Renylee: It can only take the grace of God for these type of men to change:
Wife beaters
Drunks
Selfish men
Womanizers
Mummy's boys

coogar: yes, he can.....

change is constant in life. all these yahoo boys & runs girls would marry one day & their partners would expect them to change. scratch that, they would even embrace changes cos old age & marital maturity would take it's course. if we expect changes in those ones, how is this fiancée abuser any different?

lokito: So many silly replies here I bet.

IMO:
In one way or d other 90% men has laid hands on their woman but get prone to remorse and penitence. According to Aristotle "to decide means to kill every other option"
Most of these men decide and say "I'm girding up the loins in my heart to say I'll NEVER hit my woman again" and it benchmarks forever in their heart.
Only men without principles and discipline goes back to hit their woman again and again. Such men I call them "non-men in a numb and reduced lumpish state"
Tell your friend to eschew the caring and loving side of this man and focus on his principles in entirety. The possibility of him promising never to err again and remain stick to his words is infinite.
For those saying he'll never Change, u're all wrong because u're only talking while seating on the fence. Kudos goes to only a man in an arena who strives valiantly with face masked with blood and sand, who errs over and over again and later gets up and embrace positive change.
That man is possibly in the arena right now

Though, she says the guy is generous and highly caring but his bad temper is the only turn-off in him.

vizkiz: dis actualy happened 2 my frnd...he's also a carinq dude...buh d prob z he qts anqry easily due 2 tinz he's facinq in his life...there was dis tym e was havinq a mis-understandinq wif his girl n he HIT her. Mehn it was hrtbreakinq buh d fact z dt nt all quys dt lay their hands on their girl reali meant it dt way...every1 has a weak point nw as a girl,u cnt qt a perfect quy...wuh u need 2 do z take him 2 an advicer n u shuld do dt nicely(2 avoid anoda beatinq ) there no1 dt cnt chanqe thier bad attitude

vizkiz: dis actualy happened 2 my frnd...he's also a carinq dude...buh d prob z he qts anqry easily due 2 tinz he's facinq in his life...there was dis tym e was havinq a mis-understandinq wif his girl n he HIT her. Mehn it was hrtbreakinq buh d fact z dt nt all quys dt lay their hands on their girl reali meant it dt way...every1 has a weak point nw as a girl,u cnt qt a perfect quy...wuh u need 2 do z take him 2 an advicer n u shuld do dt nicely(2 avoid anoda beatinq ) there no1 dt cnt chanqe thier bad attitude

freecocoa: Change you say?

This one is just the preamble, the real beating will start after marriage, if she knows what's best for her, she had better called off that impending death.

Btw, how is someone who batters you every time caring? Some women and f00lishness sha.

lokito: So many silly replies here I bet.

IMO:
In one way or d other 90% men has laid hands on their woman but get prone to remorse and penitence. According to Aristotle "to decide means to kill every other option"
Most of these men decide and say "I'm girding up the loins in my heart to say I'll NEVER hit my woman again" and it benchmarks forever in their heart.
Only men without principles and discipline goes back to hit their woman again and again. Such men I call them "non-men in a numb and reduced lumpish state"
Tell your friend to eschew the caring and loving side of this man and focus on his principles in entirety. The possibility of him promising never to err again and remain stick to his words is infinite.
For those saying he'll never Change, u're all wrong because u're only talking while seating on the fence. Kudos goes to only a man in an arena who strives valiantly with face masked with blood and sand, who errs over and over again and later gets up and embrace positive change.
That man is possibly in the arena right now

oyb: [size=28pt]RUN!!![/size]