I went with a friend to visit someone who he is working for in their house and I met this handsome guy siting in his car in the compound,he came out of the car and I just can't stop admiring him.

I enquired and my friend told me he is the son of the woman he is working for,the guy didn't even say a word to me and all the period I was there I couldn't utter a word to him either not even greeting him,

I was busy contemplating how he will react and what am feeling for him and before I could finish puting my thought together, the guy went to his room and I didn't see him again. My friend said we should start going that he is through with what he went there for,I felt bad but promise not to give up,I started enquiring all about him from my friend as we were heading back home and he told me everything about him starting from his name,his family,where he schooled and how religious he is.

I even took his contact and we've been chatting on whatsapp but he seem shy. Where do I start explaining myself from and how can I get him? Insults are not allowed pls!

Nothing bad in how you feel.

If he is the shy type then thats to your advantage.

He is religious right? if you share the same faith, get him to come out for more outdoor activities.

With loads of carols flying here and there you can make good time together attending one or two.

If he is a moslem, find good programmes that will benefit him also.

In getting a man, find out wat his passions are and find the one most suitable for you to fit in.

Good luck dear.

Let's know how it goes.

Follow him to church. He might like that. Thats his comfort zone i.e a place or topic he is more comfortable with. Maybe subscribing to some 'harmless' mentoring from him on spiritual issues wont be bad. Play around his turf. Its that simple. It would take time but its more effective in the long run.

Since u like the guy this much ...why not ask him out?


Am Still waiting for that day wey woman go come toast me












































I guess am on a long thing

Lol....no insult AKUNA...duhhhhhhh

Royal Roy: Nothing bad in how you feel.

If he is the shy type then thats to your advantage.

He is religious right? if you share the same faith, get him to come out for more outdoor activities.

With loads of carols flying here and there you can make good time together attending one or two.

If he is a moslem, find good programmes that will benefit him also.

In getting a man, find out wat his passions are and find the one most suitable for you to fit in.

Good luck dear.

Let's know how it goes.

Am also a shy person and an introvert too but I will surely put my best in this one. Thanks dear

No pun intended. Relationship is a two way thing. If u fancy the guy and he gets to know, don't you think he would catch in on that and take advantage of you? Obviously the guy doesn't give a hoot about you. He probably has a damsel somewhere and you are not striking enough to catch his attention.
On the other hand, you can initiate friendship with him somehow while you stay platonic on that level. If afterwards he takes a liking at you then be rest assured things would go your way. Easy does it.

myOGAonTOP: Follow him to church. He might like that. Thats his comfort zone i.e a place or topic he is more comfortable with. Maybe subscribing to some 'harmless' mentoring from him on spiritual issues wont be bad. Play around his turf. Its that simple. It would take time but its more effective in the long run.

he is a pastor in RCCG,I also attend redeem but not thesame parish,his parish is far from my place but I want to start going there. Thanks

Burger01: No pun intended. Relationship is a two way thing. If u fancy the guy and he gets to know, don't you think he would catch in on that and take advantage of you? Obviously the guy doesn't give a hoot about you. He probably has a damsel somewhere and you are not striking enough to catch his attention.
On the other hand, you can initiate friendship with him somehow while you stay platonic on that level. If afterwards he takes a liking at you then be rest assured things would go your way. Easy does it.

thanks I intend to initiate friendship first and get to know him more better,his love life and who he is involve with.

Prowizy2: This is my beef with naija girls, they won't just come out and express their feelings

is not all naija girls oh! Me am just a shy person by nature that's why

Arcbabe only you. No comment

arcbabe: I went with a friend to visit someone who he is working for in their house and I met this handsome guy siting in his car in the compound,he came out of the car and I just can't stop admiring him. I enquired and my friend told me he is the son of the woman he is working for,the guy didn't even say a word to me and all the period I was there I couldn't utter a word to him either not even greeting him,I was busy contempulating how he will react and what am feeling for him and before I could finish puting my thought together, the guy went to his room and I didn't see him again. My friend said we should start going that he is through with what he went there for,I felt bad but promise not to give up,I started enquiring all about him from my friend as we were heading back home and he told me everything about him starting from his name,his family,where he schooled and how religious he is. I even took his contact and we've been chatting on whatsapp but he seem shy. Where do I start explaining myself from and how can I get him? Insults are not allowed pls!

