KarmaMod:

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Perhaps if you werent busy having wet dreams of your own teacher, your written English wouldnt be so pitiful

KarmaMod:

You're an slowpoke Milla

Pure and simple

How come in Nigeria people look down at girls who are in relationships with their professors/lecturers

Dude is acting like he's not on planet Earth. Abeg comot from my face

Maybe someone can translate the gist of the m,atter to you in IGbo and then you'll understand.

try not to take this personal sister.
unless you were once a victim of the above topic.
i know they manufacture english in your compound but please,
dont think you know it more than everybody.
besides, its never our language.

Either some people are just stupid, or ignorant or both. There is something called ethics, that's why even if you are both 90 student/teacher relationships are frowned upon. So stop all the excuses about being old enough or not. (and by teacher here i mean even if you are a prof)

i understand your 'state' Mr loverman. I've been their both home and abroad. carry on but stick to this particular girl you claim to love, don't try to love all the SS2 and SS3 beautiful girls.

monogees:

Either some people are just stupid, or ignorant or both. There is something called ethics, that's why even if you are both 90 student/teacher relationships are frowned upon. So stop all the excuses about being old enough or not. (and by teacher here i mean even if you are a prof)

LMAO! Yipeee Yi Yo! It means there is hope for lecturers then!

Oh, oh and Instructors and Tutors and Educators and Pedagogs and Class masters! Nice!

On behalf of all the aforementioned people, I thank you for breaking it down.

monogees:

Either some people are just stupid, or ignorant or both. There is something called ethics, that's why even if you are both 90 student/teacher relationships are frowned upon. So stop all the excuses about being old enough or not. (and by teacher here i mean even if you are a prof)

Thank you finally someone with some sense. Your job as a teacher is to teach not to get involved with your pupils. the world we live in.

onyinye2:

Thank you finally someone with some sense. Your job as a teacher is to teach not to get involved with your pupils. the world we live in.

agreed.
what are the jobs of doctors,
lawyers,
coaches,
pastors.
Politicians wont either fall in love with the people they lead.


A lot of things were made in the olden days just to fit into their style of living.
Today , a lotta things have changed and we must change with it.

I will say it again.
FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOUR STUDENT IS NOT A CRIME,
ITS MAY BE WRONG. STILL THAT DOESNT CALL FOR CONDEMNATION.
The age ranges could help to ammend some cases.

take for instance

THE GIRL IN QUESTION HAS BEEN REPEATING CLASSES OR LETS JUST SAY SHE IS 24
AND THE TEACHER (SMART DUDE LIKE ME,(smiles(jokes)) )
is 25 too.

WONT YOU BE HAPPY IF YOU ARE THE MOTHER OF THE STUDENT.

mba.

@SAM
Mba

in my dept in the uni, there were some girls in my department that were dating some of my lecturers, some even dated the HOD, and the DEAN of the dept and faculty all for good grades, of course the affair was frowned upon by some of us, at the same time there were those who got married to some lecturers,

but all in all,, it is not decent to get involve with one's lecturers,

shuppie:

in my dept in the uni, there were some girls in my department that were dating some of my lecturers, some even dated the HOD, and the DEAN of the dept and faculty all for good grades, of course the affair was frowned upon by some of us, at the same time there were those who got married to some lecturers,

but all in all,, it is not decent to get involve with one's lecturers,

RIGHT.
ARE you married or still searching?
Dont you know older men respect their wives more.


sit down there and follow all ethics.
this is not a religious matter, so you are not offending God.
this is ethical matter, so chose between happiness and rules especially when there is no imminent prison terms for you.

''the right marriage for a woman is -man 34 while woman is 18''.
           aristotle

@sam milla, am married,
i know that some older men respect their wives more,

age should not come,no matter the age of the student.professionally is bad,morally is not right neither is it ok.put your self together and control your emotions.to me i feel you are just takeing advantage of the girl.

in my opinion, sec sch girls are expected to focus on their education, and not on any affair with the opposite sex, becos they re still very young to handle any bargages that comes with a relationship, at least that was what we were told, that we were not matured enuf at the age of 16-17 to go into any relationship with any guy, which is true anyway,

i was in love with my biology 'aunty' in secondary school! what about that. during our graduation party i held her by the waist for a photo. I think secondary, college and university are the best places to find romance.

good for u, so did u find love with your biology aunty then,  

@post
 There is nothing wrong in falling deeply in love with your student(afterall its a thing of the mind your mind), However it is wrong not to exercise serious restraint at the moment, so take no action on your love, its called Discipline, j, get it out  of your mind (what we resist tend to go weaker) if however you meet her in future after graduation you can try it out if she likes you, (when she is no longer your student) and this should not interfere with her further studies but should rather encourage her in responsible things and not sex!!

efelestus:

I think university are the best places to find romance.

Yeppp
But student wiv student, you get?

How does a 24 yr old have a 25 year old as a lecturer?

Does this dude reason at all? Seriously stay in the jokes forum

as for quoting aristole, why not also quote where he and his fellow Greek males believe women are for breeding and men are for sex

efelestus:

i was in love with my biology 'aunty' in secondary school! what about that. during our graduation party i held her by the waist for a photo. I think secondary, college and university are the best places to find romance.

oh yes and kindergaten too!

