Enegod:
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Matildachinyere: u must be a saddist or just an hypothetical annoying idiaat!, the day u write a full sentence on a poster let ur fingers become stiff for a week

peachez'n'cream:


80% of my toasters are married men who want me as second wife or mistress. Single guys don't really ask me out probably because they think i'm the flashy type.

Enegod:

Ohwhy: I dunno why we girls overdress or over makeup even if na to go nearby chemist go buy something or to see a nearby friend.
@Op
If you use heels, pls stop! Use only on occasions.

Follow me to yaba so we can buy bend down select(some guys know d estimate of clothes dey see on a woman)

Reduce d makeup if u can.

Try as much as possible not to hold your handbag on ur wrists like most girls do.

Only bring out your phone if u have a call. Dont flash it anyhow.(Costly phones)

Try as much as possible to go out with ur natural hair once in a while.. Not Brazilian hair every time, dem go run.

Avoid using loud colours all over every time except if u are going out out.

Ohwhy: I dunno why we girls overdress or over makeup even if na to go nearby chemist go buy something or to see a nearby friend.
@Op
If you use heels, pls stop! Use only on occasions.

Follow me to yaba so we can buy bend down select(some guys know d estimate of clothes dey see on a woman)

Reduce d makeup if u can.

Try as much as possible not to hold your handbag on ur wrists like most girls do.

Only bring out your phone if u have a call. Dont flash it anyhow.(Costly phones)

Try as much as possible to go out with ur natural hair once in a while.. Not Brazilian hair every time, dem go run.

Avoid using loud colours all over every time except if u are going out out.

WackyJ1:

She likes you bro

peachez'n'cream:
Okay, we were discussing at home this morning nd my big broda told my mum about how everyone likes me because I'm humble , smart nd down to earth but he was like "I've got good guys that are interested in a serious relationship with you but they are scared coz you are too flashy".

And I was like what's the definition of flashy? and he said "they are scared of sharing you with some other guys even after putting a ring on it". I really felt bad at his response.

My mum stylishly changed the discussion when she noticed I was getting uncomfortable.

I just got back into the country, I'm in my early twenties, caramel complexion, a graduate, i rarely go out but anytime i go out i always try to look simple with a touch of class.

I've got few friends. 5 of them are married the remaining 4 are in a serious relationship.

80% of my toasters are married men who want me as second wife or mistress. Single guys don't really ask me out probably because they think i'm the flashy type.

Please what's your definition of flashy and kindly advice on how not to look flashy.

Writing for a friend. . . .No insult pls

Kelechi2020:

inspiring..I am seconding you..

peachez'n'cream:


Sis, I'm not the brazillian hair girl type, I prefer braids... Yes, I love heels but I don't overdress nd over makeup....I keep it simple with a touch of class...
Love your post -))

Snoggy: Educating..I am thirdining you.

alutacontinua: @ohwhy, I disagree with you!
Trying to look classy only becomes a crime when you go beyond your abilities. U know d usual borrow-pose that some ladies do or taking money from guys to look the way their status cannot afford.
If u have the money, pls, go for things that fit in your status.

There are some things I see today and when I ask for the price, i'll waka pass. In the next 4 years, if i'm able to COMFORTABLY afford those things, i'll gladly buy them. You don't expect someone who makes USD3000 yo dress the same way she wld when she was making USD1000, do you? I'm not one to advocate for make-up and brazilian hair but u don't need all those to look classy! When you're classy, you're classy. Your steps are, your voice is, your carriage is, your aura is! Everything about you is!


As per the guyz, there are too many hu gry guys out there and their ego won't let them be, don't lower your standards because of dem, if dey can't upgrade or push their ego aside, it's their loss! There are guys who are confortable with women like you, don't let anybody tell you otherwise!

Kelechi2020:
I have beenmonitoring you for quite some time.......
My observations are......
You are single and badly searching for a man....
2 you always make noise about guys that you know nothing about their psychology...
3 the worst part which most gullible nlanders won't notice is that you are deceptive(deceiver) and I pity those that swallow your advice hook line and sinker...
The op is seeking advice on how to appear less flashy a and you are suggesting she stick to her status....What is that suppose to mean..
#criticise objectively

alutacontinua: , it's their loss!

SLIDE waxie: Post a pix or it didn't happen...

peachez'n'cream:


Sis, I'm not the brazillian hair girl type, I prefer braids... Yes, I love heels but I don't overdress nd over makeup....I keep it simple with a touch of class...
Love your post -))

SLIDE waxie: brilliant, i'm forting u