I notice something lately about girls, when you are too nice to them. I mean when you have the qualities they really want in a guy, like love, care, a good listener. They override on you i mean they just think you plug money.

Please ladies lets be honest with this. Isn't it true?

and Why?

In some cases, yes, they take advantage of your 'friendliness', it's not very nice sha

@porter dis b'cos while they are thinking about sex you r petting them. that makes you a dulling guy. step ur ur game brother.

@segzi

this ain't about sex okay.

it depends on the woman.  If she is really not interested in you, attracted to you or feel you are a long term match then yes she will use you up and leave it.  It also depends on the age and maturity of the woman.

@tngtech dats all them ladies think about. lets put it this way, they love them bad guys .k.

segzi cres:

@tngtech that is all them ladies think about. lets put it this way, they love them bad guys .k.

A typical xample of an erroneous statment.

segzi cres:

@tngtech that is all them ladies think about. lets put it this way, they love them bad guys .k.

not really

See y i kip telling u guys to quit all this soft talk.Poster who told u all u hav mentioned are d qualities ladies nid in a man.They want a man who is tough and ready to put his foot down.Y do u think all these ladies kip falling for the so-called rough n tough guys even wen they know they may likely be dumped in the end.

@Topic. shot ur self in the foot eh.

Too much of everything is not Good.

@ post
Personally,i dnt like it wen a guy is being SUPER nice/agrees with everything i say.
We want men to nice in d sense dat,they re sensitive to our needs bhut
we need sm1 who wil take d lead,mk hard decisions nd be forceful once in a while.
I think "MR NICE GUYS" shud concentrate on improving dese tyns:physical size/strength/prowess,
ambition,sexuality,money,intelligence etc rather dan playin too nice.
I like it wen guys re nice bhut only wen dey dnt have to/wasn't xpectin dem to(not everday)

I'm not really sure I understand the question very well but I'll say this, there is a difference between nice and suegbe. Nice guys will get love from me any day and Suegbe guys better say away if they know what's good for them.

Having said that, I like a guy who can go toe to with me when it comes to verbal combat and I don't mean real war of the roses kind of fight or quarrel oh, ^{before people start thinking I'm a Masochist} I mean riffing off each other in a fun away. What I can't stand is a guy who takes himself waaaaaaaaaaaay too seriously. Oh my freaking God! I'll take a Suebge [/i]guy over a [i]Mr. My sense of humor Chip is missing any day. I will dance to the alter and praise God for giving me a[i] Suegbe[/i] guy before I take[i] Mr. Take life too seriously[/i] and if there is no other guys left on earth except for Mr. I don't have a funny bone in my body, I'd rather shoot myself in the head than go with him.

then explain to me.

you are a mugu period.she doesnt love you
look for someone who can manage ur boring self
or try and be exiciting

princess k:

you are a mugu period.she doesnt love you
look for someone who can manage your boring self
or try and be exiciting

Tee Hee Hee

Its not about Mr. Nice, Its how u go about ur game, Who says the tough ones are not nice

Go brush up, ur games.

jkpretty:

Its not about Mr. Nice, Its how u go about your game, Who says the tough ones are not nice

Go brush up, your games.

Gotta agree

@ Topic

its applicabale to both ladies and guys, so it's not a question that should be directed to only the ladies

Blatant LIE!!

princess k:

you are a mugu period.she doesnt love you
look for someone who can manage your boring self
or try and be exiciting

i think you should stop insulting yourself. I never asked this question to be insulted okay. If u know u don't know what to say, why not shutdown the pc.

Yeah,

they shuld b nice 2 sum xtent,

being 'over-nice'. . . . u'd b taken 4 granted.

iice:

Doormat or nice?

too Nice