$$Rhino:

Any [b]human [/b]will go to where [b]she [/b]is adored and celebrated and not tolerated.

oka now pay attention to those two highlighted words. you said "human" then "she". is man not human too? doesn't man go to where he his adored and celebrated?

more applicable to a woman than to a man.
for example, when was the last time that you pamper your man?

define pampering?

onyinye2:

define pampering?

make him feel like he is the king and that without him world will sieze, cos that is what a man will do to you that will make u to forget ur sorrow.

there is a guy in delta who is willing marry a banker.any lady interested should reply wiht her ohone no at emorefriday@yahoo.com.thanks[color=#006600][/color]

$$Rhino:

make him feel like he is the king and that without him world will sieze, because that is what a man will do to you that will make u to forget your sorrow.

King ko, world ni. Well i have my ways of making a man feel like a so called "king". oka the second part of your statement is sort of questionable. you are going to have to elaborate.

lemme lay off this topic for a while, cos yu are just being stuborn, u know quite well that i am so right.

Rhino, you should know me by now. I'm stubborn. even when i don't want to be, I am.

onyinye2:

Rhino, you should know me by now. I'm stubborn. even when i don't want to be, I am.

try to lay down ur arms for once and see from other angle, the man is your man and there is nothing wrong in you coming home and yu wanna go for dinner with him, and you " here hon, hang on to this" and he will use that to pay after eating, but nope, u want pple to know you da big shot?
no matter what you do, the man will always be the man. chikena

$$Rhino:

try to lay down your arms for once and see from other angle, the man is your man and there is nothing wrong in you coming home and yu want to go for dinner with him, and you " here hon, hang on to this" and he will use that to pay after eating, but nope, u want people to know you da big shot?
no matter what you do, the man will always be the man. chikena

Im not trying to be the "big shot". i just feel if im the one with the money, then i should be the one to answer when the check comes. This just all goes back to man and his best friend ego.

no matter how much money u have got, the man is stillthe head of the house and he will forever be and remember what has been said, that a ship with 2 heads in a monster.

A marriage is a partnership not a dictatorship. Two heads are always better than one. And of course i would "pamper" my man and make him feel adored. I might be stubborn but im not cruel.

I might be stubborn but im not cruel.

The line between both is thin

Yes marriage ought to be a partneship with one person as the head and the other as support, even if you are the one making the money and he is a stay home dada, he is still the man of the house and still the head of the house.
i am not condoning laziness oh, cos men, dont say Rhino say being stayhome dad is aiight, cos aint kool.
Put it this way, all i am reading here is that, a man without money is a dead man and will drive his wife to another man's house for money.

idupaul:

The line between both is thin

And i have yet to cross it.

idupaul:

The line between both is thin

sometimes, the line dont even exist.

onyinye2:

And i have yet to cross it.

dont be too sure.

If a guy doesn't have money at the time, it wouldn't drive me to no other man. I would do my part as the woman to support us both and support him to get a job too. But you make me sound as if im that kind of chic who only looks out for herself and seldomly puts her man first.

onyinye2:

If a guy doesn't have money at the time, it wouldn't drive me to no other man. I would do my part as the woman to support us both and support him to get a job too. But you make me sound as if im that kind of chic who only looks out for herself and seldomly puts her man first.

i am not making u look that way, but what u saying is giving u away as such

$$Rhino:

i am not making u look that way, but what u saying is giving u away as such

Oka i admit im stubborn and clever. But im not cruel nor evil. I understand that i can't run the household no matter how capable i am of doing it. I understand that the power is going to be 60/40 no matter how much i don't like it. But im not selfish. I'm willing to do whatever my man wants of me. That is my job as his wife. And of course i would pamper my husband. I mean just let me put on a little Gerald Albright and i will satisfy his every need.

onyinye2:

Oka i admit im stubborn and clever. But im not cruel nor evil. I understand that i can't run the household no matter how capable i am of doing it. I understand that the power is going to be 60/40 no matter how much i don't like it. But im not selfish. I'm willing to do whatever my man wants of me. That is my job as his wife. And of course i would pamper my husband. I mean just let me put on a little Gerald Albright and i will satisfy his every need.

now you are talking like a lady and not like a baby, u have finally woken up from ur dreams without sleeping.

$$Rhino:

now you are talking like a lady and not like a baby, u have finally woken up from your dreams without sleeping.

yeah yeah yeah I mean i understand what im "suppose" to do. but doesn't mean i will enjoy it. I enjoy cooking for my man, being there as his is right hand person, catering to his needs, fulfilling all his desires(well except one), but i don't enjoy the power split. I don't like the whole 60/40 thing.

onyinye2:

yeah yeah yeah I mean i understand what im "suppose" to do. but doesn't mean i will enjoy it. I enjoy cooking for my man, being there as his is right hand person, catering to his needs, fulfilling all his desires[b](well except one), [/b] but i don't enjoy the power split. I don't like the whole 60/40 thing.

onyinye which one?

tell us now

onyinye2:

yeah yeah yeah I mean i understand what im "suppose" to do. but doesn't mean i will enjoy it. I enjoy cooking for my man, being there as his is right hand person, catering to his needs, fulfilling all his desires(well except one), but i don't enjoy the power split. I don't like the whole 60/40 thing.

Which one would that be.

gabe_logan:

onyinye which one?

tell us now

Nwoke, don't worry about it.

$$Rhino:

Which one would that be.

Nna, don't worry about it.

onyinye2:

yeah yeah yeah I mean i understand what im "suppose" to do. but doesn't mean i will enjoy it. I enjoy cooking for my man, being there as his is right hand person, catering to his needs, fulfilling all his desires(well except one), but i don't enjoy the power split. I don't like the whole 60/40 thing.

Why are you so adamant about power split.   Forget about the position of power and focus on achieving a fulfilling marriage.  When you mature more you will understand that there's more to marriage than who gets the 60 or who gets the 40.

u can't start something without finishing it.
and for ur info, you have no power at all

HCH3COO:

Why are you so adamant about power split. Forget about the position of power and focus on achieving a fulfilling marriage. When you mature more you will understand that there's more to marriage than who gets the 60 or who gets the 40.

True

sistawoman:


True

Thank you.

I dont see anything wrong with handing my man the money in the car on the way out to eat.  Suppose he gets paid the next day but wants to go out tonight.  If i have the funds then I will just let him be the man he is not have sit there while his woman pays.

A mans ego is delicate and if you learn to work it properly, girl, he will give you everything and anything.

HCH3COO:

Why are you so adamant about power split.   Forget about the position of power and focus on achieving a fulfilling marriage.  When you mature more you will understand that there's more to marriage than who gets the 60 or who gets the 40.

I won't let the whole "power" thing be the focus of my marriage. I will just deal with it even if i don't like it.

$$Rhino:

u can't start something without finishing it.
and for your info, you have no power at all

I did start something and I did finish it.
And oh HELL YEAH i go some power brotha

HCH3COO:

Why are you so adamant about power split.   Forget about the position of power and focus on achieving a fulfilling marriage.  When you mature more you will understand that there's more to marriage than who gets the 60 or who gets the 40.

dont mind onyinye

she's a female supremacist. i'm beginning to doubt if she'll get married with this her stance on sharing formula and all her posturing