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Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by dayokanu(m): 4:38pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
See people advising the man to smile and talk and show more love to the woman Assuming the roles were reversed and the woman was the one slapped Is this the same thing we would be saying on Nairaland family section 1 Like |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
kensto: I was having an argument with my wife over an issue which she was at fault. I angryly left the house to cool temper. I later came back and asked for my food ,she ignored me. I went to the kitchen to take my food, opened the pot to take the food. She came from where she was staying walked to the kitchen and closed the pot and then slapped me saying "how dare you touch my pot". I just stood there for some minutes wondering what i would do to her. Please tell me what to do.I have some questions to ask pls don't find it offensive: Question Number 1: Between you and your wife, who brings in more money to the house- I mean, who earns higher Question Number 2: Is your wife older than you? If yes, by how many years Question Number 3: Have you ever noticed an awkward attitude from her- like someone possessed of a strange spirit At this point, you really need to find the solution to why she slapped you in order to solve it and possibly avoid it from repeating in future than planning on what to do....let the past be past and find a lasting solution. And I am suspecting that your wife brings in the money, or you do bring it little or nothing....hence, the deterioration in respect for you...reason nature frowns on a woman being the breadwinner of the family in African setting. If I am right, please pray, work hard to earn more income to regain your respect and authority as the man of the house. Don't let anyone deceive you- no Nigerian woman would respect and cook for her husband when she is the one bringing it bulk of the money to take care of the home, that's the absolute truth Let this one slid for peace, just work on stopping it in future, and don't go fighting with her pls 2 Likes |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
bukatyne:AWESOME POST!!! |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
100 percent Say no to abuse! bukatyne: |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by GeneralShepherd(m): 4:40pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
Eyop: SO because she's the one in charge of the kitchen,she must slap you? That's not an excuse except you don't have a say in that house meaning may be she's the one that married you and not the reverse. No matter how big or giant a woman is,she has no rite to slap the husband except she's the one feeding you and also taking full responsibility of the house. Husband or wife; none should hit someone they claim to love. Violence has no place in a healthy adult relationship. My advice quit |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
There is no doubt in my mind i will SLAP the sh*it out of her back! After all i'm a strong believer in equality of sexes! |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by kolidave: 4:44pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
bukatyne:don't get me wrong, I'm not against assisting. Its ok for the two of dem to share d responsibility. Wat I'm against is the fact that the woman should carry all the responsibility on her head and d man doing nuffin,wat use is d man for its just d same as a widowed woman. Even if the man got fired or had an accident,he won't go broke immediately he can start a business or invest his savings and use d profit to sustain d family or assist d wife |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
DailyNews:fallacy of hasty generalization Have you been to every and one nigerian homes? I'm speaking from personal experience What are you speaking from? The 'general mindset'? 1 Like |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by RoyalRoy(m): 4:45pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
My Pot Lollllz Lollllz. Reminds me of some people on Nairaland, who will always say My Thread No be you get thread o...its not yours but Nairaland's. |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Nobody: 4:48pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
Xsolutions: Another caveman lacking understanding, proudly displays his stupidity. Mtchewwww |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by carlinks: 4:49pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
For those saying the story might not be true,I've seen worse happen over lesser issues..a friend was hungry and he didn't have money so his gf went to buy food for him with her money..he was yet to start eating when his girlfriend told him sometinz that hurt him so he said he wasn't gona eat anymore. Then he asked that I give him food so I gave him some noodles to prepare and while he was at it,his girlfriend went to meet him in d kitchen and asked why he wasted her money..before you could say bingo,she slapped him thrice..I was shocked..this was a guy that when he starts fighting here,he beats 4 guys together at a time..I had to take him away lest he kills the babe and he confided in me that wasn't the first time it was happening.. Some ladies are just naturally violent and quick to physically assault their bf or husband 1 Like |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
I take that back. nna_bu_ike: Women are like dogs. They need to be taught manners and that is precisely how I would have approached the situation. Tie her to the bed and deliver 24 lashes using the buckle of the belt!! 1 Like |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by dayokanu(m): 4:50pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
Amaaskia: Another caveman lacking understanding, proudly displays his stupidity. Question Are men and women equal? Yes or No So what do you suggest should be done in this case Note whatever you advise should be applicable when the reverse is done i.e Husband slaps wife 1 Like |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
Amaaskia:You are an irritating useless girl,not a woman...you are a fool...cavewoman 1 Like |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by turl(m): 4:52pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
hmm..if I fold her finish ehn..well..I just pray it never happens. I really do. |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Nobody: 4:52pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
lorretta u: Someone says I should ask you what breed is your mother My dear, God bless you for this comment. The man is a beast! 1 Like |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by KKImoh: 4:52pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
Alfoasegh: Na today? My wife don slap me tire!!! So long as she no blind me, no wahala.olodo nawa 4u |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by kolidave: 4:53pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
dayokanu: See people advising the man to smile and talk and show more love to the womanthank you. Help me ask dem well ooo... D reverse is d case in their own case 1 Like |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Nobody: 4:53pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
