Oka numbers 1 and 3 are right. But the rest are false information.

well if i were u i will go 4 his head.

Well, i will tell him its a pity he only realises now that we weren't meant to be. jeeeez 7 gud years wasted!!! I will wish him the best and tell him only fools see diamonds and confuse them for silver (i know my worth).

for him to say that he must have really tot abut it and made up his mind,infact maybe found another person so there's no point trying to persuade him to change his mind.it would be painfull but life has to go on

If a man can say to u "its over" then it truly is.

He has thought it well, over & done with. Just walk away. Even if its after 20yrs.

This is why i can't share any of my problems on nairaland. You are all pretenders/liars.sometimes ya'll talk with ya anus. The fact that most relationships involve sex. Now imagine a guy that's being shagging you for 7 years, wakes up one day as says it's over, Even without sex. Also consider the fact that "better" guys have wooed u during this period and u ignored just to stay with him. 7 freaky years!, do u know how many sacrifices you'd have made. You are all bunch of liars. 99.9% of ya'll would collapse except you were not interested in the relationship yourself and just waiting for an opportunity.
And if you think you are stone cold, as in very strong, to tell him it's ok, i'll move on. Then you must have a psycho problem.

If she says it is over, i will like to know why, so that i wont make same mistake with the next woman.

i'll Praise God

den u move on wit ur life abi na by force.u knw it culd be dat he has pursue u to meet ur gud luck.just be prayerful cause u mite even get married to him and he starts to beat u.dnt try to parch tins up wit him, u gas move on with ur precious life.

Infact its a serios issue, it happed to me recently i move on but its not easy, firstly my mind said it is God's will, for good 2 weeks am at home, But i leave him for God to judge. i can't kill my self life's goes on.

dapsycool:

This is why i can't share any of my problems on nairaland. You are all pretenders/liars.sometimes ya'll talk with ya anus. The fact that most relationships involve sex. Now imagine a guy that's being shagging you for 7 years, wakes up one day as says it's over, Even without sex. Also consider the fact that "better" guys have wooed u during this period and u ignored just to stay with him. 7 freaky years!, do u know how many sacrifices you'd have made. You are all bunch of liars. 99.9% of ya'll would collapse except you were not interested in the relationship yourself and just waiting for an opportunity.
And if you think you are stone cold, as in very strong, to tell him it's ok, i'll move on. Then you must have a psycho problem.

I don't know why some people think everyone is the same

a guy leaves u after 7yrs of being in a relationship with him,

is that the end of the world?

move on!!

itz not d end of d world!! 

_{neva xperienced it tho, i've alwyz bn d 1 2 tel dem itz ova}

Ask him why, take whatever reasons he has for doing so even if most reasons are foolish without interrupting. Tell him it was nice knowing him, give him a handshake and totally cut off any ties with him as precise as a surgeon. Whether I feel emotionally hurt or not is left for me to deal with.

If he says it is over,no crumbs. I will just move on with ma life. Guys full town

stillwater:

Ask him why, take whatever reasons he has for doing so even if most reasons are foolish without interrupting. Tell him it was nice knowing him, give him a handshake and totally cut off any ties with him as precise as a surgeon. Whether I feel emotionally hurt or not is left for me to deal with.

couldn't have said it better myself  , why pine over someone that doesn't want you? just move on I say  

Lonely?
Suicidal?
Middle-aged spinsterhood truama?

I am free. Set me free!

Set me free your heaven's a lie.

Set me free and just go!

I am going to answer this question with questions. Because its best answer with questions.

What if you are married for 7yrs and your husband want devoice? Will you say because we have married for 7rs good years honey, I am sorry we can not divorce? If the divorce can go through, what wrong with your so call 7yrs old boyfriend living you?

I think those questions answer the question. The same you you feel when divorcing the partner you love, the same way you will feel too when you loved boy friend lives you after seven frisky years! It could even be 10 or 15 years, you will still live.

I know things like this doesn't happen so often in Nigeria anyway. No one will date a man in Nigeria for 7yrs and call yourselves boy friend and girl friend, and most of us do not have divorces in our dictionary too. Only in the USA and EU and those other so called western countries that has this problems.

A Nigerian man will ask his wife to go and he will also be the one to go a beg for her to come back after few weeks. Or if the woman live because of some problem, the man will also go to her later with his family to beg her to come back home. This is how it is in Nigeria. Any boy and a girl that live together under the same roof for at least a year in Nigeria are considered husband and wife! Most of us live together and our families call us husband and wife and we live very fine until God take us.

Hannibal you are soooooo mean,i pity your G/friend.

gamine, i feel you!! real o ga o, i never dated a man more than 3 years.
abeg make the babe try 4get am and move on!! no man is worth killing yourself 4.