josieboy: Fake story . pixs of msgs or it never happened

coolandcute: please don't annoy me,am in a hurt mood right now and i need people advice,please if you don't have any advice for me please just shut up.

physise: easy

Cykik: If she says shes having a crush, which can be obsession or infatuation. She would still get over it and maybe by then she would realize her mistake and let her pray that you haven.t moved on cos its hard to please some thats infatuated..

Bt i dnt know what to tell you to do cos am not sure of what i want 2say. But so long as she's obsessed, theirs nothing you'ld do to please her cos she even told it 2ur face.

What if she's testing you? Biko. Its time to use your brain like studying her mood,character and how she behaves towards you. Thats my best for now.

enigmagu1: BEST advice....go look for anoda girl.....

Donalð Genes: Op, should I comment?

LogoDWhiz: Sorry for what's happening bro..
This is my advice for you... Try and be more romantic, show her more love.. She's your gf, prove to her why she must remain with you.. Don't insult the guy or girl, keep it cool.. Remind her of the happy days.. You've been dating for 3 years, there should be some happy moments.. Just make her feel the love again.. And that's all...
If she doesn't change after all this.. Let her be bro.. So many fish in the sea.. She doesnt worth u again..
My two cents..

coolandcute: please don't annoy me,am in a hurt mood right now and i need people advice,please if you don't have any advice for me please just shut up.

Pretyangel25: Maybe she's tired of you

coolandcute: thats my concern now,she is behaving in a strange way for the past 3 weeks now,and i asked her if i offended her and she said i did not,but the way she is behaving recently is making me sad,am just confused.

Cykik: dats the problem,they know that you didn't offend them but you are nt in their mind again. There is nothing you can do to please some one thats obsessed. Give her more time cos infatuation dont last but their are chances that shes likely to ave a crush with some one else again cos true love knows no crushes. Perhaps shes tired of you
i cant tell you how to test her and see if shes testing you since u said shes an nlander and she would see peoples advice and know your next movement....to knw if she would keep you incase things dnt go well with her crushee. I hope u get me
cos maybe when shes 2ru with her fake love, she would say she was testing you.
Bt if her attitude is unbearable, just give her a red flag.

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Please everyone am in a very bad situation right now,i have a gf and our relationship is about 3 years now but recently we started having issues with each other because she said directly to my face that she is having crush on a guy here on nairaland and what made me more annoyed was that she is sent different love text messages to the guy begging him to give her a chance in his life that she wants to date him,i saw all this when i collected her phone yesterday and i was able to get the moniker of the foolish guy that my babe is crushing on,his moniker is "leavestory"


Please guys what can i do?because i don't want to loose my babe,i love her so much and she is the best thing that has happened to me.but with the way things are it seems the guy is winning my babe heart,am confused,because of that i am now following my babe on nairaland so that i can monitor her move. Because that idiot called "leavestory"is stealing her heart.

I feel like stabbing the guy to death.am so angry.

coolandcute: thats the problem,i can't give her a red flag ,i love her so much,have spent three years of my life with her,its not suppose to end this way.

freda506: His moniker,

deejay_harry1:


ofio nu ooo..

grabs popcorn, spreads mat

coolandcute: is the spelling not correct?