This is the right age to get married.
The most important thing is to FEEL ready.
I am sure there is a woman there for you,

Good luck!

I thank u all for your wonderful comments, all has being helpful...some of your comments really cracked me up, that's why I love this great family(Nairaland),It's never my plan to get married with this kind of income, as some of you pointed out might not be enough to take care of a home, it's all depends on how well we manage our finances. I know what I've achieved With my meagre salary. I'm not bragging about it. I've seen guys marry with less income and they live a decent life.
I'm from the middle belt, got lots of people in government, with the right click, I hit my heights. Ain't desperate, I know I'll get that woman to marry in 2014.
For those who inquired about my genotype, it's AA.

Ngokafor:



Awwww!!..am so sorry about your bad experience bro.However it's good to know you have decided to move on with your life and start afresh with someone else..i know it's a cliche but there are good girls out there who will make up for the hurt you've been through trust me..
..but if you ask me,i dont think this online thing you want to embark on is such a good idea.You might just be setting youself up for some unpleasant surprises, what with the number of charlatans lurking all over the cyberworld...

..for starters,since you are weary of 'toasting' moves right now,how about spreading word around amongst your friends and relations about your intentions,at least they can look out for your spec on your behalf(someone they can vouch for to a large extent),tell her about you,and if she's okay with everything, then you guys can take it up from there,no long stories from you...not a perfect solution but it has worked for a lot of peeps i know....at least i feel it's better than meeting random strangers on the net.

....but at the end of the day,it's your call so goodluck bro,cheers.

I will explore other options as suggested...I won't limit my search alone on the internet. thanks for your time.

@chillisauce and Ngokafor, I don't know what you guys have against Internet dating but I don't think it's that bad.
There are fraudsters online and offline, it's not like you meet someone online and marry them the next minute, you'll still get to meet them and know them better.


IMO, meeting people online is not a bad idea!

Chillisauce: OP, e bi like say you don get some contact here, this one you just keep quiet since. Have you started sampling yet? How is it going?

Hehehe, its going well. its not all abt sampling, that's not the major reason I came here. I can sample any woman i can reach out to within my hood . I want to settle down. man don dey old.

alutacontinua: @chillisauce and Ngokafor, I don't know what you guys have against Internet dating but I don't think it's that bad.
There are fraudsters online and offline, it's not like you meet someone online and marry them the next minute, you'll still get to meet them and know them better.


IMO, meeting people online is not a bad idea!

I don't know Sha but most times they never turn out to be true.
If they are fraudsters you can easily locate and capture them offline than online.
ESP in nigeria where there is no data system.

Chop & clean mouth

Chillisauce:

I don't know Sha but most times they never turn out to be true.
If they are fraudsters you can easily locate and capture them offline than online.
ESP in nigeria where there is no data system.

Chop & clean mouth

You're just being too 1920
It's not like he'll start giving out his ATM pin or something to some online person!
It also pays to get to meet the person early enough in the relationship!
Sustaining the relationship online might not be a good idea but meeting online ain't that bad!
Babes, welcome to 2013!

alutacontinua:

You're just being too 1920
It's not like he'll start giving out his ATM pin or something to some online person!
It also pays to get to meet the person early enough in the relationship!
Sustaining the relationship online might not be a good idea but meeting online ain't that bad!
Babes, welcome to 2013!

Maybe
Too much things to analyze when I can do it offline.

Physical structure: shape of teeth, colour, size of lips, head, height, skin type
Accent, Yekini size etc. too many photoshop these days.

As per yekini, sizing it offline before fixing a date will go a longway. Just place your hand there, if > than 10 inches, take off. Make them no kill you with ogbonigwe

Chillisauce:

Maybe
Too much things to analyze when I can do it offline.

Physical structure: shape of teeth, colour, size of lips, head, height, skin type
Accent, Yekini size etc. too many photos got these days.

As per yekini, sizing it offline before fixing a date will go a longway. Just place your hand there, if > than 10 inches, take off. Make them no kill you with ogbonigwe

Lol....you too lyk yekini

alutacontinua:

Lol....you too lyk yekini

Yes I, very important

The rod of life!

Op,are u a wife beater? Mr op, i dnt think u're a driver.

Beehorn: Op,are u a wife beater? Mr op, i dnt think u're a driver.

Can't beat a woman, God forbid! what kind of Driver are u talking about?

