A big day for every lady is her “wedding day” this is the most awaited and exciting moment by every lady in the world who chooses to enter into a married life. Usually there is unexplainable feeling for the lady once she received a marriage proposal from the man whom she was engaged with. It is really a matter of choice for every woman whether to remain single or to enter into a married life.


Actually the most difficult part in the life of a woman is to decide in getting married. She will think one million times to choose the man she will live with for the rest of her life. Getting married is not a matter of joke it is a big responsibility for both man and woman. Do you think this is one of the reason why a bride to be cries on her wedding? 

The Wedding

Behind the veil the following are some secret reason why most of the bride cries on her wedding:

1. It is because of tears of joy.

A lady is just shedding tears of joy at long last after several years she will now be entering another stage of her life which is one plus one equal two and they are now one bind together. Or as a result of her thought behind those pearly tears falling down her cheeks is a secret story known only to herself.

2. A woman is not sure of her future to the man she chose.

Really, nobody knows what the future will be, that is why this time a lady can tell herself that she is marrying the wrong man.

            
 3.   She thinks that she is marrying the right man with a financial problem.

Remember this can really make a lady cry because love cannot give your needs to support life and the family that they will be forming for the rest of their life.

4. She is thinking of all the housework she will do after the wedding.

Majority of housework is the responsibility of the women because most of the time the husband is out of the house to earn for a living. Even a woman is also working it is still under her care those household chores.

5. She will be missing her mother and the whole family and other activities that she used to do.

There are those husbands who will not allow their wife to visit frequently their family or their friends; their usual activity is no longer applicable after the wedding time is already limited.

6. After the wedding a woman could no longer make her own decision.

The reason that she already binds herself to a man she wishes to be her partner in life is a fact that she will surrender and sacrifice everything thus if she will make decision she has to consult her husband first whether the husband will approve or not.

To all ladies, considering those factor mentioned above do you still want to enter into a married life? The answer is in your hand if you are ready to face the world with those reasons mentioned then you have to accept the challenge. Remember that married life is not all sacrifice or suffering it is also a matter of enjoying and sharing life to your partner and to your kids.

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I remain Exc@libur

Most Ladies these days don't even flicker their eye lids

All na crocodile tears.

Like seriously i completely agree with you @ Op its not just easy for we ladies so many things ahead all is well!

Obviously she is crying for d man dat is marryin her,,,,,,in her mind *cheii so na dis mumu man come later fall mugu after all dis my promiscous years,,,,smh,,,,,,,dis man no even knw wetin dis my kpekus don go tru and yet he pay all d bride price,,,,well na him luck,,,,bt I pity am sha* so na her husband foolishness she dey cry for,,lol

Yemlizzy: Like seriously i completely agree with you @ Op its not just easy for we ladies so many things ahead all is well!

ya!

Don't worry sister. God will see you through!

Prince Justice: Most Ladies these days don't even flicker their eye lids

no mind them!

It is those gurls that are getting married to not well financially buoyant guys that cry.

Imagine the gurls getting married to wizkid, davido et al, an hyena won't be able to compete with their laughs. If they cry at all, it will be for joy.

awwwwwww.. aw so cry dat day eehn.. itz nt easy jare. #Wips tearz 4rm my eye

U guys are ridiculous o.when d poor girl is crying abt d HELL she wld go thru dat nyt at d hands of her husband.after all d hurdles d guy dn go thru and all d money he spent on d weddn.he wnt be in a 4givin mood dat nyt. PS: dis also explains d husbands grin all thru d reception

kenny 09: U guys are ridiculous o.when d poor girl is crying abt d HELL she wld go thru dat nyt at d hands of her husband.after all d hurdles d guy dn go thru and all d money he spent on d weddn.he wnt be in a 4givin mood dat nyt. PS: dis also explains d husbands grin all thru d reception

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Tolexander: ya!

Don't worry sister. God will see you through!

Amen....thanks for the concern!

we women are emotional bieng and the reality of breaking away from your family bring tears:::::while some cry cos they wouldnt be any awoof