armyofone: Taking CC you cant use in nigeria with you kinda funny to me. Im sure she got little ones and knew oga leaving the card will help them somehow. Men should stop trying to win argument with their women, i mean just give it to her. Something like babes, mind how you spend or dont empty the card and give it to her just for peace sake. No it is my way mentality as usual.
For peace sake hug and make up and continue your journey. Peace at home and peace in nigeria.
Well uwa di egwu, RIP man.

Many men avoid arguments with their wives, the problem sometimes is that you are followed even when you run. Beating you into submission, with words, is a target for some women.
The man may be taking the card knowing fully well he had made enough arrangement for the homefront and probably to also prevent the woman from squandering the funds in the account before his return.
All these are speculations, may God accept the man's soul

whaoo! You peeps don't sleep! After going through the arguments for and against the man and the wife one can rightly deduce that the man could have avoided his death at the expense of missing his flight by staying put in the car and really give the woman the talk of her life (that's if he didn't develop heart attack). Women can be pushy.
The woman!? She could have been a bit understanding and let the man travel with the card. Still they could have agreed on the amount to be waxed on the card while the hubby is away. She was jealous and paranoid and could be thinking the hubby was going on a spending spree in naija. Women should please take things easy. Things women can't try in Nigeria they try in UK because the system favours them. Now, the hubby is dead.. what next

To the bro that lost his life, tell God you tried your best and ask Him why He gave you the woman you had as a wife. ...RIP bro

Menh! nlanders can argue!

Happy weekend to all.

coogar:

let's hope she can live with killing her hubby..

she parked her car on M25 thereby putting herself, her husband and other road users in danger. i am sure she asked her hubby out of the car in the heat of their argument - why would a man get down on M25 hoping to hitchhike to heathrow? this is a very selfish woman - the type to be avoided.

man with wicked minds like yours should be avoided too

babyosisi
Mr Nicholas was being driven to Heathrow Airport by his wife at 4.30am
Let's even assume she kicked him out unto a hard shoulder, you mean she would have left a man who had a flight to catch on the roadside that early morning? I hope his relatives read this commentary. That woman killed your brother and son

Coming from a Naija woman, the above gives us men a flicker of hope that there are still a few educated Nigerian women who still hold on to their humanity in spite of their education.

Niseamaka
I personally witnessed a situation where a nigerian wife, in a heated argument, told her husband: are you talking back on me?, are you talking back on me?, you are leaving this house now. She then left the house and called the police, the police arrived in less than ten minutes and asked the husband to leave the house. The man stayed away from the house for one week. A wife is always right in the western world, the law always back them.

Sooner or later only the blind sperm banks will agree to go near Westernised Naija women.

neway:
Many men avoid arguments with their wives, the problem sometimes is that you are followed even when you run.

This is so true. I remember leaving home to avoid an argument with my Ex some years ago and after having had a not so sound sleep at a Bed & Breakfast, I came back home on a Saturday morning in the hope that she will at least let me catch a few hours more sleep. But she wasn't having it and wanted to continue the argument from where we left it the previous night. These UK Naija women sef. Its like this UK brings out the hidden witchcraft tendencies in Niaja women.

Ilekokonit:

Sooner or later only the blind sperm banks will agree to go near Westernised Naija women.

you can imagine why they despirately encourage feminism here too.honestly with the way it is, if it gets half a chance here then every man who defies the new order might have his head on a spike in his gate half a century from now.

chaircover:

That is a rather unfair statement bro. A woman/man has it within them to be whoever they choose to be regardless of location, it just manifests in different ways. A woman calling cops on her husband in the UK, will not call cops in Naija, but she will sure do something as damming. Is it not Naija that i hear of women smashing windscreens and dropping TV's off the balcony's?

Dont taint us all with the same brush. Look at the foundation and lifestyle of the men/women that you want to date. People are who they are; its an individual thing, not an environmental thing. A good or bad woman will be who she will be regardless of where she resides.

Irrespective of foundation and lifestyle, the society we live in greatly influences our behaviour. Women in the west generally, not only 9ja women, are manipulating with impunity the very laws put in place to help protect them from abuses. Couple of years ago, a work colleague of mine, white, was thrown out of his house by his wife. This woman with whom he had a daughter, was unemployed. The man works full time and pays the mortgage alone. He rented a small portacabin close to our place of work and still pays the mortgage. His wife now liveS alone in the house he labours to pay for. Their five years old daughter visits him once a week, on sundays. This scenario left the man a very broken person. He became an emotional wreak. One sunday, when their daughter came for her weekly visits, he strangled her and killed himself. What kind of society will evict a man from the house he bought and mandates that he continues to pay the mortgage while the wife lives there alone.

Niseamaka:

Irrespective of foundation and lifestyle, the society we live in greatly influences our behaviour. Women in the west generally, not only 9ja women, are manipulating with impunity the very laws put in place to help protect them from abuses. Couple of years ago, a work colleague of mine, white, was thrown out of his house by his wife. This woman with whom he had a daughter, was unemployed. The man works full time and pays the mortgage alone. He rented a small portacabin close to our place of work and still pays the mortgage. His wife now live alone in the house he labours to pay for. Their five years old daughter visits him once a week, on sundays. This scenrio left the man a very broken person. He became an emotional wreak. One sunday, when their daughter came for her weekly visits, he strangled her and killed himself. What kind of society will evict a man from the house he bought and mandates that he continues to pay the mortgage while the wife lives there alone.

Very pathetic, this is one of many instances where women have manipulated laws to punish men unjustly. Sometimes I wonder what kind of devil lives in the heart of some of these women.
However, some men are even worse; this reminds me a case of one guy who practically enslave his wife just because she has immigration issue. One of his friends went to see him and witnessed this yeye man slapped his wife over a minor issue, his friend slapped him back in annoyance and even threatened to beat him up.

na im village pple remote-control am.. d man wey him send money to dey build hse 4am 4naija, & wey don chop de money all wthout buildin any hse, don go visit ba'lawo as he hear say him dey com naija. tori abt town say d man in questn na him junior broda, I no kno oo.. If U ask me, na WHO I GO ASK

all am saying brah is, if that happened to me i would just stay in the car and try to reason with her. if she disagrees i would say ok take me home. i would reschedule the flight. and the next time my flight is scheduled, i would take the card and use a cab from home to heathrow. but getting out of the car in the dark at 4 am with cars zipping past at alarming speeds hoping to thumb down a lift out of blinded anger and rage. see he was too angry and enraged to think rationally. he is a strong headed fellow as much as she is

i agree with you 100%