You have my Respect for seeing what you like and taking practical steps to grabbing it. But, I must be quick to ask you this~to what end? Now you know the guys shy and mumsy loaded will you play on the guys emotional side and land him? Remember that there are implications to this- mumsy may probably see you as a golddigger and may not approve of you and your good friend who works for the family may be fired. Can you sacrifice your friendship. Tis always human psychology to always want stuffs we know we can't have. I will advise you let things unfold naturally.

mikael78: Lol....no insult AKUNA...duhhhhhhh

Am not AKUNA pls

Prowizy2: This is my beef with naija girls, they won't just come out and express their feelings

Culture now..

There is a believe system that it makes you look cheap or loose

How can you get him?
The knife and the yam are in your hands. since you are chatting already, get him to fix an appointment, meet up, ask him some private questions, make yourself likeable to him.....don't be desperate about it, lest he reads a different meaning into it and flee.
The fact you two are communicating already is like mission half accomplished....its game on for you. hope this helps! >

You finally dumped this guy? >>https://www.nairaland.com/1552387/wrong-reject-money

And you are moving on? The ministry is moving indeed.

Goodluck.

smh

Chubhie: You have my Respect for seeing what you like and taking practical steps to grabbing it. But, I must be quick to ask you this~to what end? Now you know the guys shy and mumsy loaded will you play on the guys emotional side and land him? Remember that there are implications to this- mumsy may probably see you as a golddigger and may not approve of you and your good friend who works for the family may be fired. Can you sacrifice your friendship. Tis always human psychology to always want stuffs we know we can't have. I will advise you let things unfold naturally.

well his dad is a commissioner and his mumsy is a very prominent personality,my friend might feel betrayed that I took the guys number from his phone without his permission but he wouldn't have given it to me freely if I asked because he's also interested in me. Am not a golddigger and she will know that when I eventually get to meet her because right now she's not in nigeria. Thanks

You wan destroy the poor guy's ministerial calling abi?

Better leave man of God alone

myOGAonTOP: Follow him to church. He might like that. Thats his comfort zone i.e a place or topic he is more comfortable with. Maybe subscribing to some 'harmless' mentoring from him on spiritual issues wont be bad. Play around his turf. Its that simple. It would take time but its more effective in the long run.

Delilah things




I respect you thou, cos i don't hav your kind of guts.

Btw be natural, don't start living a false life especially your spiritual life cos you want to impress him, if he likes you cos of that and discovers you are somethng else, you will bcome a wolf in a sheep's clothing and he might detest you. Whatever you do, just be truthful to him and yourself. If you become more spiritual, do it from the bottom of your heart and don't run from it if you don't get him.

jmoore: You finally dumped this guy? >>https://www.nairaland.com/1552387/wrong-reject-money

And you are moving on? The ministry is moving indeed.

Goodluck

I finally did

Waiting for the next Ese Walter scandal!


Make Daddy G.O no curse you ooo

sweet-tease:

Delilah things




I respect you thou, cos i don't hav your kind of guts.

Btw be natural, don't start living a false life especially your spiritual life cos you want to impress him, if he likes you cos of that and discovers you are somethng else, you will bcome a wolf in a sheep's clothing and he might detest you. Whatever you do, just be truthful to him and yourself. If you become more spiritual, do it from the bottom of your heart and don't run from it if you don't get him.

okay thanks

Acidosis: Waiting for the next Ese Walter scandal!


Make Daddy G.O no curse you ooo

pastor Biodun was married but still slept with Ese walter,this guy is not married.

arcbabe: thanks I intend to initiate friendship first and get to know him more better,his love life and who he is involve with.

Better. That way we can know if the coast is clear. There is nothing wrong in a lady taking a fancy at a guy but what is wrong is the lady going into it blindly

Goodluck and keep us posted.

Look at your display picture and tell me whether you deserve this good guy. Please give me his number jare, he deserves better.

Acidosis: You wan destroy the poor guy's ministerial calling abi?

Better leave man of God alone

man of God dey marry too na

Acidosis: You wan destroy the poor guy's ministerial calling abi?

Better leave man of God alone

Baddest boi ever liveth

CocoLoca: Look at your display picture and tell me whether you deserve this good guy. Please give me his number jare, he deserves better.

Baddest girl ever liveth
Btw, I think the Op is second from left in the display picture. Sexy innit

CocoLoca: Look at your display picture and tell me whether you deserve this good guy. Please give me his number jare, he deserves better.

if it means to leave fixing eye lashes,brazillian hair,make up,nails or wearing skimpy things then am ready for the task just for this cute dude Ole you want to steal my cuttie pie

^^^

Remember, he is a pastor!

You want to date a pastor with dat your profile pic.....i smell lies