Mummytea: ;DI feel asking our potential spouses all dese questions doesn't count. The person we should ask a question is ourselves. Am i ready to say "i do" to this person? Obviously we must have known our spouses well enuf thru the course of dating, and if we still decide to be with them then so be it. Trust me, even married couples don't know each other's top secrets. It's only natural, no one can change it. Afterall, till today Adam still thinks the Serpent gave Eve the apple. Word is, she plucked it with her hand.

Chimezie198: 21. Can u last upto 2hrs in bed?

jay bee: So i'd get a seal of approval if i come with a well prepared answer?

Just a whole lot of bull

You can only know someone's true character by spending time with them not by these useless Q&A sessions

adaptor4all: Just asked a girl all these questions now..Her response was , "Hope I passed d interview? If yes,when can I resume work?"
But seriously,these questions are 4 strangers. Ur spouse shd also b ur best friend.Remember u'll spend d rest of ur life wt him/her. So choose ur inmate wisely.

mobuch:

VIvi, Congratulations on your first topic in nairaland

bennyraz: @vivi, i was just helping readers out by including a time frame.. you know some might just write the questions down and start asking their partners to answer it one by one and at the end of the day, answers gotten might be liess

GentleMimi:
Its not co*ck and bull to an extent.There's a proverb in my place that says ''a man who asks questions can never get lost''. Even by observing a person,u still need to ask questions and hear their responses.You can learn abt a person by ''listening'' and not just hearing.If u are in a relationship and u do not ask some of the questions listed above,then u shld not blame anyone but yourself for the surprises u are bound to recieve.Relationship is abt COMMUNICATION!!!

Miner13: Chaii!
My modem is no wia 2 b find nd my fone displayin gateway error.
I beg vivi help me, mak i dey ask u d questn
abi u sef no wan mak i win?

vivacious vivi:
So, here are 20 questions to ask a potential spouse. These are just suggestions, and by no means should all of them be asked on a first date. If a question doesn’t feel right to you, then don’t ask it. Or, just replace it with one that is not on the list. The point is to get singles who desire to be married to think carefully about what’s important to them and then to have open communication about these issues before marriage. There are plenty of married and divorced people who wish they had asked the tough questions before saying “I do.”

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1. Do you have any life-threatening or incurable diseases?

2. Do you have any children? If so, how integral are they in your life?

3. What are your short term and long term goals?

4. What does financial stability mean to you?

5. What is your relationship like with your parents?

6. How often do you go to church, pray, read your Bible?

7. What gives you joy in life?

8. Do you have a criminal history or record?

9. Do you date men or women exclusively?

10. How many s*xual partners have you had?

11. What do you do when you get angry?

12. Do you have a job? How long have you been working/unemployed?

13. What was your last relationship like? How long ago was it?

14. What are you looking for in a mate?

15. Do you have crazy men or women calling, texting, or stalking you? Should I be afraid?

16. Are there many strong marriages in your family history?

17. What’s the one thing you don’t like about yourself?

18. Do you have any deal breakers for relationships?

19. What do you believe are the roles for men and women in relationships?

20. Do you desire to marry?

Now, there are no right or wrong answers per se. It all depends on what you deem as important. If a question matters to you, ask the question. Listen to the person’s words but also watch the person’s demeanor. Finally, pray about the answers you receive and ask God to order your next steps in the relationship. He might tell you to walk down the aisle or He might say walk the other way. You will never know until you ask.




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Sike: I swear you can't ask all this questions at once. One step at a time!

I Hate 9ja:
yea am better,u gotta check urslf
BUT that doesnt mean i wld reject a woman with a bad past,hurtz abi?
ladies think they are better @ asking question,are u guilty of any of my question shioor
can u now tell that d Op questions are future questions,are they not more of d guyz intimate past smh

aww dont feel so bad..im better than any woman you can ever date!..
im not quilty of any of your questions,but they just sounded like questions from a kid probably hurt
And about the op,are they about guys' intimate pasts only? I thought she generalized?! Meaning,both guys and ladies.
ANd btw,her questions aint about sex.ual pasts alone
You need to get matured if you are bent on just knowing your spouse's sex.ual pasts.

I really should ignore you.. we know your type, for your info,9ja hates you as well goodluck and don't expect another reply.

vivacious vivi:

Lost modem + Yeye phone = No Prize!!!

Btw, what prize are u even referring to?

angelseddy: Pls guys I just wanna ask can a traditional marriage be annuled in court if not how?

I Hate 9ja: To d females

26)how many guyz f*cked u @ ur nysc camp
27)are u a v*rgin
28)do u av a womb
29)do u know how to cook
30)how many boyfriend have u had
31)how many lecturers and H.O.D had s*x with u in d uni/poly/coll.
32)how many postinor sachets av u used so far
33)how many abortion have u had
34)has ur DAD slept with u
35)have u been r*ped
few month ago one of my graduated colleague(female) wed and can u all imagine dat our H.O.D who has b@nged d hell our of this gurl happened to be d father of d day @ her....unknw to d huzzy what as transpired btw them,what a crazy world,mehn i need a crazy faith

For wetin nah?:


Why are you lot so hard on women? Do they do these things alone? Does a woman get Pregos on her own? What about the men in question? You're talking about the girl dating her HOD, do you know how many sugar mummies and married woman the guy had slept with? Do you know how many of his current GFs attended his wedding? How many girls he also impregnated and asked them for an abortion? Wertin happen sef..Enough of this female bashing biko!!! People say the root of all evil is the love of money, fallacy! I think MEN are the root of ALL evil (oya make una begin nail me to d cross)

For wetin nah?:


Why are you lot so hard on women? Do they do these things alone? Does a woman get Pregos on her own? What about the men in question? You're talking about the girl dating her HOD, do you know how many sugar mummies and married woman the guy had slept with? Do you know how many of his current GFs attended his wedding? How many girls he also impregnated and asked them for an abortion? Wertin happen sef..Enough of this female bashing biko!!! People say the root of all evil is the love of money, fallacy! I think MEN are the root of ALL evil (oya make una begin nail me to d cross)