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Asking A Girl Out:101 by hertz9te(m): 9:54pm On Oct 16, 2014
help a brother...
conversation; Boy:hi
girl:hello
Boy:i want to talk to you about something
girl:what?
...............................after here am lost,,,,help me with conversation guys,,,,,,



.....lets have fun with this,am serious tho,
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by Osota(m): 9:55pm On Oct 16, 2014
Make I park here
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by hertz9te(m): 10:03pm On Oct 16, 2014
Osota:
Make I park here
hopefully u will start
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by Toyozzie(f): 10:07pm On Oct 16, 2014
smiley smiley lemme here you guys so it wont work on me if any of you try it on me angry
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by Nobody: 10:09pm On Oct 16, 2014
grin
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by Mrval20(m): 10:10pm On Oct 16, 2014
How do you just walk up to someone and say you want to talk to her about "something"?
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by dolarland(m): 10:11pm On Oct 16, 2014
op befor now u guys must have been familiar to each other, she most have been seeing d sign u ar interested in her.

In a quiet moment just u and her.
boy; ella there's something important I want to let u know
girl; what
boy; I like you, I want to take you more serious, I want u to be part of my life, a relationship smiley
girl; *smiles and encode*
girl; what really do u like about me ?
boy; I like ur kind of person.
girl; what specific do u like.
boy; I like you specific. undecided
girl; *lol smiles*
boy; what do you have to say ?

op it's 50/50. yes or not interested angry.
life continues smiley

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Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by Nobody: 10:12pm On Oct 16, 2014
Cabinbiscuit1:
Lmao OP!!!! Me and you na same case we get oh... Following
Me too. Lmao

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Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by tosyne2much(m): 10:13pm On Oct 16, 2014
Typing .....
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by chibwike(m): 10:15pm On Oct 16, 2014
hahaha...lemme think
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by naturally: 10:16pm On Oct 16, 2014
Just start by saying, hi, your hair is nice (even if she looks like ogbanje in it)

When she smiles, complement her smile . .. And go on
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by tayoxx(m): 10:17pm On Oct 16, 2014
Ok. ..wait lemme think
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by Nobody: 10:36pm On Oct 16, 2014
It's easy na, u can finish it in three or four sentences... "I Love you, I want to marry you, I will give you money, talk your own" simple
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by Ploy(m): 10:40pm On Oct 16, 2014
I paid my teacher too, how much would you pay?
Just say
you: hello, Toyozzie.
Her: hi,
You: how was work, school or ... today?
Her: fine
You: I Love You, (cikana)
Her: thank you
You: I mean it, I really do with the whole of my heart
Her: Ah!
You: Don't be surprise, I've been nursing this for a long time. Please, don't reject me.
Her: ok
You: prostrate gbalaja and say thank you Toyozzie mi owon, lobatan.

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Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by Nobody: 10:45pm On Oct 16, 2014
Ploy:
I paid my teacher too, how much would you pay?
Just say
you: hello, Toyozzie.
Her: hi,
You: how was work, school or ... today?
Her: fine
You: I Love You, (cikana)
Her: thank you
You: I mean it, I really do with the whole of my heart
Her: Ah!
You: Don't be surprise, I've been nursing this for a long time. Please, don't reject me.
Her: ok
You: prostrate gbalaja and say thank you Toyozzie mi owon, lobatan.
u b anoda correct sharp boy, no time 2 long thing
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by Nobody: 10:52pm On Oct 16, 2014
I dey wait 4 reasonable ways abeg..m in d same shoe with diz op

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Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by naijaboiy: 10:59pm On Oct 16, 2014
how can you walk up to a girl and tell her you want to ask her about 'something'? undecided
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by passionate88: 10:59pm On Oct 16, 2014
Wetin d op dey try talk na?, na game u wan play or u need help? angry angry
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by Elcapo(m): 11:09pm On Oct 16, 2014
cheesy
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by valmunich(m): 11:15pm On Oct 16, 2014
naijaboiy:
how can you walk up to a girl and tell her you want to ask her about 'something'? undecided
I tire for the boy oh cheesy

Chibwike, give this OP a link to that your pick up lines sad
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by Tymax(m): 11:16pm On Oct 16, 2014
Learn to flatter women. They cannot resist a well phrased compliment.

If you notice a new hairdo, tell her the style suits her perfectly. Check out her eyes, smile even her voice. Say something nice about her colours. Smile while you are at it. grin Women are natural but mild narcissists. Feed their vanity bro.

Make sure your compliments are truthful and not made up. A woman would always prefer the company of a man who makes her feel good about herself. Don't over do it though. You wouldn't need to tell her you like her. She will glean that info from your conversation.

