Love_Decay: Why do guys have this issue all the time..... ooh my girlfriend is spending to much time with that guy or my girlfriend did not call me , and it was my birthday....

Have men become so effeminate, incapable of thinking with their instincts and making decision for the long run (especially in these cases).

OP, the following are my conclusions:

1. You thinking emotionally, hence you inability to think - therefore you are feeling not thinking, so your feeling Jealousy and whats worse is that you may have shown it (too much). I fear you have shown jealousy any chance you get - cos you're a "feel instead or think kinda guy" .

2. Your so called heartthrob, may be testing you but i seem to doubt this; as you mentioned she has done so , more than once.

3. Your chick may be unconsciously/consciously trying out her options - which is a much more stronger hypothesis since your a feel kinda of guy (translate to bendable (soft word) or weak (harsh word) )

4. In a relationship, the individual who complains, cries, whines the most is weak party ( or the one that is most in love ! ).

5. Since, you took the time to complain here ( what your actually doing is letting out a big SOS signal online ) for a feely kinda that's understandable, if you where a girl , you might wash your hair or paint your toe nails while listening to celine dion, ricky martin and the likes.

The Solution to Your Problem:

1. Learn to give women technical knockouts. Stop complaining anytime, they do something wrong - that is their job. If she say's she wants to go to the cinema with another guy, tell her it's o.k ( make sure she has enough money (ask her) ). You can even pick a dress for her, if your like me you could choose a hot number ( something sexy ) for her just to ante' up.

When she return, do not ask her about her night instead make sure you kept yourself busy with your online projects, video games or #HeinekenSK , learn to act a fool while gathering data. You see to give women technical knockout's you need to data and lots of it, so why not indulge her in as many activities as possible to gather "Data"

Now, use you data to make a decision - That is how to give women technical knockouts, by staying cool, calm and in control you see more than you feel and you think much clearly cos your gathering data and referencing them and drawing out pattern's.

WELCOME TO THE DARK SIDE

toke8: pls i need good advice. From what i have said here, should i go ahead and end d relationship?

Ola def2: pretending to be robin hood infront of some kinda nigerian gurls I pity u much

Love_Decay: Why do guys have this issue all the time..... ooh my girlfriend is spending to much time with that guy or my girlfriend did not call me , and it was my birthday....

Have men become so effeminate, incapable of thinking with their instincts and making decision for the long run (especially in these cases).

OP, the following are my conclusions:

1. You thinking emotionally, hence you inability to think - therefore you are feeling not thinking, so your feeling Jealousy and whats worse is that you may have shown it (too much). I fear you have shown jealousy any chance you get - cos you're a "feel instead or think kinda guy" .

2. Your so called heartthrob, may be testing you but i seem to doubt this; as you mentioned she has done so , more than once.

3. Your chick may be unconsciously/consciously trying out her options - which is a much more stronger hypothesis since your a feel kinda of guy (translate to bendable (soft word) or weak (harsh word) )

4. In a relationship, the individual who complains, cries, whines the most is weak party ( or the one that is most in love ! ).

5. Since, you took the time to complain here ( what your actually doing is letting out a big SOS signal online ) for a feely kinda that's understandable, if you where a girl , you might wash your hair or paint your toe nails while listening to celine dion, ricky martin and the likes.

The Solution to Your Problem:

1. Learn to give women technical knockouts. Stop complaining anytime, they do something wrong - that is their job. If she say's she wants to go to the cinema with another guy, tell her it's o.k ( make sure she has enough money (ask her) ). You can even pick a dress for her, if your like me you could choose a hot number ( something sexy ) for her just to ante' up.

When she return, do not ask her about her night instead make sure you kept yourself busy with your online projects, video games or #HeinekenSK , learn to act a fool while gathering data. You see to give women technical knockout's you need to data and lots of it, so why not indulge her in as many activities as possible to gather "Data"

Now, use you data to make a decision - That is how to give women technical knockouts, by staying cool, calm and in control you see more than you feel and you think much clearly cos your gathering data and referencing them and drawing out pattern's.

WELCOME TO THE DARK SIDE

toke8:
she even advised me to hang with one of my female friends dat is known to her while she hangs out the guy.

Ola def2: pretending to be robin hood infront of some kinda nigerian gurls I pity u much

Ola def2: pretending to be robin hood infront of some kinda nigerian gurls I pity u much

addictiv: These gurls arent worth it. How can you cry n whine for someone who has decided to catch her fun outside. She knows that you wont do anything n even if you re upset, you love her too much to kick her out. She knows she can fool around n still come back shedding crocodile tears and you ll welcome her back. I have one advise for you....BE RUTHLESS n tolerate no crap from her.

P.s I am not asking you to beat her. Real men dnt beat women

addictiv: These gurls arent worth it. How can you cry n whine for someone who has decided to catch her fun outside. She knows that you wont do anything n even if you re upset, you love her too much to kick her out. She knows she can fool around n still come back shedding crocodile tears and you ll welcome her back. I have one advise for you....BE RUTHLESS n tolerate no crap from her.

P.s I am not asking you to beat her. Real men dnt beat women

addictiv: These gurls arent worth it. How can you cry n whine for someone who has decided to catch her fun outside. She knows that you wont do anything n even if you re upset, you love her too much to kick her out. She knows she can fool around n still come back shedding crocodile tears and you ll welcome her back. I have one advise for you....BE RUTHLESS n tolerate no crap from her.

P.s I am not asking you to beat her. Real men dnt beat women

toke8:
frm her brith d, she is aries. Though i dont believe in astrology.

toke8:
she has been pleading with me since yesterday nite. She even refused goin to church because she said am making her feel like she cheated on me. She has been saying sorry countless number of times. I av promised myself not to be gentle or nice to her again till i see full evidence dat she really loves like she said. She broke my trust in her.

Truckpusher: Got info that my girl visited her ex with her friend ,confronted her ,she admitted to it and i walked.

I walked and i never looked back ,this was even after meeting her mom and her siblings but i walked

My advice to you right now is to walk or you'll have to take that walk with so much pains and emotions on your already battered shoulder ,doubt me at your own peril.

toke8:
Thanks bro. Exactly wat i av done. She has been pleading wit me for d past 3 and a half hours dat it was a harmless hangout and it wasnt just d 2 of dem. she never see anything yet. She must suffer for dis. Lolz

toke8: My gf called to say she wants to go to silverbird galleria with anoda guy dat i dont know. I asked her not to go because am not comfortable with it since i dont know d guy in question. I asked to take her there instead, she said no. I asked dat we all go together (including d guy), and she said no. And dis is d 2nd different guy asking to take her to d cinemas in 3days. She said dey are her friends around where she works and dat she wont do anything stupid.
Could she have been cheating on me?