I will tell my spouse

it helps with the healing process

Definately, i will tell my wife but, my girl friend, maybe or maybe not. The truth is, i love to let it out so that, i will be totally free ! i love a clear conscience u know !

Cheers

micklplus:

Definately, i will tell my wife but, my girl friend, maybe or maybe not. The truth is, i love to let it out so that, i will be totally free ! i love a clear conscience u know !

Cheers

How would you react if your wife told you something like this after the marriage already started?

sistawoman:

How would you react if your wife told you something like this after the marriage already started?

for real, i strongly feel she wont have any reason not to have told me ! It will definately be a problem if shes just telling me after we had gotten married ! a marriage based on falsehood in the first place isnt a marriage !

For real, she would have had the opportunity more than once to tell me about her past. I believe in total freedom and absolute truthfullness !
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I wont tell and i dont want to be told. i dont 4give things easily (too bad i know), since this person is still his family member she may not find it easy with me and imagine someone we used to be good to each other and i suddenly develop hatred for. not everything should be told so he shoulnt tell me and of course it wont tell.

My sister's husband once attempted to sleep with me (not rape) i told him never to try such thing with me and that we should both pretend he never mentioned such thing to me, he apologised and we 4got it we are still good inlaws and recently he helped in facilitating a relatively big contract for my husband. Now if i had told my husband 'uncle Tade asked me to sleep with him years ago', my husband will never be his friend talkless of getting a help from him and of course what of suspecting any closeness between us? So no telling and dont tell me.