I wouldn't want to let my tongue loose on Mr Teacher because i am not in his shoes, but i do know one thing which is that men tend to confuse lust with love. I was almost raped in the private primary school which i attended. i was 8, flat chested, without a single strand of hair on my pubes. what was it then, love? Perhaps Mr Teacher if 20, 24 waiting to get into uni or get a better job. what would become of the girl when he meets the hot babes in campus or when she doesn't meet his standard after he's gotten the job?  would i  be wrong to assume that he would have popped her cherry (if she still has any) before dishing her the line "i thought i was in love with you" If that young girl isn't a consenting adult would his interest in her not amount to cradle snatching? if he were a lecturer I wouldn't exercise my jaw over this and God knows if i were the girl's mother i'd sue him before he even mentioned the word 'love'. Get your self together young man and look for someone your age and size to pledge your love for. the young girl doesn't even understand the responsibilities that love brings how could she possibly love you?

Ruby_Pearl:

Yeppp
But student with student, you get?

Yes that is exactly right.

Getting involved? In a relationship? Have an affair? Honestly, am I missing something here. . . have they started going out? From my understanding, he says he just has feelings for her. . .  FEELINGS.

There has been NO KISSING, NO TOUCHING, NO HUGGING, NO MouthAction, NO CUNNILINGUS, NO FINGERING, NO FUCKING, NO DIRTY TALKS TO GET OFF. . . I'm sorry for the crudeness but I think we need to put things in perspective.

When did we start people crucifying people for their thoughts and feelings If he had said "I am having sexual relations with my student", I honestly will understand where the damnation is coming from.

Personally, I commended him for having the good sense to hold back from what other men in his position won't bat an eye taking,  with no one (the parents, Us the public) being the none the wiser. For every 1 of OP out there, there are 20 of the opposite.

Sisikill:

Getting involved? In a relationship? Have an affair? Honestly, am I missing something here. . . have they started going out? From my understanding, he says he just has feelings for her. . . FEELINGS.

There has been NO KISSING, NO TOUCHING, NO HUGGING, NO MouthAction, NO CUNNILINGUS, NO FINGERING, NO FUCKING, NO DIRTY TALKS TO GET OFF. . . I'm sorry for the crudeness but I think we need to put things in perspective.

When did we start people crucifying people for their thoughts and feelings If he had said "I am having sexual relations with my student", I honestly will understand where the damnation is coming from.

Personally, I commended him for having the good sense to hold back from what other men in his position won't bat an eye taking, with no one (the parents, Us the public) being the none the wiser. For every 1 of OP out there, there are 20 of the opposite.

Poster said he needed advice.
and all this "crucifixion" is to prevent him from taking action on any of his feelings towards her

quickygal:

@post
There is nothing wrong in falling deeply in love with your student(afterall its a thing of the mind your mind), However it is wrong not to exercise serious restraint at the moment, so take no action on your love, its called Discipline, j, get it out  of your mind (what we resist tend to go weaker) if however you meet her in future after graduation you can try it out if she likes you, (when she is no longer your student) and this should not interfere with her further studies but should rather encourage her in responsible things and not sex!!

THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!!!

MAY GOD BLESS YOU!!!!

@ quickygal
i agree wit u if he's a sec sch teacher, (didn't read the previous pages) but i'm still not in support of any student/teacher relationship.

just as Fela said, Teacher teach me nonsense

people miss a chance for love because they cloud themselves with reasons not to love somebody back. to me love is love irrespective of whom you are loving, whether is your teacher, student, boss, your best friends partner, overage or underage, just keep spreading the love and enjoy the romance. period.

Ruby_Pearl:

Poster said he needed advice.
and all this "crucifixion" is to prevent him from taking action on any of his feelings towards her

Lol, tough love, eh? My mom will love you.  

Honestly, I think he knows better than to cross the line.

POSTER, THERE IS NOTING WRONG TO FALL IN LOVE WITH UR STUDENT. AFTERALL SHE IS A WOMAN WITH FEELING.

B/4 I CONTINUE, ARE U MARRIED, IF YES, FORGET ABOUT UR STUDENT IT'S WRONG.

IF NO, THEN, FIND OUT IF SHE IS UP TO 20

TRY TO LET HER KNOW UR FEELING IN A MATURED WAY. LOOK, THERE IS A WAY U WILL PLAY UR GAME THE WHOLE STUDENT WILL HERE IT.

ALLOW HER TO FALL IN LOVE WITH U TOO, BY TAKING CEARING FOR HER (NOT GIFT NOW)
ALWAYS ASK TO KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON IN HER LIFE, FIND OUT WHEN SHE IS NOT HAPPY TRY TO FIND OUT WHAT THE PROBLEM IS.

WITH THIS HER MIND WILL TELL HER THAT U ARE CARING.

in a nut shell, let her feel that u are caring she will flow on her own.

best of luck

08036494375

@esilove
why did you leave your number? are you looking for a student or something?

esilove:

IF NO, THEN, FIND OUT IF SHE IS UP TO 20

08036494375

what has "if shez 20 got to do wit it"
r u trying to say 20 is defined as the age where u can have a relationship wit ur teacher?

and why is ur telephone number here? _{wen wld nigerians learn to be discrete?!u do not splash ur mobile number everywhere becoz u av one}

onyinye2:

@esilove
why did you leave your number? are you looking for a student or something?

Gonorrhea:

what has "if shez 20 got to do wit it"
r u trying to say 20 is defined as the age where u can have a relationship wit your teacher?

and why is your telephone number here? _{when would nigerians learn to be discrete?!u do not splash your mobile number everywhere becoz u av one}

rotflmao

Sisikill:

Lol, tough love, eh? My mom will love you.

Honestly, I think he knows better than to cross the line.

Yeppp, I hope so