Odunharry: u cud actually talk with her lyk a mother

martha:
Can u imagine? What kindda advice are u rendering? Do not compare her to any1... This is Nigeria... It is not advisable for her to date... She is one year from being an adult but with d way she posts and her pic, u can tell she aint mature enuf to handle relationships... "Kiss her b4 her parents"? Ur talking to a 17 year old for God's sakes and not a 21 year old... Na wa for u o

Op, if u date now, guys will just come and chop mouth, clean mouth and tell u bye-bye... My advice, try internet dating first.... U gatta start from sumwhere... My advice to those who wanna date for d 1st time is "Try Internet Dating First"... I am hungry... Lemme go and look for sumtin to eat...

larride:

How pa antelope and them pikin them?

Nifemi_cutie: Thank you...bt i want u to knw am afraid of getting a husband in future nt nau

xp17: she's not too young for it . Her counterparts in West start riding cars at 16 and paying tuition at 18. We need to bring quick awareness to them, but with proper guide along.
Many nija children re backward in taking up responsibilities ,becos they start most adulthood stuffs very late, their parents rather they read bible than talking abt sex. Trust me , either u teach them or not, they must know, pray they don't learn from the wrong sources.


Op, all u need is always let ur relationship with guys b open to ur parent, Mk him com and pick u un ur house and kiss u b4 ur parent, if not just no d guy is a joke.
At ur age, y re exposed to series of mistakes, well it's normal , but some cud b avoidable. Mk sure u know why u want whatever u need right now, don't just do it becos odas re doing same. Mk a suitable unique definition abt ur life.


But remeba school is not an option

Bros, I guess you didn't read much meaning to what I wrote before quoting me.

I advised her to face her studies, and that she's too young to be thinking nagative.

Did you read the part where she said she went to see a pastor to find out if something is wrong with her spiritually?

At 17? Huh

Nifemi_cutie: Thank you...bt i want u to knw am afraid of getting a husband in future nt nau

dis issue is making me cry all day cos my
getting married to a husband in future is at
stake

born_to_be_gr8t: says who? The woman that robbed me of my virginity is old enough to be my mother,i didnt even knw where to put my prick... But nw i have the experience cos i started early abeg let d girl flex,cos na end time we dey

skydeep: @Op. Who told you having a boyfriend at 17 makes you a beautiful girl? A lot of ugly girls are carrying unwanted pregnancy out there.

What makes you a beautiful girl depends on how you live your life. You are still young and fresh and in order to make your dreams come true and make your parents proud of you, you will have to forget about dating for now. Everything has time when it occurs but when you try to force it to occur at the wrong time, it hurts you badly. Keep it cool.

Nadia_SA1: S that u on ur profilepic..

wonlasewonimi: Go and read your ababio and stop looking for boyfriends

kunletiwoo:

May God bless your generation.

slap1: Now this is funny. When I was even 18/19, girls (older and younger) come after me, but I had little interest in them. So, just take it easy. Marriage shouldn't be on your 'to-do' list yet. Read novels, read your textbooks, and grow up a little more.

born_to_be_gr8t: says who? The woman that robbed me of my virginity is old enough to be my mother,i didnt even knw where to put my prick... But nw i have the experience cos i started early abeg let d girl flex,cos na end time we dey

wonlasewonimi: Go and read your ababio and stop looking boyfriends

Nifemi_cutie: Thanks evri1 for ur candid advice....i tink nau i realise am nt suppose to be over reacting abt dis issue at dis present...its jux dat i feel awkward evritime i think abt nt avin sumone am dating bt wit all ur advices nd the ones dat ar yet to come i tink i'll av to concentrate more on my studies nd 4get totally abt dis disturbing issue nd hope sumtime some sum1 for me wil definitely cum my way....Thanks once again to my uncles nd aunties hu gave their advice nd encouragement for dose hu gave insults also

fijiano202: am dumb-struck by ur level of stewpidity,u are dumber than the 17 yrs old girl that you are advicing,Why do u people like derailing thread for no Reason,Are u trying to advice or encourage her go continue Searching.Secondly Are we in the West,Do govt offer student loan at 18 in nigeria? is this the same advice u will give to ur Lil Sister? Forrking Dumbo

martha: Oh! I remember u... Ur d guy who created d "Never marry a girl u havent slept with" thread... No wonder ur supporting this... Smh... Ur wicked

martha: Oh! I remember u... Ur d guy who created d "Never marry a girl u havent slept with" thread... No wonder ur supporting this... Smh... Ur wicked

skydeep:
If she wishes.

slap1: Babe you still have a long way to go, just chill. I'm over 25 and no girlfriend yet (and I'm not ugly). People suggest I'm gay, but I know better. Next year (hopefully) I'll be ready to date. Get your WAEC, enter the uni and see what happens.

I like your complexion, by the way.

martha: u seem to me like someone whose parents are "No Nonsense" Pple... When I was ur age, I thought abt dating too... So I asked my mum:
"Mum, when do u think I should start dating"
She told me to wait until I was 18... By 18, u would be free and confident in ur love life... Some pple who date below 18 have "back-yard" boifrndz who come visiting when no one is around and who they sneak to visit... 18 is d official age to be considered an adult. By then, d guy u date will be an official boifrnd too... Ur parents will have no cause to complain that ur too young abi dem no want make u marry? Ur parents, especially ur mum will be 100% involved in ur love life... When u av a clash wif ur partner, U tell her and she'll advise u... I love my mum for that... She is strict agreed! but deep down, shez soft when it comes to matters of d heart... She'll advice me day in and day out... Even when I bring home a guy she doesnt like, she'll point it out but of course, in private... Just be focused... Btw, are u still in secondary scul? If no, I bet u graduated this year and ur waiting to write Jamb next yr... M I correct? Infact! Wait till ur year 2 in d uni

born_to_be_gr8t: pulease na my mind i talk abeg

Nifemi_cutie: i wud like if you can MA cos i dnt av a mother to do dat my mum died while she was giving birth to me though staying wit step mother she hates me nd she s too harsh to do dat