bukatyne:My dear, in as much as I respect your opinion on this...let's face the truth here- most women tend to lack respect for their husband or boyfriend when they are the breadwinner of the home or when they earn more than their spouse or boyfriend, reason you hardly or rarely see rich single ladies dating guys they are richer than- very rare, and most times, they don't behave well towards the guy, still give him some snobbish attitudes.... The trend continues.....women hardly date down....they want someone higher than them- age-wise, financial-wise, height-wise, intelligence-wise, in fact, everything wise...and if a guy mistakenly marry a lady richer and maybe more educated than him, he is in for trouble and mess.... Naturally in Nigeria, women expect more from a man- they expect their husbands to foot at least 80% of the house bills if not 90%, and when their husband isn't meeting up to that expectation, with time, the woman's respect for him will start witnessing a dwindle. Men don't care if their wife comes from a wretched family....what they care most from their wife is respect, humility, submission and emotional support. But women care more about their hubby's financial support, emotional support and ability to provide and fend for the family, and it is a natural trait. That's why men don't misbehave or mistreat/maltreat their wife when they are the ones earning higher or providing everything. But its always different when the woman is earning higher or is the breadwinner. Maybe it may change in the future...but I would advice any young man wishing to marry in Nigeria to please strive and pray to have a good means of income, and also save for the rainy day cos most women don't wanna know that you were once comfortable....most care about the present and current situation cos their memories are mostly short lived. So OP should try and figure out the root cause of his wife's action to avoid it from reoccurring and not just dwell on retaliating. 2 Likes |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Micyril: 4:54pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
Madcow: The Man in you is almost dead.... Give her 4 slaps then kiss her... I can assure you that she will never raise her hand to slap you again...ppl like u are wife beaters |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Nobody: 4:54pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
Amaaskia:YOU ARE NOTHING!!! 1 Like |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by soulglo: 4:54pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
If someone slaps me there is a very good chance that I will slap back. Why are people asking who the bread winner is? Why the heck should it matter. So if she makes more money she should be able to slap him around? I guess if he gets fired from work she should make him kneel down and face the wall. That's just nonsense. Gosh. I honestly feel like you should not let it go lightly and she certainly has to come back very remorseful. She is crazy to think she could hit someone. She's a tyrant and you cannot reward bad behavior with "love". Rubbish. |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Nobody: 4:56pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
Xsolutions: You are an irritating useless girl,not a woman...you are a fool...cavewoman Hahaha aww. Did I hurt you? Is your heart bleeding? Aww. So sorry! I didn't mean to hurt your feelings, I'm simply stating reality: You are a "foolish" man. 2 Likes |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Nobody: 4:58pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
Amaaskia:Hehe...hurt?? I REPEAT...YOU ARE NOTHING!!! 1 Like |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Nobody: 4:58pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
lorretta u: fallacy of hasty generalizationYes dear, you are right that I committed fallacy of hasty generalization...but I want you to note that: every research, every statistics, and every scientific breakthrough was based on sampling, which is also a form of generalization. When they say: Brazilian girls are slutty, you don't expect every Brazilian girl to be....but at least, it is a known fact based on large sample analysis. So don't ever expect any figure or research to be 100% accurate because they are all based on generalization. Or haven't you heard that: LOVE IS A FALLACY, but say that to some people and watch them murder you in cold blood because they strongly believe in love. In conclusion @Lorreta, in every rule, there is an exception, so strive to be that exception if at all you aren't one already 1 Like |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by coogar: 5:00pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
dayokanu: See people advising the man to smile and talk and show more love to the woman madam aluta has already exposed the double standard. if the roles were reversed, 90% of the females would advise the wife to move out of the house cos the hubby is a beast, monster, coward, tout, uncultured, unruly, ungentlemanly and any other adjective you can add...... should this husband also move out of the house? 4 Likes |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by bukatyne(f): 5:01pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
lorretta u: 100 percent Hi babe, how are you You are pretty; saw your thread on Nairaland beauties |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by troy20(m): 5:01pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
DailyNews: My dear, in as much as I respect your opinion on this...let's face the truth here- most women tend to lack respect for their husband or man when they are the breadwinner of the home or when they earn more than their spouse.dailynews my man i like the way you take your time to write. 1 Like |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Nobody: 5:02pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
I know you're kidding deebrain: I will calm down and pretend to walk away. You dont make noise or get to an argument with a woman. When she thinks im maintaining my cool and playing that fake nonsense that "hey she is a woman. Women are like that"...and she is not suspecting anything, i would level her with a good RKO. I wont need to do it twice. |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by Dunexxx(m): 5:03pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
Amaaskia: Lmao. Damn! Ama u have mouth mehnnnn. Lucky u gats looks with that mouth eh |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by GeneralShepherd(m): 5:04pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
obadiah777: she slaps me ? i will look for a strong rope and tie her up and throw her into the cupboard and leave her there for 3 days without food and water. thats enough time to think about what she did. And you say American is babylon? You are Babylon!!! Gush 1 Like |
Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by nbright: 5:04pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
dayokanu: See people advising the man to smile and talk and show more love to the womanYou've seen it na, if it had been the man, many peeps would have asked her if she didn't see "the red flags" that the man is a violent man.. That is the hypocrisy I was talking about earlier.. |
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