This article was originally posted on Nairaland
and I published it in response to this ARTICLE.
Ladies, if you claim to "love" your man, please act
like it. Why must it always be him that has to
initiate every call or text message? Why must he
always be the one that needs to plan every date?
Would it kill you to send him a cute message that
reads, "Hey babe, Just wanted to let you know
I'm thinking about you."? Would it kill you to
surprise him to a sweet romantic dinner? If you
don't have the money to take him out, you can
simply cook a delicious meal for him. Make the
evening special in your own way.
Once in a while, if you have money, you can stop
by the mall and get him a nice shirt or something
you think he would like.
A few years ago, I learned the secret to keeping
my man happy:
Whenever I can, I do sweet things for him. I plan
romantic outings, date nights, couple nights (an
evening where we gather with all our "couple"
friends), and I buy him little gifts whenever I can.
Not just on his birthday, but whenever I can. Above
all, I gave him the most important thing to a man:
RESPECT. In return, I get treated like a QUEEN. My
man goes above and beyond to put a smile on my
face. Making sure I'm happy slowly became a
priority for him. He gets me everything I want on
his own will. I've never had to ask for a thing.
I know our African men like to act hard and tough,
but deep down inside they just want a woman who
will genuinely love them. Not one who will love with
words, but a woman who loves with actions.
If you have a man who is not acting right, just start
loving him the RIGHT way and watch him change.
So ladies, send your man a cute text message
today. Surprise him with a cute and sexy message.
He will love it.
This goes to the married women as well.
**Disclaimer: I'm not telling you to spend all your
money on this man o. Neither am I asking you to
become his sugar mama. Just pamper him once in
a while.**

Pamper ko, huggies ni