the concept of kissin n tellin is a little too sublime to describe the way some guys spin after gettin lucky.

a lady on the other hand my call up her close friends and tell them how indescribable the experience was ( much to the praise and gratification of the guy)

however, most guys dont rlly care to whom and where the relay their experiences. for all u care, they could climb mt. everest to annouce their lastest conquest to the world and make a pressing effort to debase and objectify the chic. its just pointless, especially when sex is consensual.

got that right, but thankfully not all, only some

Guys Don't Kiss N' Tell, They Shag N' Brag.

says who?

Is bragging not a form of telling?


Let me go shag come first.

arianne:

the concept of kissin n tellin is a little too sublime to describe the way some guys spin after gettin lucky.

a lady on the other hand my call up her close friends and tell them how indescribable the experience was ( much to the praise and gratification of the guy)

however, most guys don't rlly care to whom and where the relay their experiences. for all u care, they could climb mt. everest to annouce their lastest conquest to the world and make a pressing effort to debase and objectify the chic. its just pointless, especially when sex is consensual.

It's in the DNA.

When a guy scores a chic. . . . . .It's like a football striker scoring a goal.
The build-up, the plot and strategy and finally the goal is like an achievement so he is in his own rights to BRAG about it.
However, for the woman. . . . . .she is the goalkeeper who has conceded a vital goal. . . . .She aint proud of it.
Geddit??

Says who?

Pls modify title to correctly read - Boys Don't Kiss N' Tell, They Shag N' Brag. )

shag and brag!!!
never tot of it that way,
but now u said it me thinks its better.

used to think kiss and tell was the ultimate(gulder)
well now i will rmemba to shag and brag. lol-

the girls set themselves up for it. ,

if u make the sex about u rather than about them, u get bragging rights!

HR.hotness:

the girls set themselves up for it. ,

if u make the sex about u rather than about them, u get bragging rights!

So u outplay ur partners in bed??

HR.hotness:

the girls set themselves up for it. ,

if u make the sex about u rather than about them, u get bragging rights!

Them? Meaning: WOMEN?

Since when did shagging become about them?

Hannibal:

So u outplay your partners in bed??

More or less 

Pataki:

Them? Meaning: WOMEN?

Since when did shagging become about them?

let me rephrase that. . .
if women make the sex about them, rather than about the men, they get bragging rights!


In other words,

women need to take more control of who, where, when and how it all happens. . . they'll be more satisfied and be secure in the knowledge that it was their decison and about them

Pataki:

Is bragging not a form of telling?


Let me go shag come first.

bragging is an exaggerated and debasing form of it.

make u do come back, we dey wait!

Hannibal:

It's in the DNA.

When a guy scores a chic. . . . . .It's like a football striker scoring a goal.
The build-up, the plot and strategy and finally the goal is like an achievement so he is in his own rights to BRAG about it.
However, for the woman. . . . . .she is the goalkeeper who has conceded a vital goal. . . . .She aint proud of it.
Geddit??

rlly? DNA? thats refreshin! d analogy is interesting though a bit flawed. u assume guys are the only ones doin the plottin and schemeing? well, welcome to the new age where some ladies too devise how to bed guys. they see u and just make it a personal life ambition to sleep with u. now the reaction after the sexual drama is what is annoyin. why do guys make it look like u crossed seven rivers and seas to get what was offered to u on a diamond platter? so the fellaz can say ur the man rite?

oops! dont answer that. u already said its in the DNA!

arianne:


rlly? DNA? thats refreshin! d analogy is interesting though a bit flawed. u assume guys are the only ones doin the plottin and schemeing? well, welcome to the new age where some ladies too devise how to bed guys. they see u and just make it a personal life ambition to sleep with u. now the reaction after the sexual drama is what is annoyin. why do guys make it look like u crossed seven rivers and seas to get what was offered to u on a diamond platter? so the fellaz can say your the man rite?

oops! don't answer that. u already said its in the DNA!

Lets do a poll on Nairaland and see how many chics would admit to plotting n scheming to bed guys.
Even when u do. . . . . .You pretend as if things just happened naturally so it's normal for any guy to think. . . YEA, i made it!!!
Reaction after sex is a relief guys get after the plot, plan and strategy. . . .
It's like having a car that won't start. . . You open the hood--dive into the engine and finger the mechanism. . . when it works, u are fulfilled!!

arianne:

bragging is an exaggerated and debasing form of it.

make u do come back, we dey wait!

It is still the same thing.

Come back and state it on nairaland? Haba!!!!! I am not like some YIM specialist who kiss and tell.

What happens in my life, stays with me.

HR.hotness:

let me rephrase that. . .
if women make the sex about them, rather than about the men, they get bragging rights!


In other words,

women need to take more control of who, where, when and how it all happens. . . they'll be more satisfied and be secure in the knowledge that it was their decison and about them

You are still saying the same thing.

SEX is about the WOMEN.

@ topic

I aint better so who am i to judge?

why do women feel that they are the used party whenevr sex is involved.

if u can rid of that kinda mindset, then weda the guy brags or not, its nothing cosu both used urselves.

