stracey:
d same thing here too.. although i have a girlfriend and i can say we have nt had sex for like four years ago we started..but I don't complain about sex cos i self service. bt now i want a stop am getting older

stracey: Am a 22 year old guy. i would say i started self servicing when i was at 16. i never thought i would do it at first. i was just bathing that day and i just noticed it sweets me when i wash my private part. and it all started that way. i did it and it came out. i so much enjoyed it and since then i have been an addict. I am a devoted worshipper and often times i pray and fast even keep begging God for mercy. There has never been anytime i go to God in prayer that he doesn't answer but dis very issue is critical. I think i need deliverance. There was a time i cried to God. so it seized for some months and later i began again. my girlfriend knows about this and she kept hammering that anytime i feel like i should be strong and resist it..very unfortunate for Me i will still fall. Even i have done it today.i have had series of guys and girls complain about this but I NEED SOMEONE Who can profer a lasting SOLUTION to this..pls no insults please am so downcast about this and it bothers me alot . PLS HELP!!!! I HATE the act. God bless u

stracey: cheat ke ? if u know d love between Jesus and God. then u can find it here wt my babe n i..i trust her with my last breath and she does. I thank God now she understands me and we are all good in d relationship..we both prefer kiss n dats all..we ain't kids should incase u doubt.. am 25 she s 23.

stracey: Am a 22 year old guy. i would say i started self servicing when i was at 16. i never thought i would do it at first. i was just bathing that day and i just noticed it sweets me when i wash my private part. and it all started that way. i did it and it came out. i so much enjoyed it and since then i have been an addict. I am a devoted worshipper and often times i pray and fast even keep begging God for mercy. There has never been anytime i go to God in prayer that he doesn't answer but dis very issue is critical. I think i need deliverance. There was a time i cried to God. so it seized for some months and later i began again. my girlfriend knows about this and she kept hammering that anytime i feel like i should be strong and resist it..very unfortunate for Me i will still fall. Even i have done it today.i have had series of guys and girls complain about this but I NEED SOMEONE Who can profer a lasting SOLUTION to this..pls no insults please am so downcast about this and it bothers me alot . PLS HELP!!!! I HATE the act. God bless u

25omega: it sounds harsh but its good advice. The poster is fighting biology. You are genetically coded to want to procreate. All these praying and fssting is good but it wont help you. You either need to find a girl or your maztrubation will conyinue. It is your animal instinct to want to mate so stop fighting it.
I had your problem too and I solved it by connecting with the woman I plan to marry.
Wisdom.

lana_Vello: I still find it absurd that guys do this stuff anyways @op,you sound addicted so it might be quite add quitting. Maybe you should quick to dyt's advice!
closeted homo/stupidity

nenergy: Nobody wakes up and says; "i will do it today". it is usually triggered. some via thought, others via exposure to even the mildest form of indecency. my brother, steer clear of all triggers and engage yourself....when ur mind begins to drift, seek the company of people

stracey:
d same thing here too.. although i have a girlfriend and i can say we have nt had sex for like four years ago we started..but I don't complain about sex cos i self service. bt now i want a stop am getting older

vickyO: You said you have fasted and prayed, while fasting you sometimes get tempted to eat, at times you dream of food but because you want your issue resolved you keep at it. Self service can be stopped if you put your mind to it.. Joseph Prince said you'll start acting right the moment you start believing right.. Believe you can quit the action and you'll end up being victorious.

But note faith without works is dead, believe you can stop and work towards it by avoiding lonely corners, subduing the erotical thoughts, et ceteRa...

Yomieluv: Masturbation: Tips and Warnings
1
Stop punishing yourself. Consider it this way: if you're constantly dwelling on the disapproval of masturbating, you're still thinking about masturbation all the time. Don't just trade in your masturbation addiction for another one — they're so closely related that you won't resolve anything. Instead, acknowledge that this has been a problem for you, but you will persevere to stop the impulse.

