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Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by eldav(m): 3:50pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
And to think all the ladies are congratulating him. Smh. This goes to show how much girls desire wimps,someone who they can walk all over and he'll still be begging them. A guy they can shit on,piss on and he'll thank them for it. Look,mr OP,what you have there isnt a good girlfriend,rather a heartless creature who wouldnt blink an eye to hurt you. You just showed her what less of a man you are. Next time she's tempted to do something bad,she'll just go ahead and do it,why? Because she knows she can get away with it,because she knows you will forgive her,because she knows you are too spineless to leave her and seek for somthing much better. True love indeed. U r just too blinded to see what is right infront of you,and what that is is a manipulative creature. *why cant people use their brains for once?! 9 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by joromi: 3:56pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
alutacontinua: I wouldn't do this to a man that I love. No mind this mugus... Na the 2 weeks she take recuperate from the impact of the abortion... An abuja babe for that matter.... Eh eh... |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Azedplus(m): 4:07pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
such a silly test,even if I pass and still love her I don't think I will forget and forgive her for toying with my tomorrow |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 4:08pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
joromi: Lol It's really crazy....if I cheat on my man and confess to him, i'm ready to bear the consequences. He deciding to stay or leave is not a measure of how much he loves me. He can still leave if he loves me-knows he can't forget and he'll just keep bringing it back into our life. If a man decides to leave on dt ground, well, he has a good point! What i'm tryna say is d test doesn't necessarily prove love! Besides, if d roles were to be reversed,would op's girl have passed too? 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by fijiano202(m): 4:09pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
eldav: And to think all the ladies are congratulating him. Smh. This goes to show how much girls desire wimps,someone who they can walk all over and he'll still be begging them. A guy they can shit on,piss on and he'll thank them for it. Look,mr OP,what you have there isnt a good girlfriend,rather a heartless creature who wouldnt blink an eye to hurt you.harsh truth |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by 2sizzlin(m): 4:12pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
Faints |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 4:15pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
eldav: And to think all the ladies are congratulating him. Smh. This goes to show how much girls desire wimps,someone who they can walk all over and he'll still be begging them. A guy they can shit on,piss on and he'll thank them for it. Look,mr OP,what you have there isnt a good girlfriend,rather a heartless creature who wouldnt blink an eye to hurt you.Rotfl. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 4:18pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Dlionsheart: 4:33pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
Wich kain test b dat eni girl dat wan to test mi like dat should pripaa to giv mi F9, wetin But wait oo, what if this girl has actually cheated on you, done something silly, and was pregnant and had gone to abort it? Maybe she felt guilty afterwards and try to see what ur reaction will be if u got to know. My friend IK, two things are involved here; first, you can't be hurt by what you don't know, so if you truly love her as you said, accept her like that and move on, after all life itself is a risk, otherwise, tell her how much you love her, cajoled her to the lab for a test and confirm for yourself to be sure she's not playing a fast game. So you won't come back here again to seek advice for heart break. Gudluck!!!! |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Temptee101(m): 5:20pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
jmoore: girls encouraging fiction.U dey mind d Op. Woman neva do am strong tin b4. He shud thank his stars that he survived dis one. Nxt one might be tragic |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by pussyeater(m): 5:53pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
That test is too expensive man! *sigh* |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Waspy(m): 6:11pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
sweet-tease:there are guys and you need to meet us |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Dlionsheart: 6:50pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
Temptee101: U dey mind d Op. Woman neva do am strong tin b4. He shud thank his stars that he survived dis one. Nxt one might be tragic that's if the story is true and not a calculated lies. U no say some guymen no dey gree say Dem cry 4 their babe. Even when u see tears 4 their eyes Dem go say their eye dey worry dem. ME, D LION'S HEART, I GO FIRST TEAR U SLAP NA TWINKLE TWINKLE LITTLE STAR U GO DEY SING BY DEN UR BRAIN DON ARRANGE DEN I GO COME ASK U TO REPEAT WETIN U TALK 4 PHONE IF TRUE TRUE SAY NA TEST U DEY TEST ME, OMO NA SORRY GO FIRST B UR NAME B4 MY DARLING DEN I GO COLLECT MY F9 4 D TEST I NO SEND U AH AH WETIN!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by mylora: 6:59pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
My dear, pls take her to a doctor and run some tests as to the authenticity of her story. Only then will you be in a position to knw if she actually did test you. Goodluck! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by holusormi(m): 7:05pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
mikyke: Hello friends my name is IK, this was or still is the experience I had/am having as the case maybe. I may not be a constructive writer but will try to pass the message across in simple words and as short as possible. Bro, u really tried oo...in anoda view ( my own personal view),, she really was pregnant And she aborted it..after Abortion she called up her mugu (you) and everytin came back to normal,,she ate her cake and she still has it..,,smart geh",,!!! As for the 10k aspect..don't be fooled bro,,10k is onne of the easiest tinz to come by these days...(beer money,,smh) |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by farano(f): 7:36pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
holusormi:seconded |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 7:37pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
so many things aren't adding up at all... if this is actually a test why did she wait for two weeks and after you called to reveal her 'intention' and for phuck sake this is relationship of three years. and like someone pointed out a normal pattern would be to test your faithfulness to her by way of setting you up with her friends or sisters or paying you a surprise visit and not this her cock and bull tale |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 7:43pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