Hannibal:

Lets do a poll on Nairaland and see how many chics would admit to plotting n scheming to bed guys.
Even when u do. . . . . .You pretend as if things just happened naturally so it's normal for any guy to think. . . YEA, i made it!!!
Reaction after sex is a relief guys get after the plot, plan and strategy. . . .
It's like having a car that won't start. . . You open the hooddive into the engine and finger the mechanism. . . when it works, u are fulfilled!!

i like your humor (not your name).

yeah, most ladies wnt confess to plotting to bed guys. but whats rlly crazy is guys who still do this with chicks they supposedly serious with. i mean brag about a one-nightstand, a bet, a drunk orgy. . etc and i mite understand, but with someone your supposed to be down with. its really disrespectful

arianne:

i like your humor (not your name).

yeah, most ladies wnt confess to plotting to bed guys. but whats rlly crazy is guys who still do this with chicks they supposedly serious with. i mean brag about a one-nightstand, a bet, a drunk orgy. . etc and i mite understand, but with someone your supposed to be down with. its really disrespectful

No real guy would brag about SCORING his main babe. . . . .come on. . . . Naija guys don't really do all that.
How many times have u seen anyone on NL bragging about shagging his main wifey. . .
Thats crass, uncouth n classless.

dem ladies go n tell dem friends about what happened in e secret chamber y can't then guys do d same?

Pataki:

SEX is about the WOMEN.

You might think so, but the way some men go about it tells another story. . .

the whole shagging and bragging concept only came about becos the man believes that he scored making women feel used. . . if d woman did d scoring, that will eliminate all the shagging and bragging problems.

Ladies need to do some chasing and conquering of their own. . .  problem solved!

HR.hotness:

You might think so, but the way some men go about it tells another story. . .

the whole shagging and bragging concept only came about because the man believes that he scored making women feel used. . . if d woman did d scoring, that will eliminate all the shagging and bragging problems.

Ladies need to do some chasing and conquering of their own. . . problem solved!

Was that why u were chasing me aggressively last night with ur beautiful arse??

HR.hotness:

You might think so, but the way some men go about it tells another story. . .

the whole shagging and bragging concept only came about because the man believes that he scored making women feel used. . . if d woman did d scoring, that will eliminate all the shagging and bragging problems.

Ladies need to do some chasing and conquering of their own. . . problem solved!

Men naturally love to explore and conquer their environment.

While you have a part of your argument right, the latter part is grossly wrong. Sex is not about the WOMEN. Bragging about scoring a girl is principally hinged on inferiority complex of the guy involved.

Ladies should know when to avoid such men.

Pataki:

Ladies should know when to avoid such men.

Who are such men??
Can u expantiate??

izeek:

why do women feel that they are the used party whenevr sex is involved.

if u can rid of that kind of mindset, then weda the guy brags or not, its nothing cosu both used urselves.

dear, u are breakin the 11th commandment of NL, "thou shall not generalise"

to some its a mindset that sex is debasing, but outside that context, even when both parties admit in their love nest that the sex was mutually gratifying, some guys still choose to make it all about them like the chic was some begging sex-starved slave in front of all and sundry!

Hannibal:

Was that why u were chasing me aggressively last night with your beautiful arse??

Lol

you r not the only one who loves a challenge  

Pataki:

Men naturally love to explore and conquer their environment.

While you have a part of your argument right, the latter part is grossly wrong. Sex is not about the WOMEN. Bragging about scoring a girl is principally hinged on inferiority complex of the guy involved.

Ladies should know when to avoid such men.

But it shd be. ,

I appreciate that u are seperating urself from the pack but that doesnt mean that there are many out there who are this way and i think that what this topic is trying to address  

arianne:

dear, u are breakin the 11th commandment of Nairaland, "thou shall not generalise"

to some its a mindset that sex is debasing, but outside that context, even when both parties admit in their love nest that the sex was mutually gratifying, some guys still choose to make it all about them like the chic was some begging sex-starved slave in front of all and sundry!

Mutual consent has nuthing to do with this. . . . .
It's the chase right from the onset that places the guy as the game player versus the computer!!!
The chase, fone calls, arranging dates and finally SEX. . . . . . It's a male dominated kizzack. . . .Guys have the right to brag about this.

HR.hotness:

Lol

you r not the only one who loves a challenge

Unfortunately, i didn't see the images.
U meanie.

Hannibal:

Unfortunately, i didn't see the images.
You meanie.

Lol. . . U didnt work hard enough honey

HR.hotness:


But it should be. ,

I appreciate that u are seperating yourself from the pack but that doesnt mean that there are many out there who are this way and i think that what this topic is trying to address

It should not be sweets.

Once you start making it a thing of gender, bragging sets in.

HR.hotness:

Lol. . . You didnt work hard enough honey

Hard work?? 
Since when?? must a dude work hard to view??
Anyways, put your YIM up and letz see what u got.

segzi cres:

them ladies go n tell them friends about what happened[b] in e secret chamber[/b] y can't then guys do d same?

thats why its called tellin not bragging,better than doin it in a beer palor

Hannibal:

Hard work??
Since when did a dude must work hard to view??
Anyways, put your YIM up and letz see what u got.

Since u start dealing with me
YIM is d same as my email

HR.hotness:

Since u start dealing with me
YIM is d same as my email

Dealing with you?
Me wife is a traditional wrestler. . . .
Can u cope??