Don't talk about her figure for now. Save it for next time.
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by Baddestguyp(m): 11:20pm On Oct 16, 2014
hertz9te:
help a brother...
conversation; Boy:hi
girl:hello
Boy:i want to talk to you about something
girl:what?
...............................after here am lost,,,,help me with conversation guys,,,,,,



.....lets have fun with this,am serious tho,
wack @bolded
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by chibwike(m): 11:20pm On Oct 16, 2014
valmunich:

I tire for the boy oh cheesy

Chibwike, give this OP a link to that your pick up lines sad
hahaha..abi..doing that right away... www.nairaland.com/1941136/hilarious-pickup-lines-add-urs

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Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by WIZGUY69(m): 11:53pm On Oct 16, 2014
[size=48]boy : good afternoon ma. girl.: good afternoon sir. boy: I like you and I want to marry you. girl : OK. I will tell my father. SIMPLE.[/size]

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Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by adedayourt(m): 11:54pm On Oct 16, 2014
dolarland:
op befor now u guys must have been familiar to each other, she most have been seeing d sign u ar interested in her.

In a quiet moment just u and her.
boy; ella there's something important I want to let u know
girl; what
boy; I like you, I want to take you more serious, I want u to be part of my life, a relationship smiley
girl; *smiles and encode*
girl; what really do u like about me ?
boy; I like ur kind of person.
girl; what specific do u like.
boy; I like you specific. undecided
girl; *lol smiles*
boy; what do you have to say ?

op it's 50/50. yes or not interested angry.
life continues smiley


Since wen av u been usin dis to reformat chick emotional settings

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Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by EpicNigerian(m): 4:17am On Oct 17, 2014
@Op,

If you see a girl u really like,don't just start telling her u like her....that's like super lame.

First,you walk up to her with all the confidence u can muster. And then you start a conversation with her(you don't necessarily need to introduce urself first)

Let's say u guys met in a supermarket,and she's checking out perfumes.The convo could go like this,

Boy:Have u used dat before?(pointing to what she's holding)

Girl:yea,why?

Boy:well....erm...my sister's birthday is next week,and i don't knw wht to get her....

Girl:oh,how nice.

Boy:yea,thanks....so,what do u suggest?

Girl:You're funny.....

Boy:I'm serious.

*Girl looks at the boy stylyshly, checking him out if he's worth it*

Girl:well....erm...I don't know o.....how old is she?

Boy:About ur age I guess....

*Girl looks at him with suspicion*

Girl:If that's the case you can get her those(pointing to some ridiculously expensive item in the store.)

Boy:hmm....u have good taste.That's like 5k....thank god her birthday is next week....I'll most def come pick this up for her before then.

Girl:err.....if that's too expensive...u can....

*Boy politely interupts her*

Boy:No....no...not at all....she's my baby sister,she deserves it.

Girl:ok o....if u can afford it,i really think she'll like it.

Boy:Thanks a lot.....by the way, my name is Epic.....

Girl:Ok...I'm Beyonce....

(Don't tell her she has a beautiful name.She has proly heard that like a million times before)

Boy:Cool....so,I'm inviting you to the birthday party....can u make it?

Girl:err....i don't think so o....

*Boy politely interupts*

Boy:Ok,can i have ur number,so i can call u up to know if u changed ur mind?

Girl:I'm not sure I'll change my mind.

Boy:I know....i know....but can i still just have d number just in case.

Girl:....just in case what? *smiling*

Boy:You never can tell,maybe some of those ur important engadgments could be postponed....u never can tell.

Girl:Ok....ermm....I'm really running late right now.....uhmm...ok,this my number,081.........but don't call me late....I usually go to bed early....

Boy:Ok...got it....its been nice talking with you....do have a nice day.

Girl:yea,u too bye.

Now,you will have to finish up the whole thing on phone. And since u lied to her that ur sister is having a party,u may consider buying that particular gift she showed you for her on your next date to make up for the lie.

Also,remember that you have to wait for like 2 or 3 days before calling,so u won't come off as being too needy but don't keep her waiting any longer than that.

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Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by hertz9te(m): 8:23am On Oct 17, 2014
dolarland:
op befor now u guys must have been familiar to each other, she most have been seeing d sign u ar interested in her.

