During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I
am with the right person?"
The author then noticed that there was a large man
sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your
partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you
know?" Let me answer this question because the
chances are good that it's weighing on your mind
replied the author.
Here's the answer.
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you
fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls,
want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in
love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and
spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO
anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my
feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were
just standing there; doing nothing, and then something
happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience.
But after a few months or years of being together, the
euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY
relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they
come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it
happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of
being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage
vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic
difference between the initial stage when you were in
love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking,
"Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the
euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to
desire that experience with someone else. This is when
relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding
the right person; it's learning to love the person you
found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and
look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment
comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people
turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or
abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma
does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with
someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel
better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years
later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding
the right person; it's learning to love the Person you
found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous
experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It
takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it
demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to
make it work. Make no mistake about it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you
can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are
physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there
are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply
these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.
Remember this always: God determines who walks into
your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away,
who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO..

My dear sweet nairaland sweetheart,Thought we agreed you will send this message personally to my mail?....................And now the whole world is gonna see our r/ship letter...
Love is watching you o,Beloxxy!

this is great, thanks will pass it on

philfearon: My dear sweet nairaland sweetheart,Thought we agreed you will send this message personally to my mail?....................And now the whole world is gonna see our r/ship letter...
Love is watching you o,Beloxxy!

Lol... Phil honey,ours is more special na

Really beautiful

oyinbogirl: this is great, thanks will pass it on

Thanks babes

Beloxxy:


Lol... Phil honey,ours is more special na

Alrite my dear...
Sweet write up dear! What am i even saying?...You are sweet already,so what else should i be expecting if not honeyrized sweetness' all the way! ...

fijiano202: Really beautiful

philfearon:
Alrite my dear...
Sweet write up dear! What am i even saying?...You are sweet already,so what else should i be expecting if not honeyrized sweetness' all the way! ...

Awwwwww#blushing#. I haven't forgotten about the PM,just expect it okay?

Beloxxy:

Awwwwww#blushing#. I haven't forgotten about the PM,just expect it okay?

Okay my dear...

Love is divine. Except God melts two hearts together, Cupid will only be a mischiefmaker

And its not Feb yet, we still in Dec

Waspy: And its not Feb yet, we still in Dec

What has February got to do with the post?

Beloxxy: During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I
am with the right person?"
The author then noticed that there was a large man
sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your
partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you
know?" Let me answer this question because the
chances are good that it's weighing on your mind
replied the author.
Here's the answer.
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you
fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls,
want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in
love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and
spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO
anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my
feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were
just standing there; doing nothing, and then something
happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience.
But after a few months or years of being together, the
euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY
relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they
come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it
happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of
being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage
vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic
difference between the initial stage when you were in
love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking,
"Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the
euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to
desire that experience with someone else. This is when
relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding
the right person; it's learning to love the person you
found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and
look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment
comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people
turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or
abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma
does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with
someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel
better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years
later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding
the right person; it's learning to love the Person you
found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous
experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It
takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it
demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to
make it work. Make no mistake about it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you
can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are
physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there
are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply
these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.
Remember this always: God determines who walks into
your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away,
who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO..

cute

Hi beloxxy please send this to my mail or watsapp me 07038109881. Thanks,nice write up

xest:
Hi beloxxy please send this to my mail or watsapp me 07038109881. Thanks,nice write up

Thanks

.....how the man take know say d fat guy na her husband na?
Guys wey believe in love,come see correct advice o!

philfearon:

Okay my dear...

clap 4 urslf. for ur mind nw, u don catch big fish abi? Well play!

@beloxxy what is love and where can I find one. Nice right up tho

faith551:
@beloxxy what is love and where can I find one.
Nice right up tho

Open your inner eyes, you'll find it

Beloxxy:
Open your inner eyes, you'll find it

Guess I will need help with that

xest:
Hi beloxxy please send this to my mail or watsapp me 07038109881. Thanks,nice write up

Smart Guy! U wan use style get the OP phone number or email. . Tell me with what did u read the post? If its with your phone you could easily have copied it and paste somewhere. With your PC, just copy and send to your email by yourself..

MurphyG1:
Smart Guy! U wan use style get the OP phone number or email. . Tell me with what did u read the post? If its with your phone you could easily have copied it and paste somewhere. With your PC, just copy and send to your email by yourself..

Stay your lane guy! Why you wan burst your guyman bubble na?
Remember the GuyCode 43-Never burst...

tunapius:
clap 4 urslf. for ur mind nw, u don catch big fish abi? Well play!

Beloxxy is not a prize to be won bro..
She has been my love 2yrs before you found this thread!

philfearon:

Beloxxy is not a prize to be won bro..
She has been my love 2yrs before you found this thread!

hoe kay o

tunapius:
hoe kay o

Good

philfearon:

Good

Phil dear, I'm deactivating my account. For some crucial reasons, you can always send me a mail. Bye

Beloxxy:

Open your inner eyes, you'll find it

you have mail!

[quote author=Beloxxy post=34360751]
Phil dear, I'm deactivating my account. For some crucial reasons, you can always send me a mail. I changed my number, I'll give you the new one. If you're in school ,let me know so we'll see. Bye

philfearon:

you have mail!

. @Phil, I have an announcement to make, but I have malaria, currently on drip, would say it perhaps 2mao.

Chanchit:
. @Phil, I have an announcement to make, but I have malaria, currently on drip, would say it perhaps 2mao.

Okay bro..

MurphyG1:


Smart Guy! U wan use style get the OP phone number or email. . Tell me with what did u read the post? If its with your phone you could easily have copied it and paste somewhere. With your PC, just copy and send to your email by yourself..

and how is it ur business oga?