Stop4:
Can't beat a woman, God forbid! what kind of Driver are u talking about?

d 1 u knw na

Me! will remove it after 24hrs. I no too fine ooo. Just Natural, took this pix with my Touchlite fone JUST NOW. lol.

Oh my!
YPP is in love!!!
Somebadi pls help!


So tantan and promising.
And I believe the down below is fully loaded too

Yellowpawpaw,you are too funny.
This got me cracking...

yellowpawpaw: Oh my!
YPP is in love!!!
Somebadi pls help!


So tantan and promising.
And I believe the down below is fully loaded too

@ OP
Keep on doing what you doing,be focused too..
I believe there is a woman out there for you....

But wait a minute,why is it a do or die thing for 2014?
Is there pressure from somewhere?
And also it's 50/50,what about if it doesn't happen?
Don't let the ladies know you are that desperate too....
My own 2cents.
Good luck....

Oya wey them. The bell don open o

All the single ladies start queuing up now!
#rings bell#

yellowpawpaw: Oh my!
YPP is in love!!!
Somebadi pls help!


So tantan and promising.
And I believe the down below is fully loaded too

you no well

abeg, park well for one side jooor!
No be old cargo like you we dey talk about!
The op is still young and looking for eleje tutu young lady.

@op, i sincerely wish you the very best jare. Just be yourself and be focused.
It is well.

Op did u say 32 or 42?

Chillisauce: Op did u say 32 or 42?

Habatically!!! Chillisauce...
What do you mean by that?
No soccer age na...

dayleke:

Habatically!!! Chillisauce...
What do you mean by that?
No soccer age na...

My dear, na dating age?

Dude! @OP: I'm a muslim tho but I'm going to give you a piece of advice.

Don't over think your situation. There is always a bigger picture when stuffs like this is concerned.

Yourself and your journey through life has been designed a certain way, and this might just be part of it.

Life is so freaking complicated for one not to get messed up in the head when it comes to relationships.

The ideal things is to start re evaluating your criteria for choosing women, and when you date: mistakes most men make is that they expect too much this they get disappointed fast. Expect good things, see good things..when d bad in her peeps out, knock its head out like a mole in a hole.

Don't b rigid, man! Rigidity keeps people single for a long time. They say I'm ugly but too choosy, what the heck? I'm still gon be choosy cos I won't settle for less and I ain't talking about the man that earns a 6 digits salary.

Good luck... careful though.. this NL is an ocean with lots of tarantulas swimming around

**winks!

Stop4: Me! will remove it after 24hrs. I no too fine ooo. Just Natural, took this pix with my Touchlite fone JUST NOW. lol.

H.mmm... u just threw yourself in d ocean...

The Op surely means business.

Way to go brov.

Chillisauce: Op did u say 32 or 42?

I was just about to ask same. Op abeg, was the 32 you mentioned your football age? Now I see why you must get married sooner than later. No offence intended biko

Op oya come dey yarn us black n white(d truth) small small. 1.dat age wey u tell us na football age? Cos frm wetin Ȋ̝̊̅ see for dat pics...hmmmnnn 2. Na ur work place u for snap dat pics abi u pass d nyt for a frnd place come snap d pics dis mrng cos dat house nor b for children o, as in, nor b house wey 60-70k salary fit rent o......lol

Phema:

I was just about to ask same. Op abeg, was the 32 you mentioned your football age? Now I see why you must get married sooner than later. No offence intended biko

Why should I lie about my age? Do I look young or too old for that age? whatever I drop here is the plain truth, that's me. I thought I look too old for that age.

cherieb2: Op oya come dey yarn us black n white(d truth) small small. 1.dat age wey u tell us na football age? Cos frm wetin Ȋ̝̊̅ see for dat pics...hmmmnnn 2. Na ur work place u for snap dat pics abi u pass d nyt for a frnd place come snap d pics dis mrng cos dat house nor b for children o, as in, nor b house wey 60-70k salary fit rent o......lol

Lol, (1) 32 is my real age, abi u still want me to scan my International Passport abi na Birth cert here for you to clear all doubts? go & ask my Mumcy.
(2) That's one of my company's Guest House.
what else do you want to know?

, don spoil my show na!
I be omoge abi u wan pikshure too?

Poster don't mind them!
Don't worry, they will soon start applying!
No be naija babes!
But e bi like say u de lie.
Although I lv that.
That is d fun and d intensity of ur seriousness.

Goodluck!

Oh good. I need a husband to marry in 2014