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Am I With The Right Partner? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?" The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind replied the author. Here's the answer. Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love. People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU. Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown. The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found. People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this): The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found. SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable. Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling. Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO.. 9 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by philfearon(m): 3:22pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
My dear sweet nairaland sweetheart,Thought we agreed you will send this message personally to my mail?....................And now the whole world is gonna see our r/ship letter... Love is watching you o,Beloxxy! 2 Likes |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by oyinbogirl(f): 3:24pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
this is great, thanks will pass it on |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
philfearon: My dear sweet nairaland sweetheart,Thought we agreed you will send this message personally to my mail?....................And now the whole world is gonna see our r/ship letter... Lol... Phil honey,ours is more special na |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by fijiano202(m): 3:32pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
Really beautiful |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
oyinbogirl: this is great, thanks will pass it on Thanks babes 1 Like |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by philfearon(m): 4:00pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
Beloxxy:Alrite my dear... Sweet write up dear! What am i even saying?...You are sweet already,so what else should i be expecting if not honeyrized sweetness' all the way! ... |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by Nobody: 5:37pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
fijiano202: Really beautiful |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by Nobody: 5:41pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
philfearon: Awwwwww#blushing#. I haven't forgotten about the PM,just expect it okay? |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by philfearon(m): 5:48pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
Beloxxy:Okay my dear... |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by Waspy(m): 10:50pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
Love is divine. Except God melts two hearts together, Cupid will only be a mischiefmaker |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by Waspy(m): 11:05pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
And its not Feb yet, we still in Dec |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by Nobody: 1:48am On Dec 15, 2013 |
Waspy: And its not Feb yet, we still in Dec What has February got to do with the post? |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by funkyjms: 8:12am On Jan 04, 2014 |
Beloxxy: During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I cute |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by xest(m): 6:18am On Jun 02, 2015 |
Hi beloxxy please send this to my mail or watsapp me 07038109881. Thanks,nice write up |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by Nobody: 6:39am On Jun 02, 2015 |
xest:Thanks |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by czarr(m): 6:51am On Jun 02, 2015 |
.....how the man take know say d fat guy na her husband na? Guys wey believe in love,come see correct advice o! |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by tunapius(m): 6:57am On Jun 02, 2015 |
philfearon:clap 4 urslf. for ur mind nw, u don catch big fish abi? Well play! |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by faith551(m): 7:12am On Jun 02, 2015 |
@beloxxy what is love and where can I find one.
Nice right up tho |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by Nobody: 7:37am On Jun 02, 2015 |
faith551:Open your inner eyes, you'll find it |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by faith551(m): 7:39am On Jun 02, 2015 |
Beloxxy:Guess I will need help with that |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by MurphyG1(m): 7:43am On Jun 02, 2015 |
xest: Smart Guy! U wan use style get the OP phone number or email. . Tell me with what did u read the post? If its with your phone you could easily have copied it and paste somewhere. With your PC, just copy and send to your email by yourself.. |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by funkyjms: 7:50am On Jun 02, 2015 |
MurphyG1: Stay your lane guy! Why you wan burst your guyman bubble na? Remember the GuyCode 43-Never burst... |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by philfearon(m): 10:06am On Jun 02, 2015 |
tunapius:Beloxxy is not a prize to be won bro.. She has been my love 2yrs before you found this thread! 1 Like |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by tunapius(m): 1:29pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
philfearon:hoe kay o |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by philfearon(m): 1:41pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
tunapius:Good |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by Nobody: 8:04pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
philfearon:Phil dear, I'm deactivating my account. For some crucial reasons, you can always send me a mail. Bye |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by philfearon(m): 8:04pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
Beloxxy:you have mail! |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
[quote author=Beloxxy post=34360751] Phil dear, I'm deactivating my account. For some crucial reasons, you can always send me a mail. I changed my number, I'll give you the new one. If you're in school ,let me know so we'll see. Bye |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by Chanchit: 10:12pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
philfearon:. @Phil, I have an announcement to make, but I have malaria, currently on drip, would say it perhaps 2mao. |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by philfearon(m): 11:06pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
Chanchit:Okay bro.. |
Re: Am I With The Right Partner? by xest(m): 8:18am On Jun 03, 2015 |
MurphyG1:and how is it ur business oga? |
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