Remember, you're human. Humans make mistakes, and they have sexual urges. Neither of these things makes you a bad person. Forgive yourself, and keep in mind that you are more than the sum of your mistakes.
Resist the urge of sinking into despair by remembering the times spent feeling sorry for yourself when it could have been spent relinquishing your addiction.

2
Remove anything that tempts your urge to masturbate. Some common enablers include:
Access to pornographic material: If you have a collection and you're serious about quitting masturbation, you'll have to dispose of it. Burn or shred paper, Don't wipe your hard drive just delete the sexy pictures, and set up parental controls on your Internet browser that block adult content.
Certain times of the day: If you have problems before going to bed or in the shower, refrain from any temptation to masturbate. For instance, if it's a problem late at night, drop to the floor and do push-ups until you're too exhausted to do anything but fall asleep. If you find shower time too tempting, start using ice cold water only — you won't want to be in there for long.
Boredom: If you have so little to do that your mind frequently wanders to sexual thoughts, occupy your schedule. You'll find it gets easier to avoid masturbation if you're too busy or tired to spare any energy for distractions.
Loneliness: If you masturbate frequently because you feel lonely, find ways to limit your solitude. For instance, instead of watching the game at home by yourself, watch it at a sports bar. Even if you're not hanging out with friends, you will not be alone, ultimately having no time for masturbation.

3
Find another outlet for your time and energy. Fill your life with engaging activities. The excitement of doing something different can help replace the urge to masturbate, and you'll have a go-to distraction next time you're tempted. Try some of these options.

Get creative. The process of turning sexual urges into creative output (called sublimation) is something on which monks and sages have relied upon for centuries. Start writing, learn to play a musical instrument, paint, draw, or do whatever else makes you feel like you're doing something productive.
Do sports. It takes discipline and persistence to excel at a sport. Develop an interest like running or swimming, or a group sport like soccer, football, basketball, or tennis.
Eat healthy. Fruits and vegetables have healthy effects on the body and provide nutrients necessary to increase your energy to be more active throughout the day.
Find a new hobby, or cultivate a skill. Learning something that takes a while to master can refocus your brain on the delayed gratification of achieving goals instead of the instant

Dyt:

Its wen u jerk off with ur hand or dig hole in bed
Imagining u with some gal
Am sure this is coded enuf

vickyO:
If your woman leaves you or denies you sex what then will happen? You'll continue the bad habit... The op is seeking to stop this bad habit. Having a partner can't stop it entirely. Me think some of you live in a different planet, haven't you heard of married people masturbating? Most times the habit wrecks marriages.


Sorry but your advice isn't quite reasonable.

Wizdray: Hun hun? But s0metimes when a guy see badt curve + bosom nd later in da nyt...he started remembering wt he had saw nd eventualy slept off, nd wen he woke up wit semen 0n hz bed sheet. Is dat also self service?

Austeenx: [size=30pt]Mastûrbätïon is the sweetest thing there is. Don't ever think 'bout stopping it, Satan will not be happy. [/size]

proxillin:

Repeat after me "I am sick"
Lastly, say "I am a dirt bag" silently.

Dyt:

Wet dreams
Awon aye must have masturbated u
Hehehehehehe

Wizdray: lolz! I return it back to Yu. Both Aye and Orun gonna masturbate Yu, lol. Dat 1 no b masturbation jhor as i learnt 4rm biology text book. Pls Sis, some may even menti0n al sort creams, vaseline, engine oil, wt ar they using them 4? I swear to my creator, i havnt done it b4 nd d spirit wont enter ma mind. Jux wanna knw

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Lols. In order words, let him cut off his dick? Self discipline and determination to free yourself from it will help a great deal. Also do away with any materials in terms of pornography or environment that can trigger the urge. Thank me later.

Dyt:
Lmao
Ewo ni tepe
Buahahhahahahahahahhahahahaha