the guy to treat her like crap afterwards.

Fastfoward to the second guy. He just broke up with her after sleeping with her a few times. She's devasted, doesn't know what to do. She wants to know what to do to be very good sexually. me I told her to just let things be and that when she meets the right guy they will communicate what they both want and things will flow better. Is there somethings else I should have told her. Need suggestions pls

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Is that the issue here? If you have an advice give it. if not......
And if you go through some of my posts you will see I say wen I'm the one going through an issue.

Godmother: My girlfriend is confused. Her relationship of six months just crashed and she needs advice. The guy refused to tell her the reason, just lost interest. She is suspecting their sex life is the reason. She says she's not too good. She lost her virginity last year and is new to sex. I actually advised her against it, telling her that if she kept herself till her late 20s why loose it now? She refused and still went ahead to sleep with the guy, only for the guy to treat her like crap afterwards.

Fastfoward to the second guy. He just broke up with her after sleeping with her a few times. She's devasted, doesn't know what to do. She wants to know what to do to be very good sexually. me I told her to just let things be and that when she meets the right guy they will communicate what they both want and things will flow better. Is there somethings else I should have told her. Need suggestions pls

y not advise your friend to focus and concentrate on her studies and indulge in wanton fantasies

This is the thing about overrating sex in a relationship, a lot of folks end up disappointed because sex is not the "end all be all" it is cracked up to be. The emotional connection is primary before you'll truly enjoy sex which is why I think you gave her the best advice. WAIT. If she's not in such a big hurry to turn into a "LovePeddler" then she can by wisdom discern someone who'll be right for her and get that sexual satisfaction and not loose her dignity in the process. Jumping from one man to the other in a bid to prove how much of a vixen she is will not help her esteem nor her health.

Hammer on the things you've told her and also try to make her realise that she is worth somebody good's time not users and dumpers.

I believe u gave ur friend very good advice. And those saying the ops friend is too young didn't u c she wrote she's in her late twenties. I tink ur friend is being desperate n Dats y she gave into d pressure after coping for all dese yrs. Her desperation is not letting her see beyond her nose n discern who just wants a cookie from d cookie jar n those who want d whole cookie jar. She should get over d heart brk n try to build her self esteem. She should let d whole pressure to get married not get to her. She should clear her head n try to improve herself. Learning a few tricks in bed is not bad oh. It will increase her confidence. She shouldn't just give any guy dat says he loves her simply because marriage is on her mind. Dat guy never loved her, bt for d sake of closure dere is no harm in finding out d actual reason he broke up with her even tho its pretty clear. Goodluck to ur friend!

There are other reason why the guy dop her...........that is only best know to he...........

Lost her virginity since last year and she is still new to sex? na war o. Well, on a more serious note, your friend should stop being naive. Man want womanliness, man get womanliness, man leave.. .wham, bam, thank you ma'am. That's the way it goes.

I tink ur friend is been desperate... If she cont lik dat d cycle will cont... She shld just find her self confidence n move one wit her lif.. And her own bobo go find m...

Bleble-swag:
dats nt a reasonable excuse 4 d guy 2 dump her, they didnt luv her bt was jst after wats in betweem her thighs, she is stil a young gal, wat does she knows?

If late 20's na small girl, please tell us who the big girls are

Lord_Reed: This is the thing about overrating sex in a relationship, a lot of folks end up disappointed because sex is not the "end all be all" it is cracked up to be. The emotional connection is primary before you'll truly enjoy sex which is why I think you gave her the best advice. WAIT. If she's not in such a big hurry to turn into a "LovePeddler" then she can by wisdom discern someone who'll be right for her and get that sexual satisfaction and not loose her dignity in the process. Jumping from one man to the other in a bid to prove how much of a vixen she is will not help her esteem nor her health.

Hammer on the things you've told her and also try to make her realise that she is worth somebody good's time not users and dumpers.

You nailed it!!