From reading again, it took the girl 3 days to get back to him after hearing that he wants her back. Why did she take that long to respond? OP, cross examine this person O. Also, this is not us trying to be negative, we are simply trying to make you more than a spineless man. A woman will always misstep when she knows her man is too soft....a nigerian woman at that. This one is not a myth. The plain and simple is, no matter what you believe or decide to do... test or not, she lied to you! A very hard lie that shattered your life. That is a very fawked up thing to do. And she let you spend too much time in that state of heart attack for so long with no regard for your feelings. Abi what if you loved her so much that you gan went to hug transformer or hang yourself? This alone is grounds for termination, and moving on in it gives her a license of "It's okay to do that to me in the future". Now I can understand if you have chosen to remain with this hot mess if you truly have no options, but if you DO have female options...you might want to consider them. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 7:52pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
Op, the girl don convert u to mr. Bean, what kind of stupid test is dat, will she forgive u if u were d one that gave her a test. True love my foot |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Temptee101(m): 7:52pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
D lion'sheart:Lol! Seriously! d Op, don vex me. One gal dey toil with im hrt, life, happiness, existence and future; im dey here dey tell me abt luv.@ Op, no rejoice yet oooo, u jus passed comon entrance, u neva pass waec and jamb test stil dey wait u. So relax more tests are coming ur way. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Temptee101(m): 7:55pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
Boneda: Op, the girl don convert u to mr. Bean, what kind of stupid test is dat, will she forgive u if u were d one that gave her a test. True love my footThat gal don cage Op for insyd bottle. U nid serious deliverance i swear |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Temptee101(m): 7:56pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
Boneda: Op, the girl don convert u to mr. Bean, what kind of stupid test is dat, will she forgive u if u were d one that gave her a test. True love my footThat gal don cage d Op for insyd bottle. That guy nids serious deliverance i swear |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by addictiv(m): 7:56pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
I despise such tests......if you re not sure of who you re dating after 3yrs. Then you re most certainly confused....what re you testing for? I doubt the authenticity of the lady's test. Something is off. . |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by addictiv(m): 7:58pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
Temptee101: What kind of silly joke is this? My gal once tried such before; and ofcourse that was d end. Guy, u try o. U were ready to father another man's childThere is no crime or shame in being a father to an unborn child. Irrespective of who donated the sperm. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 8:00pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
@op why not carry out a simple investigation. find out from her where she was the two days her sister said she was missing.she is probably going to tell you she was with a friend.invite the friend for a chat and pretend and make vague complaints about your girl.if your girl is lying i bet you will be able to pick up inconsistencies and take it up from there. if your girl has the right to know what she is getting into after 3 years i believe you also have the right. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by drasob: 8:05pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
Bro, in my own opinion; dis is no test but no one knows, it might have actually happened, it might also not have happened, but my advise to you is that you minimize your love to her, Never, and I repeat Never love a gal more than she loves you, do thread softly. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Temptee101(m): 8:15pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
addictiv:Did u read the Op's story atall? After goin tru his article, i cnt help but to suspect the gal inquestioned. If actually he wants to help, there are so many ways he cud achieve dat without marrying d gal. After 3yrs of commitmnt and all that, she had to cheat on me, not only cheating also got preg for anoda man. What sort of luv is that? Stupid luv i guess. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by alphamars(m): 8:20pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
Honestly i believe your story till the part when you accepted to father another man's child..bro that part be like super story..There is what you call a test and this was not one of them.. It simply happened and before you made your offer she has done the abortion period. No Gal fake or real will test you with cheating/pregnancy and allow you to leave Kaduna back abj without calling off her prank..remember her sis say she nor dey house for 2days oh...wake up 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by emmadan(m): 8:20pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
rubbish test!tho if you consider the gud 3yrs you'v been with her{without cheating},i understand it will be vry hard to just let go like that,3yrs is not a small thing o.How can i date a girl for 3 yrs?if i should date a gal for 1 1/2 yr,that would be my sure wife. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by alphamars(m): 8:29pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
mikyke: thnx princess. This was exactly what she told me, that she'll make it up to me in a big way. Make it up how? he nor pass sex oh.... read btw the lines bro she definitely bleep somebody.. Actually na ur gf u can decide to swallow shit for her all in the name of luv dat is going to be your mouth. But be care where that will lead you to, do not be blinded by what is happening now think about the future. |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by Nobody: 8:35pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
Let's all stop deceiving ourselves na haba. This is no test! @OP I can categorically tell you that your "gf" of 3yrs is/was cheating on you, got preggy and aborted it! Simple.. Don't allow all these silly girls use ur head.. You don't test someone you trust. Love n trust go hand in hand..if one is missing my brother you are OYO... Now ask yourself this question: can you love a gf that cheats? Think with your head not with your "mafusa" like some nairalander would call it 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Tested Me With Cheating & 'Pregnancy' by WackyJ1(m): 8:36pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
2buff: Extom: Oboy, there is this thing about my instinct; its never wrong!!! And in this your case, as soon as I finished reading the epistle, here's what my instinct says it is: Bro listen to your brothers oh!!! They are right oh 3 years is not beans. Don't be a FOOL Yes i said it amd it is not an insult. Princess zoe: That's ok dear. Please try to forgive her wholly from your heart for making you go through what you went through otherwise you might keep presenting this case over and over again to people thereby standing the chances of being advised wrongly which can make you lose you good woman and relationship. Is not easy anywhere. Forgive and free your mind my dear. This is the dumbest thing ever . so you even have the guts to call the girl a good girl, goes to show that you think with your an.u.s , you didn't even ask appropriate question and You are alreasy giving him this advice The man has thr right to know the truth after all he has built his plans around her Op princess zoe is noy someone you should listen yo for advice from her history in nairaland romance section when it comes to dicey issues like this. OP don't be a fool be a man! Yoy father did not waste his seed someone who was tested and played like you and you just acceptes every word of it. Your mother would not want this for her son. I am trying not to get angry and call you stupid because you displayed stupidity not love. Abeg do your research well... Ask around her area dig deep 2 Likes |
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