Dyt: Its nothing
Don't worry much
He might be fast aslp, am sure he's eager to read/hear frm u

*i know that feeling, exactly how u feeling right now*
Don't get mad at ursef ok
Jast calm down

Assume he's aslp

buttercream:
Thanks. I'm really grateful. Guess I needed that push. I'll try not to get/stay mad @ me. Thank you *hug*

Dyt:

U need do smth to fall aslp
Try get busy chat,music,movie

buttercream:

Music
Is that you in your profile pic btw?

Dyt:

Chuckles
Not exactly
Bt similar
*winks*

Dyt: Go get some slp gal
I wanna read cool story tomorrow
If he no gree reply u, go him office and lambast him with kisses

buttercream:

I pray oo. Thanks dear. Tgc.

Dyt:

The slp wld come
Look for trouble too
Go on any thread, abuse anybody
I am right behind u
Hehehehee

buttercream:

Lol...I can't e-fight please..lol...from what I've noticed, some nairalanders are REALLY nasty
I'll probably just browse through threads and listen to songs till I crash.

Rexphobia:
Yes, love is sweet. You may mean the world to each other, but don't get trapped in the euphoria of my world evolves around my spouse

anitank: No offence miss but I actually think you're proud.

"I'm sorry baby, I was busy with something that's why I couldn't call till now". That would have solved it.

Then again I don't think you love him as much, if not you wouldn't let that day go by without calling him back...But four days?? C'mon

And the more you stay without communication, the more time you give him to re-evaluate "things"

Fkforyou: Personaly,I feel he is suffocating her with his over presence,she wants to know how it would feel like to miss him.
Anyway just appologise to let things slide.

Lamlif on mic: Somex it happen that the poster is more far matured than the advisers on nairaland,that makes one wonder what kind of advice these people can give.People are just shouting apologise!apologised!!they don't see the danger in the character of her guy,is hell when u have a guy that talk a whole day on issue that can be settled within 15 minutes,a marriage can be threaten by that single attitude of him.As for the poster I will advice you to change him once and for all before you marry him,if you are able to change such terrible character in him I tell you you have achieved a lot,and you have built a marriage of peace without agony for yourself.As you rightly said to [b]apologise mean it won't happen again and next time if such happen I bet you he will talk for 5 days accusing you of insurbodination.[/b]Take your stand now and let him know chatting 247 is impossible as you are busy doing other things even if you are not,just let him get used to it.If you don't do this now by the time you are employed he will be a pain in your neck and such a man can make you loose concentration at work which may result to you loosing the job,thinking about a guy you are in love with 247 or chatting him 247 can make you loose your own personal track in life as you have build all hope and focus on him.What if he dumps you at the end?then your eyes will be open and you will sit down to count your loss.You are realy a mature lady for seeing it from this angle you are seeing it unfortunately majority of your advisers are shallow minded. They are too young to reason like adult shouting apologise mtchew.You are on the right track liberate yourself,this singular act of him is enough evidence one should be bothered if your marriage with him will be peaceful and last,but if you love him try to stand your ground so as to change him if not be looking for alternative as u still keeps him.

buttercream:

you don't understand. Thanks anyway. Good morning

anitank:
Ok maybe I don't, but you should not to take things way to far. I can tell it bothers you already so why hurt yourself? Try settling this issue before the end of the day ok?

Good morning and I'm sorry if I sounded a little harsh

uj_sizzle: That's one strange man i must say. He loves you alright, but the incessant calling and keeping in touch can be tiring. I know that because i find long talks really mentally exhausting.
Your fiance should already know this by now. If he's going to sulk for four days because you didn't call for a few hours, then you two need to sit down and talk.
Reach a compromise dear, there's only so much a person can take

Now, about those long talks Some people just love to go on and on and on even when they've obviously made their point clear in the first few minutes, and they repeat the same things all the time. So here's what I do(from one sis to another ), I let my mind wander once i've gotten the whole idea of the 'talk'. Find a rhythm, and drop the occasional 'hmmm' 'uh huh' 'ok' etc. Seriously, don't fall asleep that's annoying You just need to find a way to work around it.
Always have something to fiddle with, that'll help keep you alert and wear a poker face.

It's a good thing he talks about your issues dear, appreciate that

Suzie 0.:
Swallowing my pride is one thing i h.ate doing. Buh when it comes to a relationship, dont let it spoil things for you. So please, just say i'm sorry and end this whole drama. #my opinion#

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buttercream:

Good evening He replied my text in the a.m...but we didn't get to talk till some minutes ago...still haven't really talked, seems he's been busy.

Dyt:

I jst hope he's nt formin bn busy
Mayb he wanna swap hehehehhehehe
Cos dat sounds unlike him right?

Don't worry, everyth will work out fine
I dey fast n pray for u

Dyt: Glad u back
I like to hear/read stories like this
Reminds me when I was in love
Hehehhehhe

onegig:

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