In a quiet moment just u and her.
boy; ella there's something important I want to let u know
girl; what
boy; I like you, I want to take you more serious, I want u to be part of my life, a relationship smiley
girl; *smiles and encode*
girl; what really do u like about me ?
boy; I like ur kind of person.
girl; what specific do u like.
boy; I like you specific. undecided
girl; *lol smiles*
boy; what do you have to say ?

op it's 50/50. yes or not interested angry.
life continues smiley
hmm i like that....perfect case study for a civilised girl,make it more general,same thing that works for every girl.
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by hertz9te(m): 8:25am On Oct 17, 2014
naturally:
Just start by saying, hi, your hair is nice (even if she looks like ogbanje in it)

When she smiles, complement her smile . .. And go on
compliment is not hard,its the going on that is d issue....what do u say?
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by hertz9te(m): 8:27am On Oct 17, 2014
Ploy:
I paid my teacher too, how much would you pay?
Just say
you: hello, Toyozzie.
Her: hi,
You: how was work, school or ... today?
Her: fine
You: I Love You, (cikana)
Her: thank you
You: I mean it, I really do with the whole of my heart
Her: Ah!
You: Don't be surprise, I've been nursing this for a long time. Please, don't reject me.
Her: ok
You: prostrate gbalaja and say thank you Toyozzie mi owon, lobatan.
nice one bro, I LOVE YOU?....just like that?have u heard of pepper spray?
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by hertz9te(m): 8:48am On Oct 17, 2014
Tymax:
Learn to flatter women. They cannot resist a well phrased compliment.

If you notice a new hairdo, tell her the style suits her perfectly. Check out her eyes, smile even her voice. Say something nice about her colours. Smile while you are at it. grin Women are natural but mild narcissists. Feed their vanity bro.

Make sure your compliments are truthful and not made up. A woman would always prefer the company of a man who makes her feel good about herself. Don't over do it though. You wouldn't need to tell her you like her. She will glean that info from your conversation.

Don't talk about her figure for now. Save it for next time.
thats very smart if we talking bout how to get a girls attention
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by hertz9te(m): 8:52am On Oct 17, 2014
EpicNigerian:
@Op,

If you see a girl u really like,don't just start telling her u like her....that's like super lame.

First,you walk up to her with all the confidence u can muster. And then you start a conversation with her(you don't necessarily need to introduce urself first)

Let's say u guys met in a supermarket,and she's checking out perfumes.The convo could go like this,

Boy:Have u used dat before?(pointing to what she's holding)

Girl:yea,why?

Boy:well....erm...my sister's birthday is next week,and i don't knw wht to get her....

Girl:oh,how nice.

Boy:yea,thanks....so,what do u suggest?

Girl:You're funny.....

Boy:I'm serious.

*Girl looks at the boy stylyshly, checking him out if he's worth it*

Girl:well....erm...I don't know o.....how old is she?

Boy:About ur age I guess....

*Girl looks at him with suspicion*

Girl:If that's the case you can get her those(pointing to some ridiculously expensive item in the store.)

Boy:hmm....u have good taste.That's like 5k....thank god her birthday is next week....I'll most def come pick this up for her before then.

Girl:err.....if that's too expensive...u can....

*Boy politely interupts her*

Boy:No....no...not at all....she's my baby sister,she deserves it.

Girl:ok o....if u can afford it,i really think she'll like it.

Boy:Thanks a lot.....by the way, my name is Epic.....

Girl:Ok...I'm Beyonce....

(Don't tell her she has a beautiful name.She has proly heard that like a million times before)

Boy:Cool....so,I'm inviting you to the birthday party....can u make it?

Girl:err....i don't think so o....

*Boy politely interupts*

Boy:Ok,can i have ur number,so i can call u up to know if u changed ur mind?

Girl:I'm not sure I'll change my mind.

Boy:I know....i know....but can i still just have d number just in case.

Girl:....just in case what? *smiling*

Boy:You never can tell,maybe some of those ur important engadgments could be postponed....u never can tell.

Girl:Ok....ermm....I'm really running late right now.....uhmm...ok,this my number,081.........but don't call me late....I usually go to bed early....

Boy:Ok...got it....its been nice talking with you....do have a nice day.

Girl:yea,u too bye.

Now,you will have to finish up the whole thing on phone. And since u lied to her that ur sister is having a party,u may consider buying that particular gift she showed you for her on your next date to make up for the lie.

Also,remember that you have to wait for like 2 or 3 days before calling,so u won't come off as being too needy but don't keep her waiting any longer than that.
nice one but my point is still not gotten.........how do you scope her?what do you tell her,how do make her date u?
Re: Asking A Girl Out:101 by EpicNigerian(m): 9:35am On Oct 17, 2014
hertz9te:
nice one but my point is still not gotten.........how do you scope her?what do you tell her,how do make her date u?
Confidence is the key here.What u have to say and how to say it is not really important.

Just try starting a conversation with her first.Don't even introduce urself,just walk up to her with confidence and be very polite.

If u meet her at the bustop,u can start by asking to know what time is it, or about the weather.If u guys met after a church service,start by asking if she attends the church regularly,afterwards ask her if she enjoyed the service.....then you can build up from there,depending on how she recieved you.

There is no surefire way of asking a girl out. But as a rule of thumb.....do not tell her you love her on the first day u saw her.

Remember,confidence and the ability to use what's happening around u,as at that very moment to start up a conversation is the key.Don't waste her time and try to get her number as quick as u can,that's your number 1 priority.

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